U-Bebe Rexha Wamelana Ne-Troll Eyamtshela Ukuthi "Uyakhuluphala"
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Okwamanje, kufanele kungasho ukuthi akulungile neze ukuphawula emzimbeni womunye umuntu, noma ngabe ungubani noma umazi kanjani - yebo, noma ngabe adume kakhulu.
Icala ngephuzu: UBebe Rexha. Usanda kuvula I-Instagram Stories yakhe esimisweni se-Q&A nabalandeli bakhe, iningi labo elibuze imibuzo ebalulekile: yiziphi izingoma zika-Britney Spears azikhonzile, imuphi umsebenzi abengaba nawo ukube ubengeyena umculi, nokunye. Kodwa umuntu oyedwa wanquma ukuhlazisa umzimba uRexha embuzweni wabo, ebuza umculi ukuthi kungani "ekhuluphala" (*i-eye roll*). (Okuhlobene: ICYDK, Ukuhlazeka Komzimba Kuyinkinga Yomhlaba Wonke)
U-Rexha uqale waphendula i-troll ngokubakhumbuza nje ukuthi isisindo sakhe "akusilo ibhizinisi [labo]" (noma noma ubani omunye, ngaleyo ndaba).
Kepha ku-IG Story yakamuva, uRexha wawuphendula lo mbuzo ngokuqhubekayo. “Ngicabanga ukuthi kuwubuwula obukhulu ukwenza imibono ngesisindo somuntu,” kubhala yena.
Uphinde waveza kahle ukuthi akulungile neze ukuqagela ngomzimba womuntu, njengoba ungazi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nani ngemuva kwezigcawu. "Ngithatha imithi yempilo yami eyenza ngikhuluphale," kubhala uRexha, enezela ukuthi "uhlala elwa" nokuzithanda." (Okuhlobene: Ingabe Izidakamizwa Zokucindezeleka Zibangela Ukuthola Isisindo? Nakhu Okudingeka Ukwazi)
Vele, uRexha noma omunye umuntu - odumile noma ngenye indlela - akakweleta noma ubani incazelo ngokubukeka kwabo. Kodwa uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi uRexha ubelokhu evuleleka kubalandeli, ngokwemibandela yakhe, mayelana nokunyuka nokwehla kwakhe ngesithombe somzimba nempilo yengqondo, akulungile ikakhulukazi lapho abantu beqagela ngokusobala futhi behlulela ukuthi ubukeka kanjani. (I-ICYMI, uRexha uphinde waphumela obala mayelana nokuxilongwa kwakhe kwe-bipolar disorder.)
I-Candor yesiginesha ye-Rexha ezwakala ngaphezu kwakho konke uma kuziwa ekubhekaneni nama-troll. Uvale amahlazo emzimbeni ezinkundleni zokuxhumana amahlandla amaningi, etshela umuntu ukuthi "amukele kakhulu" futhi "azisebenzele ukuzizonda". (Futhi khumbula lapho ebiza abaklami abenqaba ukumgqokisa ama-Grammys ngenxa yobukhulu bakhe? Owumfanekiso.)
Uthembekile futhi ngokuthi ukwamukela umzimba akufiki kalula. Ngemuva kokubona izithombe zakhe zakamuva zepaparazzi egqoke isudi yokugeza, waveza ukungazethembi kwakhe. "Ngikuthola kunzima ukuzithanda kwesinye isikhathi," esho kwi-Instagram Story. "Futhi lapho uzibona ubukeka njenge-shit, kufana nokuthi, yebo, nginama-stretch marks, ngine-cellulite, konke okungenhla."
Kodwa ngisho nalapho enenkinga ngomzimba wakhe, uRexha uthe uyazi ukuthi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, kubaluleke kakhulu “ukuba nempilo enhle” nokwamukela umzimba azalwa nawo. "Ngisho, bheka, ngiyaqina, kulungile? Ngiyintombazane ewugqinsi," esho. "Ngazalwa kanjalo."