Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ezinganeni - okufanele ukwazi

Lo mbhalo ukutshela okufanele ukwenze uma usola ukuthi ingane ihlukunyeziwe ngokocansi.

Eyodwa kumantombazane amane nomfana oyedwa kwabayishumi uhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ngaphambi kokuba abe neminyaka engu-18.

Ukuhlukumeza izingane ngokocansi yinoma yimuphi umsebenzi umhlukumezi awenzayo ukuvusa ucansi, kufaka phakathi:

• Ukuthinta isitho sangasese sengane
• Ukuhlikihla isitho sangasese somhlukumezi esikhunjeni noma ezingutsheni zengane
• Ukufaka izinto engquza noma esithweni sangasese sengane
• Ulimi luqabulana
• Ucansi olwenziwa ngomlomo
• Ukuya ocansini

Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kungenzeka futhi ngaphandle kokuthintana ngokomzimba, okufana nalokhu:

• Ukudalula isitho sakhe sangasese
• Ukuba nengane yezithombe zocansi
• Ukuba nengane kubuke izithombe ezingcolile
• Ukushaya indlwabu phambi kwengane

Sola ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi lapho izingane:

• Tshela wena ukuthi bayahlukunyezwa ngokocansi
• Unenkinga yokuhlala noma ukuma
• Ngeke kushintshe ijimu
• Ube nezifo zocansi noma ukhulelwe
• Yazi futhi ukhulume ngocansi
• Baleka
• Yiba nabantu abadala ezimpilweni zabo okubenza bangaxhumani nabanye abantu abadala
• Zigcine kubo futhi ubonakale unezimfihlo

Izingane ezihlukunyezwa ngokocansi zingaba nazo:

• Izinkinga zokulawula amathumbu, njengokuzingcolisa (encopresis)
• Izinkinga zokudla (i-anorexia nervosa)
• Izinkinga ezithinta izitho zangasese noma eziyizicubu, ezinjengezinhlungu lapho uya endlini yangasese, noma ukulunywa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma ukukhishwa
• Ukuphathwa ikhanda
• Izinkinga zokulala
• Ubuhlungu besisu

Izingane ezihlukunyezwa ngokocansi nazo zing:

• Sebenzisa utshwala noma izidakamizwa
• Zibandakanye nezindlela zokuziphatha zocansi ezisengozini enkulu
• Thola amamaki aphansi esikoleni
• Yiba nokwesaba okuningi
• Abafuni ukwenza imisebenzi yabo ejwayelekile

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane ihlukunyeziwe ngokocansi, yenza ingane ihlolwe ngumhlinzeki wezempilo.

• Thola umhlinzeki owaziyo ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Iningi lodokotela bezingane, abahlinzeki bemithi yomndeni, kanye nabahlinzeki bamakamelo okuphuthumayo baqeqeshiwe ukuhlola abantu abahlukunyezwe ngokocansi.
• Ngabe ingane ihlolelwe khona manjalo noma kungakapheli izinsuku ezi-2 kuya kwezi-3 zokuthola ukuhlukunyezwa. Izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi azihlali isikhathi eside, futhi umhlinzeki kungenzeka angakwazi ukusho uma ulinda isikhathi eside kakhulu.

Ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa, umhlinzeki uzo:

• Bheka izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba nangokobulili. Umhlinzeki uzohlola umlomo wengane, umphimbo, ingquza, nepipi noma isitho sangasese sowesifazane.
• Yenza ukuhlolwa kwegazi ukuhlola izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi nokukhulelwa.
• Thatha izithombe zanoma yikuphi ukulimala, uma kudingeka.

Thola ingane noma yikuphi ukunakekelwa kwezempilo okudingekayo. Futhi thola ukwelulekwa ngempilo yengqondo yengane. Amaqembu okusekela asebenzayo angasiza ukufaka:

• Usizo lwezingane - www.childhelp.org
• Ukudlwengulwa, Ukuhlukunyezwa Nenhlalo Yesizwe Inethiwekhi - www.rainn.org

Yazi ukuthi abahlinzeki, othisha, kanye nabasebenzi bokunakekelwa kwezingane kudingeka umthetho ukubika ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Uma kusolwa ukuhlukunyezwa, izinhlaka zokuvikela izingane kanye namaphoyisa azophenya. Ingane kufanele ivikelwe ekuhlukunyezweni. Ingane ingabekwa kumzali ongasebenzisi kabi, esinye isihlobo, noma ekhaya lokunakekelwa.

Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi - izingane

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UMarcdante KJ, uKliegman RM. Ukuhlukunyezwa nokunganakwa kwezingane. Ku: UMarcdante KJ, uKliegman RM, ama-eds. UNelson Essentials Pediatrics. Umhla ka-20. IPhiladelphia, PA: Elsevier; 2019: isahluko 22.

I-US Department of Health and Human Services iwebhusayithi. Isango Lemininingwane Yezenhlalakahle Yezingane. Ukukhonjwa kokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. www.childwelfare.gov/topics/can/identifying/sex-abuse. Kufinyelelwe ngoNovemba 15, 2018.

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