Nini Ukuyeka Ukubona Abanye Abantu Namathiphu Okuthandana Okwengeziwe

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Uma ungashadile futhi uhamba ngezinsuku, umbuzo owodwa uqinisekisiwe ukuthi uzohlanganiswa nokuthi yini okufanele ugqoke nokuthi nini ukuthumela umbhalo: Zingaki izinsuku okufanele zibe khona ngaphambi kokuba omunye wenu aphakamise ukuthi kulobubusuku kube The Night (uyazi, ukuze uthole phezu)? Ngokujabulisayo, i-Time Out ihlolisise abantu abangaphezu kwe-11,000 emadolobheni angama-24 emhlabeni jikelele ukusiza ukuphendula lo mbuzo.

Ama-singles yonke indawo anqume ukuthi izinsuku ezingama-3.53 nje isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuba omunye wenu alahle umqondo wokubuyela ekhaya ndawonye ngaphandle kokubukeka njenge-horndog. (Thola lokho okushiwo yi-Emojis ne-CrossFit Mayelana Nempilo Yakho Yothando.)

Uma usukulungele ukuba nobungane ngemva kobusuku obubodwa, nokho, kungase kungahambi kahle: Umuntu oyedwa kwabayi-10 kuphela ocwaningwayo obheka ucansi njengesicelo esinengqondo ekupheleni kosuku lokuqala (nakuba amaphesenti angu-20 agcine esengenile ngemuva kokuthola ucansi). isidlo sakusihlwa esisodwa, ngakho-ke, kubonakala sengathi abanye bethu badinga ukuqinisa ukuzimisela kwethu).

Ngokuphathelene nokunye ukuphela kusihlwa, ngaphezulu kwesigamu sethu siqabula ubusuku obuhle ngemuva kosuku lokuqala, ngenkathi ngaphansi kwengxenye yesine kunamathele esikhundleni sokuvalelisa okungahambi kahle (sikubheke, ukuxhawula). Amaphesenti angamashumi amabili nesishiyagalombili athi izinsuku zabo zokuqala zivame ukuphela ngokudumala, kodwa cishe isigamu sesivele sikhulume mayelana nosuku lwesibili. ("Yini Konakala?" Ukuqomisana Dilemmas, Kuchaziwe) Kepha ucwaningo luphinde luthi mhlawumbe uzokwazi ukuthi yiluphi uhlangothi lobubanzi obukulo cishe ngokushesha: Cishe uhhafu wabaphenduli bathi bayazi ukuthi bafuna usuku lwesibili babili kuphela imizuzu emithathu ungene kweyokuqala (lokho kushesha ukwedlula yonke imfudumalo yakho yokuzivocavoca!).

Okunye okungaqondakali okwenziwe ngocwaningo: Kufanele uyeke ukubona abanye abantu ngemuva kwezinsuku eziyisithupha, futhi kulungile ukuqala ukukhiphela ngaphandle "isoka" ngemuva kwesishiyagalolunye. Futhi kulungile ukwenza kancane kancane ngaphambi kwedethi yokuqala-ngaphezulu kwesigamu sabantu abangashadile emadolobheni emhlabeni jikelele baphenya ngedethi yabo ku-inthanethi ngaphambi kobusuku obukhulu. (Qaphela le mikhuba emi-4 eku-inthanethi ethi akayona impahla yesoka.)

Mayelana nokuthi sithandana nobani, umuntu oyedwa kwabahlanu wabantu okwaxoxwa nabo bake bathandana nomngane womngani wakhe, kanti oyedwa kwabayishumi wathandana nomphathi wabo. Nokho, abantu abangamaphesenti angu-38 baye bathandana nothile asebekomunye ubudlelwano kakade—amaphesenti angu-41 kubo asebeshadile kakade! (Ufuna amaqiniso amnandi kakhulu? Bheka Ucwaningo lwethu Lokungathembeki: Kubukeka Kanjani Ukukopela.)

Idolobha ngalinye ngaphandle kweParis libalula ukuphola online njengendlela engcono yokuthola amaphuzu ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku. Futhi nakuba i-Tinder ingase iwushintshe unomphela umdlalo wokuqomisana, abantu empeleni bajabule kakhulu ngokuya esikoleni esidala ngokusetha okuhle kwe-ol: amaphesenti angu-62 abantu athi izinsuku zabo ezijabulisa kakhulu zinomuntu abahlangane naye ngabangane.

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