Isizathu Sokuba Inja Yakho Izonde Isoka Lakho Langaphambili Le-Jerk

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Uyazi ukuthi inja yakho iyakukhumbula lapho usuhambile, ikuthanda ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye (yilokho okushiwo yilawo ma-slobbery asele embhedeni wakho, akunjalo?), Futhi ifuna ukukuvikela ekulimaleni. Kepha umuzwa wakhe wokuzivikela udlulela ngaphesheya kwezingwejeje ezinobungozi kanye nomfana we-UPS yonke indlela eya kulabo osondelene kakhulu nawe, kufaka phakathi okunye kwakho okuphawulekayo. Umdlwane wakho ubheke ukuthi isoka lakho likuphatha kanjani. Futhi lapho ebona umuntu wakho omthandayo engakuphathi kahle, akesabi ukukhombisa ukungenami kwakhe ngokugwema ijezi, ngokusho kwentsha Ukubuyekezwa kwe-Neuroscience ne-Biobehavioral funda. (Okuhlobene: Izindlela Ezingu-15 Zabantwana Abathuthukisa Impilo Yakho)

Abaphenyi baseJapan, okuyikhaya lezindaba ezimnandi kakhulu nezibuhlungu zomnikazi wezinja emlandweni, bahlela uchungechunge lokuzama ukuhlola ukuthi zingakanani izinja nezinkawu ezikunakayo ukuziphatha komunye umuntu esimweni nokuthi ngabe benza izinqumo zokuziphatha ngokwenzekayo. Abacwaningi banikeze umnikazi wenja nomunye umuntu amabhola amathathu umuntu ngamunye futhi babacela ukuba bahlanganyele amabhola bodwa. Khona-ke, umnikazi wayalwa ukuba acele amabhola abo emuva "kumngane" owayebabuyisela ngezinye izikhathi futhi ngezinye izikhathi enqaba, ebonisa ubugovu noma ukungalungile. Ngemva kwalokho, bobabili abantu banikeza inja izibiliboco. Futhi njengoba nje umuntu engenza, inja ikhetha ukunakekelwa kumuntu oye waba nomusa ngamathoyizi akhe futhi wagwema umuntu owenze ngokungafanele. Okutholakele kubonise ukuthi izinja ziyazi kahle ukuthi ezinye zibaphatha kanjani abanikazi bazo.

"Izinja mancane amathuba okuthi zisondele noma zamukele ukudla okunikezwa othile osanda kwenqaba ukusebenzisana nomnikazi wenja," kuchaza uJames R. Anderson, Ph.D., ongumcwaningi oholayo kanye noprofesa eKyoto University. "Uma zinikezwa ithuba lokukhetha phakathi 'kongasizi' nomuntu ongathathi hlangothi, izinja zivame ukugwema umuntu ongasisizi bese ziya kumuntu ongathathi hlangothi esikhundleni salokho."

Ngakho-ke ungalahli imizwa yesilwane sakho mayelana nabantu osondelene nabo, kufaka phakathi umlingani wakho, njengoba benganikeza umbono oqotho ngomlingiswa womuntu, bebona izinto ongahle ungaziboni, kusho u-Anderson. "Inja yakho ingakwazi ukuthola izinkomba zokuziphatha ngesimo somuntu ngawe," uyanezela.

Lolu cwaningo lubheke ngqo ukuthi izilwane zilubona kanjani uhlobo "losizo" futhi mhlawumbe "nokungenzeleli," kepha u-Anderson unezela ngokuthi futhi unentshisekelo yokubheka ukuthi izinja zikubona kanjani ukwethembeka, ukuthembeka, ukukhohlisa nezinye izici zobuntu. Qhubeka futhi ubeke imali ekuphatheni. UFido uyabafanele.

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