Le Gqoko Yale Ciko Ikhombisa Izinto Ezinonya (futhi Ezinhle) Ezishiwo Abantu Ngesithombe Somzimba

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Umculi waseLondon uthatha i-Intanethi ngemuva kokudala ingubo yokwenza izitatimende embozwe ngamazwana abantu abawenzile ngomzimba wakhe.

"Lesi siqeshana asiyona [...] iphrojekthi eyize, noma iphathi edabukisayo," kubhala uJoJo Oldham kuwebhusayithi yakhe. "Angizami ukwenza abantu bangidabukele ngoba othile wake wangitshela ukuthi nginamathanga okuduma, amadolo ayinqaba, iminwe yesoseji, namazinyo e-mkang. Kuningi futhi ukuncoma ingubo."

Lokhu kuphawula okungekuhle nokuhle kuyindlela yokuthi u-Oldham azindle ngohambo lwakhe lokuzamukela. Yize evela ibanga elide, uzizwa sengathi kunenqubekela phambili enkulu okusamele yenziwe.

“Uthando enginalo ngomzimba wami kulezi zinsuku yinto obekufanele ngiyifunde, futhi idinga ukulungiswa njalo,” usho kanje. "Imicabango eminingi engene ekhanda lami ngingamenyiwe ayimibi. Ngiyishaya ngokushesha, kodwa ilokhu ivela."

Ukuthi u-Oldham uzizwa kanjani ngomzimba wakhe kuhlobene nombono wakhe, kepha u-Oldham udale le ngubo ukukhombisa amagama wamandla angaba nawo esithombeni somzimba wakhe.

"Ukuncoma okukhulu kunamandla okwenza usuku lomuntu othile. Kodwa kungani sizwa isidingo sokuhlanganyela imibono enonya, engadingeki nengacelwanga ngokubukeka kwabantu?" uthi. "Izinto ezimbi abantu abazishilo mayelana nokubukeka kwami ​​azisangicasuli, kodwa banamathele kimi, futhi ngokuqinisekile ziyilolonga indlela engicabanga ngayo ngami."

Umgomo ka-Oldham uwukusiza abesilisa nabesifazane ukuthi bathole indlela yokugubha imizimba yabo. Nakuba kungase kube nzima ukugwema ukuphawula okungekuhle, akufanele kukwenze uzizwe ungemuhle kangako.

"Hamba kalula kuwe, futhi ube nomusa emzimbeni wakho," kusho u-Oldham etshela uMore. "Mhlawumbe kuhle kakhulu kunalokho obungathanda, futhi mhlawumbe akubukeki kukuhle ngendlela obungathanda ngayo ebhulukweni elishisayo ledenim, kodwa ungachithi impilo yakho yonke ulwa nalo. Kuwukumosha nje futhi kwenza kuphela usizi. "

Besingeke sikusho kangcono thina.

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