Izinto Eziyisi-7 Ezingimangazayo Ngokugijima Kwangemva Kokubeletha

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• Kwangimangaza ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuzizwa ngikhululekile futhi.
• Kwangimangaza ukuthi kwakunzima kanjani ukuthola isikhathi sokugijima.
• Kwangimangaza ukuthi izinto engizibeke eqhulwini zashintsha ngokushesha.
• Kwangimangaza indlela engakhula ngithanda ngayo ukugijima ne-stroller.
• Kwangimangaza ukuthi ijubane lami lincane kangakanani.
• Kwangimangaza ukuthi kufanele ngiqale kusikwele esisodwa.
• Kwangimangaza ukubona ukuthi izinhloso zami zazingenandaba.
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Kwangimangaza ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuzizwa ngikhululekile futhi.

“Angizange ngizizwe njengami ngaze ngaba nezinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili ngemva kokubeletha,” kusho u-Ashley Fizzarotti, umama wezingane ezimbili waseNew Providence, NJ.

Kwangimangaza ukuthi kwakunzima kanjani ukuthola isikhathi sokugijima.

“Ngaphambi kokuba nomntwana, ukugijima bekuvame ukuba yinto ehamba phambili osukwini lwami,” kusho uKristan Dietz, umama wengane eyodwa waseJersey City, NJ. "Manje, kuvame ukuqhutshelwa phambili kuze kufike ezansi kohlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe, futhi ukukhathala kuvame ukunqoba ukuthola amamayela ambalwa."

Kwangimangaza ukuthi izinto engizibeke eqhulwini zashintsha ngokushesha.

"Ngangazi ukuthi izinto engizibeka phambili zizoshintsha, nokuthi ukukhulisa ingane kuzokwenza impilo yami iphumelele ngendlela engcono kakhulu, ngakho-ke bengilindele ukwehla kwesisusa sami sokugijima nokuziqeqesha," kusho uLauren Conkey, umama waseWorcester, MA (one ingane yesibili esendleleni!). "Kepha isikhathi eside engikukhumbulayo, benginomlilo wokuncintisana ovutha ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Ngakho-ke ngobuqotho bengilindele ukuthi ngizovele ngithathe lapho ngigcine khona. Bese kuzalwa indodakazi yami, futhi ngokuzumayo konke lokho isikhathi esikhathazayo ngamashejuli wokuqeqeshwa kanye nama-paces nama-PRs bekungabonakali kusabalulekile. Kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuthi ngingubani, yebo, nokugijima kuzohlala njalo empilweni yami. Kepha akungichazi ngendlela efanayo ukuze. "

Kwangimangaza indlela engakhula ngithanda ngayo ukugijima ne-stroller.

"Ngisho noma ngiphuma izikhathi ezimbalwa nje ngesonto-okuyinto encane kunaleyo engagijima ngayo ngaphambi kokuba nomntwana-ngijabulela ukugijima kwami ​​​​kakhulu manje, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngigijima ngedwa noma nge-stroller" kusho u-Dietz. “Ngaphambi kokuthi ngiqale ukugijima ngesilawuli, ngangibambelele ekutheni angisoze ngasisebenzisa. Ukugijima kwakuhlala njalo wami isikhathi-isikhathi sami sokuncipha ekubeni sekhaya nengane usuku lonke. Kepha kungimangaze kakhulu ukuthi ngithanda kangakanani ukufaka indodana yami enqoleni yokugijima nokugijima nayo. Impela, kunzima futhi asihlanganisi cishe imayela engingayenza ukube bengigijima ngedwa, kodwa ukukwazi ukuhlanganyela naye omunye wemisebenzi engiyithandayo kuye kwaba nomvuzo omkhulu. "(Funda la macebiso ayi-12 wokwenza ukugijima i-stroller ejabulisa kakhulu-yakho nengane yakho encane.)

Kwangimangaza ukuthi ijubane lami lincane kangakanani.

"Ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, ngangihlale ngihlose ukuhlukana okusheshayo noma i-PR entsha," kusho u-Erica Sara Reese, umama wengane eyodwa wase-Lehigh Valley, PA. "Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwendodana yami, ayikho leyo nto ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngike ngabhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kakhulu lapho ngibelethwa, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bengilulama futhi indodana yami iphilile. Ngisho manje njengoba inezinyanga eziyi-18 ubudala, umbono ohlukile ekugijimeni kwami. Akukona okwejubane lami noma ama-PRs - kumayelana nokuphumela komoya omusha, ukuthola isikhathi 'sami, nokuziqinisa mina nomndeni wami. "

Kwangimangaza ukuthi kufanele ngiqale kusikwele esisodwa.

"Yize ngangihambe isikhathi esiningi sokukhulelwa kwami-futhi ngihlala ngikhuthele noma ngabe sengikudelile-ngaphelelwa wumzimba omningi ngaleso sikhathi nokululama okwalandela," kusho uConkey. "Empeleni bekufanele ngibuye ngibuyekeze umzimba wami ukuze ngiphinde ngigijime. Lezo zinyathelo zokuqala bezingezinhle futhi ziyindida. Bengizizwa njengomkhohlisi emzimbeni wami. Kungakhungathekisa futhi kuthobise ngokumangazayo, kepha uma unamathela kukho, izinto zigcina seziwela Uma usudlulile ku-hump, ungazithola ugijima ngokushelelayo nangejubane elikhudlwana kunangaphambili. " (Nazi izinto eziyisishiyagalombili ongase ungazilindeli ngenkathi uzilindile-futhi usebenza.)

Kwangimangaza ukubona ukuthi izinhloso zami zazingenandaba.

"Naphezu kokuba ne-c-section, ngangicabanga ukuthi ngizogijima umjaho webanga phakathi konyaka ngibelethile," kusho u-Abby Bales, umama wengane eyodwa waseNew York, NY. "Kodwa angigcinanga ngokufaka umjaho ekhalendeni isikhathi eside kunalokho engangikulindele. Lolo hlobo lwengcindezi lwalungekho ekululameni kwami. Ngangazi ukuthi umzimba wami udinga ukuphumula ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye-ngingumelaphi womzimba, futhi ngiyazi kahle kamhlophe imiphumela yokukhulelwa emzimbeni womuntu wesifazane.Ngangingazimisele ngokulimala isikhathi eside ukuze ngizuze isikhashana.Ngangifuna nokuba khona ukuze ngijabulele indodana yami nesikhathi sethu njengomndeni.Angizange Angifuni ukugijima noma yini enye ize kuqala kimi, ngakho-ke ngiyeke noma yiziphi izinhloso ezihlobene nokugijima isikhashana. " (Yamukela usuku lokuphumula! Nansi indlela omunye umgijimi afunde ukukuthanda ngayo.)

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