Yini ubude obumaphakathi bomthondo ngeminyaka engu-16?

-Delile

• Ukuthomba kubuthinta kanjani usayizi wepenisi?
• Ngabe umthondo uyeka nini ukukhula?
• Ungayikala kanjani ipipi lakho
• Isithombe somzimba
• Ungalufuna nini usizo
• Ukuthatha

Isilinganiso sesayizi yepenisi

Uma uneminyaka engu-16 futhi uqeda ukuthomba, ipipi lakho licishe libe ngosayizi ozohlala kulo lapho usumdala. Kwabaningi lapho beneminyaka engu-16, lelo isilinganiso esimaphakathi se-flaccid (asimile) cishe esingu-3.75 amayintshi nobude obumaphakathi obumaphakathi obuphakathi kwama-intshi ama-5 no-7.

Ububanzi (umjikelezo) wepenisi oyiflacid kanye nesilinganiso sobudoda obumile cishe ngokulandelana.

Ubude nobubanzi bebhande lobudoda obuguquguqukayo buyashintsha njalo, ikakhulukazi ngokuya ngamazinga okushisa. Ipipi elingasokile elisesikhumba esinejwabu lalo lingabukeka likhudlwana kunepipi elisokiwe. Kodwa-ke, ijwabu lihlehla emuva ngesikhathi sokumiswa, ngakho-ke kukhona umehluko omncane ekutheni ipipi eliqondile libukeka likhulu kangakanani noma lisokiwe noma cha.

Ukuthomba kubuthinta kanjani usayizi wepenisi?

Ukuthomba empeleni kungokwesibili empilweni yakho lapho ipipi lakho lidlula ekukhuleni okukhulayo. Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, ubude bepenisi nobubanzi bokhula kakhulu. Bese kuba nokukhula okuhamba kancane, okungaguquki kuze kufike ukuthomba. Ngesikhathi sokuthomba, ipipi namasende kukhula ngokushesha okukhulu.

Isikhathi sokuthomba sihlukile kuwo wonke umuntu. Isikhathi sokuthomba siqala futhi kuyehluka. Ingaqala ineminyaka engu-9 noma engu-10, noma kamuva, ineminyaka engu-13 noma engu-14.

Futhi, ngesikhathi sokuthomba, uba mude futhi ube banzi. Imisipha yakho iyakhula futhi nezwi lakho liyajula. Uqala futhi nokukhulisa izinwele ezungeze izitho zakho zobulili, ngaphansi kwezingalo zakho, esifubeni, nasebusweni.

Ngabe umthondo uyeka nini ukukhula?

Umthondo wakho ukhula uze uqede ukuthomba. Ngeminyaka engu-16, usengaba seminyakeni yokuthomba, ngakho-ke ipipi lakho lisengakhula.

Ngokwesilinganiso, ukuthomba kuphela phakathi kweminyaka yobudala eyi-16 neyi-18. Uma waqala ukuthomba ngeminyaka yakamuva, noma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi usakhula futhi uguqukele eminyakeni yakho yobudala engama-20. Lokho kukhula kufaka phakathi ipipi lakho.

Noma ezinye izinguquko ezisobala ezilethwa ukuthomba zingancipha futhi ziyeke ukuzungeza iminyaka eyi-18, ipipi lakho lingaqhubeka likhule kuze kube yiminyaka engama-21.

Ungayikala kanjani ipipi lakho

Khumbula ukuthi ubukhulu bepenisi e-flaccid buhluka kakhulu. Ukuze uthole isilinganiso esinembile kunazo zonke, linganisa ipipi lakho lapho ulungiswa. Lapho uyikala, linganisa ohlangothini olungaphezulu ukusuka kwithiphu kuye ezansi.

Isithombe somzimba

Ocwaningweni olushicilelwe ku-, abacwaningi baxoxisana nezinsizwa ezingama-290 ngesimo somzimba nokugcona abakukhuthazelela noma ababone ekamelweni lokushintshela. Cishe amaphesenti ayi-10 abesilisa bavumile ukuthi bagconwa ngokubonakala kwendoda yabo, kuyilapho amaphesenti angama-47 ekhumbula ukufakaza ukugconwa ngabanye.

Usayizi bekuyiyona nto ebhekiswe kakhulu ekuhlekisweni, yize ukuvela kwepipi elingasokile noma ipipi ebelibukeka lihlukile ngezinye izindlela nakho kwaveza imibono eminingi.

Wonke umthondo wehlukile, ngakho-ke eyakho ngeke ibukeke ifana ncamashi neyabanye abafana. Kuvamile ukuthi amapipi abe nokugoba okuncane, kanti amanye amapipi angamacwecwe abukeka emakhulu kunezinye ze-flaccid. I-penis yakho nayo ingalenga ngokwemvelo ohlangothini olulodwa noma kolunye.

Njengoba udlula ebusheni, kungaba lula ukuzizwa uzenyeza futhi uzibuze ukuthi ngabe izinguquko ohlangabezana nazo ziyafana yini nezinye ezenzeka kwabanye. Kungenzeka ukuthi, abanye abantu bazibuza into efanayo.

Izeluleko ezimbili zokubhekana nokukhathazeka kwesithombe somzimba:

• Hlala ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi ngangokunokwenzeka. Imibono, izithombe, nolwazi olungelona iqiniso laphaya kungenza noma ngubani azenyeze.
• Gcina ukuqina nempilo yakho engqondweni. Ukuhlala uphilile kungakwenza uzizwe ungcono futhi unethezeke emzimbeni wakho.

Uma uzithola ukhathazeka ngomzimba wakho, khuluma nomeluleki, umzali, noma udokotela.

Abeluleki besikole banganikeza indawo ephephile yokukhuluma ngalezi zinto ezikhathazayo, futhi ngeke babelane nganoma yini oyishoyo nontanga yakho. Zingakusiza futhi ukukuxhumanisa nochwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo, uma kudingeka, noma zikusize uthole izindlela zokukhuluma ngokukhathazeka kwakho nabazali bakho noma nodokotela.

Ungalufuna nini usizo

Uma uzizwa ukuthi ipipi lakho lincane kune-average eneminyaka eyi-16, ungabelana ngezinkinga zakho nodokotela wakho. Kunezimo lapho ipipi elincane lingenye yezimpawu.

I-Klinefelter syndrome, isibonelo, yisimo lapho owesilisa ezalwa khona ene-X chromosome eyengeziwe. Ngenxa yalokhu, bangaba nepipi elincane kune-avareji namasende, kanye nezici zabesifazane, njengokukhula kwezicubu zamabele.

Ukwelashwa kwe-Klinefelter syndrome nokunye ukuphazamiseka okuhlobene ne-hormone okuthinta usayizi wepenisi nokukhula kowesilisa kuvame ukufaka ukwelashwa kwe-testosterone.

Uma ubude noma ukubukeka kwepipi lakho kukukhathaza, khumbula ukuthi izitho zakho zobulili azichazi ubudoda bakho noma ezinye izimfanelo zakho. Futhi khumbula ukuthi cishe ukhathazeke kakhulu ngosayizi wakho kunanoma ngubani omunye umuntu. Kubalulekile futhi ukukhumbula ukuthi isikole esiphakathi, isikole esiphakeme, kanye nokuthomba uqobo kuyizahluko ezimfushane empilweni yakho.

Uma igumbi lokukhiya lingakhululeki kakhulu, ungabheka izindlela zokunciphisa ulwazi lwakho:

• Shintsha etafuleni lokugezela.
• Zisonge ngethawula, noma ngabe abanye abanaso isizotha.
• Ungahle ukwazi ukutholelwa isigaba sokuzivocavoca. Thola uthisha, umphathi, noma umeluleki onendlebe evumayo ukuze wabelane ngezinkinga zakho.

Ukuthatha

Ku-16, kunezinye izinto ezibalulekile ongagxila kuzo kunokude kwepenisi yakho. Jabulela isikhathi sakho nomndeni nabangane futhi usebenzise kakhulu iminyaka yakho yesikole esiphakeme.

Kepha uma ukhathazeke ngokweqiniso noma ufuna ukwazi ngobude nokubukeka kwepipi lakho, zama ukukhuluma nomzali noma mhlawumbe ilungu lomndeni elidala. Uma lezi zinketho zingenakwenzeka, khuluma nodokotela wakho. Ngeke ube ngumuntu wokuqala osemusha ukubuza lezi zinhlobo zemibuzo futhi ngeke ube owokugcina.