Yenza Izinto Zenziwe: Umhlahlandlela Ongokoqobo Wokusebenza Kusuka Ekhaya Nezingane

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• 1. Hlela, uhlele, uhlele
• 2. Namathela esimisweni
• 3. Hlela izinsuku zokudlala
• 4. Yenza isikhathi sesikrini kahle
• 5.Sisebenzise ngokunenzuzo isikhathi sokulala (namanye amahora okulala)
• 6. Yabelana ngomthwalo nomlingani wakho
• 7. Hack imisebenzi yakho yasekhaya
• 8. Gxila ekuqiniseni okuhle
• Ukuthatha
• Abazali Abasemsebenzini: Abasebenza Ngaphambili

Kunesikhathi lapho ngangicabanga ukuthi ukusebenza ekhaya nezingane kwakuyi-unicorn engafinyeleleki yempilo ye-WFH.

Njengomama wezingane ezintathu, ngangibheka abazali abasebenza nezingane endlini ngokuthuka noma ngokwedelela. Bangakwenza kanjani noma yini ngenqwaba yeziphazamiso, izimpikiswano zezelamani, nezicelo zokudla okulula?

Benginesiqiniseko sokuthi laba besifazane nobaba bazi ezinye izimfihlo engingazazi, noma nginezingane ezikwazi ukuzimela kakhulu kunezami.

Kwabe sekuthi… I-COVID-19 yenzeka, futhi yonke imibono enganginayo ngokusebenza ekhaya nezingane yafakwa esivivinyweni sangempela (futhi esinzima kakhulu).

Ngiyazi ukuthi angingedwa. Kulezi zinsuku, lapho kukhanselwe izikole kanye nokunakekelwa kwezingane ezweni lonke, izigidi zabazali zingene ezweni elisha lokulwa nomsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele nokuba ngumzali ngokugcwele.

Ukusebenza ekhaya nezingane akuyona into enhle, kepha uma kunesidingo, lapho kukhona izindlela zokwenza, kahle, sebenza. Ngikhulume nabazali nengqondo yezingane mayelana nokuthi ungaziphatha kanjani izingane ngenkathi wenza umsebenzi wakho - futhi empeleni wenze izinto zenziwe. Nawa amathiphu abo aphezulu.

1. Hlela, uhlele, uhlele

Kunezikhathi eziningi empilweni lapho ukuhlela phambili kungumkhuba omuhle kakhulu - futhi nokusebenza ekhaya nezingane akuyona into ehlukile. Ukuthola okuningi osukwini (noma ngesonto), abazali abanolwazi be-WFH bathola izinzuzo zokucabanga kusengaphambili.

Imvamisa, lokhu kuhlobene nokwenza imephu imisebenzi yansuku zonke, ikakhulukazi leyo ingane yakho engayenza ngenkathi ugxile emsebenzini. Ngokuya ngeminyaka yezingane zakho, lokhu kungabukeka njenganoma yini kusuka ekuphrinteni amakhasi ombala kuya ekubekiseni isabelo se-algebra.

“Ngigodla izabelo ezithile ezingafakwa yizingane ngenkathi ngifundisa,” kusho umama wezingane ezintathu uMelissa A., ofundisa izifundo zomculo ekhaya. "Njengamaphepha okusebenzela, ukufunda buthule nemidlalo yokufunda ye-iPad."

Okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okutholayo ngokuhlela kwangaphambili, lapho ungakuthola khona kuba yimvelo yesibili. Njengoba uya, ungahle ufune nokugcina uhlu olubhaliwe lwezinketho.

“Nginohlu lwemisebenzi abangayenza ngokuzimela abanginikeza okungenani imizuzu engama-20 yesikhathi sokusebenza esizimele. Ngibahlelele uhlobo lomsebenzi engidinga ukuwenza neminyaka yabo, ”kusho umama we-WFH uCindy J.

2. Namathela esimisweni

Uma kunento eyodwa engiyizwe kaninginingi kulabo abaphatha ngempumelelo ukusebenza nokuba ngumzali, ukuthi amashejuli awaxoxiswane. Ukuhlukanisa usuku lube yizinqamu zesikhathi sobabili wena nezingane zakho kwazisa wonke umuntu ukuthi yini angayilindela.

“Ukuba nesheduli ebhaliwe ebhalwe emnyango wakho kubalulekile,” kuqinisekisa isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nesazi sempilo yengqondo yezingane uDkt Roseann Capanna-Hodge. "Uma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukufunda, yiba nezithombe ohlelweni lwakho futhi njalo uvule inkhulumomphendvulwano ngokuthi usuku lwakho lubukeka kanjani."

Ungakhohlwa ukukhuluma ngokulindelekile nezingane zakho, futhi. "Uma unomhlangano ophuthumayo lapho ungenakuphazanyiswa khona, yazisa ingane yakho kusengaphambili," kuncoma uCapanna-Hodge. “Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ungagcini ngokubanikeza i-rundown, kodwa ubakhombise bese ubala izinto abangazenza. Isibonelo, ‘Jack, nazi izinto ezinhlanu eziphezulu ongazenza uma umama esebenza.’ ”

Amashejuli angashintsha, kunjalo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi imisebenzi yomsebenzi yehla ethangeni lakho ngesaziso esifushane, ngakho-ke lungela ukwenza ushintsho njengoba uhamba. (Futhi uzinciphise!) “Uma ungakwazi ukuvumelanisa uhlelo lwakho ukuze wena nengane yakho nenze umsebenzi wenu nobabili ngezikhathi ezifanele, ngakho-ke ungazibambi kanzima futhi wenze okusemandleni akho,” kusho uCapanna-Hodge .

3. Hlela izinsuku zokudlala

Njengabantu abadala, izingane zidinga isikhathi senhlalo. Kepha uma unanyathiselwe ukushaya izingcingo usuku lonke, kungaba nzima ukuvimba uvemvane lwakho lomphakathi ludlale ezinsukwini zokudlala - futhi kuqinise nokuba nezinye izingane endlini yakho. (Ukungasho ukuthi ngesikhathi sobhadane, ukusondelana ngokomzimba kungaba yisidingo.)

Ngokujabulisayo, ngokukhululeka kokuxhumana nge-inthanethi nangocingo, azishodi izindlela izingane ezingakwazi ukuxhumana ngazo zisuka ekhaya.Ezinganeni ezifunda isikole ezingasebenzisa idivayisi ngokuzethemba, zama ukuhlela usuku lokudlala olubonakalayo nomngani, noma ingxoxo yangesonto nesihlobo abangayiboni njalo.

Izinsuku zokudlala ezingokoqobo ziyi-win-win yabazali be-WFH: Akugcini nje ngokunikeza ukuxhumana kwengane yakho, kuyigcina imatasa ukuze ukwazi ukugxila emisebenzini yomsebenzi.

4. Yenza isikhathi sesikrini kahle

Awuwedwa uma ubonge izinkanyezi zakho ezinenhlanhla ngesibusiso semibukiso yezingane kuNetflix. Kepha ngenkathi izikrini zigcina ukunakwa kwezingane kuhlangene, sonke mhlawumbe siyazi ukuthi akunempilo ukuthembela kuzo njengomuntu ogcina izingane.

Ngakho-ke usenza kanjani isikhathi sesikrini kahle njengomzali osebenzela ekhaya? Ngokusho kochwepheshe, kuhlobene nemingcele.

"Kubazali abasebenzayo, badinga ukwenza izinto zabo, futhi ukufaka ingane yabo phambi kobuchwepheshe kungabonakala kuyisixazululo esilula, kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuholela ezingxabanweni eziningi ngemingcele evulekile," kusho uCapanna-Hodge. "Ukubeka imihlahlandlela ecacile mayelana nokuthi isikhathi esingakanani ingane yakho engasisebenzisa kudivayisi yabo kubaluleke kakhulu kubo bobabili umzali nengane."

Faka isikhathi sesikrini kusheduli yansuku zonke oyenzela ingane yakho, futhi lapho iwindi owabelwe selidlulile, zama ukuqiniseka ukuthi amadivayisi ayavalwa.

Uma kushiwo lokho, kunezikhathi - noma ngabe kungubhubhane lomhlaba wonke noma usuku nje lomsebenzi oludinga kakhulu - lapho izingane zakho zingathola isikhathi esingaphezu kwesivamile sesikrini. Zinike umusa futhi ungazizwa unecala kakhulu noma ucindezelekile uma udinga ukukhulula imithetho ngalezi zikhathi.

5.Sisebenzise ngokunenzuzo isikhathi sokulala (namanye amahora okulala)

Ah, isikhathi esimnandi sokulala, sikuthanda kanjani! (Futhi asisho okwethu okwakho isikhathi se-nap - yize lokho kuhle, futhi.) Njengoba umzali esazi, ukunqotshwa kwezingane nsuku zonke kunikeza iwindi lokuqala lokuthula nokuthula ukuze kwenziwe umsebenzi.

Ngokusemandleni, kuwukuhlakanipha ukuhlela imisebenzi edinga ukuthula noma ukugxila lapho wazi (cishe) ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ngeke kube khona ukukhala noma ukudlala ngomsindo ngemuva.

Lapho izingane ziphelelwe isikhathi sokulala, cabanga ukuhambisa eminye imisebenzi iye kwamanye amahora athule, njengokusa ekuseni noma ngemuva kokulala ebusuku. "Ngijabule ukunikela ngesikhathi samahhala ebusuku ukuze sonke sikwazi ukugcina ingqondo iphilile emini," kusho umama we-WFH uJessica K.

Ngisho nezingane ezindadlana zingazijwayeza ukuba nesikhathi sokuthula nsuku zonke. Yakhele esimisweni sosuku - ngemuva kwesidlo sasemini, yithi - ukwenza kuzwakale njengomkhuba futhi kungafani nokuphazamiseka ezinganeni ezisebenzayo. "Siphumula / singafundi isikhathi ngoMsombuluko kuze kube uLwesihlanu," kusho umama wezingane ezinhlanu uMonica D. "Kuthule ngokuphelele futhi kulungele umphefumulo!"

6. Yabelana ngomthwalo nomlingani wakho

“Uma uthole eyodwa, umlingani wakho izidingo ukusiza, isikhathi, ”kusho umama wababili uMelissa P. Uma kungenzeka, ukuthola ukwesekwa komunye umzali wengane yakho kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo ye-WFH-with-kids.

Kuhlala kusiza ukusetha okulindelwe okucacile kokuthi ngubani owenza lokho ekulinganisweni kokunakekelwa kwabantwana, ngakho-ke khetha isikhathi esingeyona ingcindezi yokunquma imininingwane yeshejuli nomlingani wakho noma umzali osebenza naye - bese unamathela kubo.

Uma ungenaye umlingani, zama ukuthola izindlela zokucela usizo ngaphakathi kwesizwe sakho. Noma ngabe ukudideka kwezenhlalo ngesikhathi sobhadane, abangane nabomakhelwane abaningi bangathanda ithuba lokushiya isidlo emnyango wakho noma bathathe umthwalo wokuwasha - vele usho igama.

7. Hack imisebenzi yakho yasekhaya

Lapho wena nezingane nisekhaya, njenge, konke isikhathi, ungahle ubhekane nenselelo yokupheka okwengeziwe nokuhlanza. Ngemuva kwakho konke, igumbi lakho lokuphumula liyigumbi labo lokudlala, igceke lakho liyindawo yabo yokudlala, futhi ikhishi lakho yindawo yabo yokudlela. (Futhi, ungakuthola umane udla ukudla okuningi ekhaya lapho izingane zisekhaya - zilungele impilo yakho, zingalungile ukuhlanzeka kwekhishi lakho.)

Uma imisebenzi yasekhaya isongela ukukuhlula, manje isikhathi sokuyenza ibe lula - noma ukhiphe abambalwa kunabanye. Uma isabelomali sivumela, cabanga ukuletha usizo lokuhlanza noma ukuhlela insizakalo yokudla ngezikhathi ezithile.

Ngenye indlela, ukudla ukudla okulungiselelwe usuku olulodwa ngesonto noma ukusebenzisa izinto zasekhishini zokonga isikhathi kungasindisa impilo. "Ngisebenzisa umpheki ophuza kakhulu, ngakho-ke akudingeki ngime ukuze ngilungiselele ukudla," kusho umama ka-Emma N.

Ungesabi ukwabela izingane zakho imisebenzi efanelekile yokupheka nokuhlanza phakathi nezinsuku. Ngenkathi usonga i-imeyili, bangaqala ukusika imifino yesidlo sakusihlwa noma bathathe amathoyizi. Ibhonasi? Uma imisebenzi yenziwa phakathi nesonto, nonke ningaba nesikhathi esengeziwe ngezimpelasonto sokuphumula.

8. Gxila ekuqiniseni okuhle

Impilo yomzali we-WFH ngumdanso wokupha nokuthatha. Kungathatha isikhashana ukuthola isigqi sakho. Kodwa wenzani lapho izingane zakho zingabonakali nje ukuthi ziyayihlonipha imingcele oyibekile? (Kunezikhathi eziningi kuphela lapho ungama khona ukuze ucingo oluphazamisekile luphazanyiswe ngesicelo esikhulu sangaphansi esisuliwe.)

KULUNGILE ukuhlinzeka ngemiphumela ebonakalayo ezinganeni ezeqa ngokweqile imingcele yomsebenzi wakho. Noma kunjalo, ngezingane zanoma yimuphi ubudala, kungcono ukugxila ekuqiniseni okuhle.

“Izingane akufanele zijeziswe ngokuphusha imingcele oyidalile maqondana nesikhathi sakho somsebenzi. Kunalokho, kufanele baklonyeliswe uma benza umsebenzi omuhle ngokufanelekile, ”kusho uCapanna-Hodge. "Uma sigcizelela izindlela zokuziphatha esizifunayo, kufaka phakathi lapho behlonipha umsebenzi kusuka emingceleni yasekhaya, maningi amathuba okuthi bafunde futhi baphinde lezo zimilo abazifunayo."

Kuyasiza futhi ukucabanga ukuthi "kungani" - kungani ingane ilingisa? Uma uzwelana nesidingo sabo esiyisisekelo futhi uqonde inkinga ebanzi, ukuza nesisombululo nokusebenzisa ukuqiniswa okuhle kuba lula kancane.

Ukuthatha

Njengoba ukusebenza ekhaya kuba yinto evame kakhulu - noma ngabe kungenxa ye-COVID-19 noma ezinye izimo - ngakho-ke, futhi, kuzosebenza endaweni efanayo nezingane zakho. Yize kungahle kungabi lula, kuyalawuleka ngokwengeziwe njengoba isikhathi sihamba.

Ukusebenzisa amasu afanele kungakuthola osukwini ngokukhiqiza okuthe xaxa. (Kepha khumbula ukuthi umkhiqizo wakho awunqumi ukubaluleka kwakho.)

Futhi khumbula ukuthi ukuba nomzali we-WFH kungaba nzima nasezinganeni. Ngakho-ke lapho amahora omsebenzi eseqediwe, yenza konke okusemandleni ukubanika uthando oluningi nokubanaka.

Abazali Abasemsebenzini: Abasebenza Ngaphambili