Amabhulogi Okutholwa Ahamba Phambili Ka-2020

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• Ukufutheka ngokumelene neMinivan
• Ukuvuma Komzali Wokutholwa
• ILavender Luz
• Izimvu Ezimnyama Amaphupho Amnandi
• AmaJean aqhekekile namaBifocals
• Umama Omnyama Wokutholwa
• Ukwamukelwa & Beyond
• Ibhulogi Lokuphila Lokutholwa
• Ukwamukelwa Komuntu Wonke
• Ushukela Omhlophe Ushukela Omhlophe
• ULigia Cushman

Ukutholwa kungaba yindlela engokomzwelo futhi ebonakala ingapheli. Kepha kubazali abayiphishekelayo, ukufinyelela kulowo mgomo empeleni kuyisifiso sabo esikhulu. Vele, lapho sebekhona, kusamele babhekane nazo zonke izinselelo zokuba ngumzali ngokutholwa.

Yingakho i-Healthline ihlanganisa uhlu lwamabhulogi wokutholwa amahle kakhulu minyaka yonke, igqamisa ama-blogger azimisele ukuhlanganyela lokho abakufundile endleleni, ukufundisa nokukhuthaza abanye okungenzeka ukuthi bacabanga ukwamukelwa noma sebevele behamba leyo ndlela ngokwabo.

Ukufutheka ngokumelene neMinivan

Njengomelaphi womshado nomndeni, uKristen - {textend} umama osemuva kweRage Against the Minivan - {textend} unokuthile noma okubili angakusho ngokuba ngumzali nangamandla omndeni wokutholwa. Ungumama ezinganeni ezine ngokuzalwa nangokutholwa yena uqobo, futhi akakwenqeni ukuhlanganisa izihloko ezihlobene nokwamukelwa ngokungemthetho kanye nokwamukelwa kwabantu abangabodwa. Ibhulogi yakhe ingeyemindeni efuna ukufunda ngezinselelo ezingaba khona (nemivuzo) yokutholwa, kanye nalezo esezivele zingene ebunzimeni bobuzali ngokutholwa.

Ukuvuma Komzali Wokutholwa

UMike noKristen Berry basebenza njengabazali bokutholwa iminyaka engu-9, banakekela izingane ezingama-23 ngaleso sikhathi, futhi ekugcineni bathola eziyi-8 zalezo zingane. Manje ogogo nomkhulu, ibhulogi yabo eyanoma ngubani ofuna imininingwane, izeluleko, noma ugqozi oluzungeze ukunakekelwa kwabantu abangabodwa nokwamukelwa. Banencwadi ngayinye ebhaliwe ngale ndaba, babamba i-podcast yokutholwa, futhi okuthunyelwe kwabo kubhulogi kugcwele ukwethembeka namahlaya.

ILavender Luz

ULori Holden, umbhali wencwadi ethi "The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption," yizwi ngemuva kukaLavender Luz. Usebenzisa lesi sikhala ukugqamisa ubunzima bokutholwa, egxila ezindabeni ezixoxwa yiwo wonke amalungu e-adoption triad. Isayithi lakhe lihle kunoma ngubani ofuna ukufunda ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabazali bokutholwa nabomama bokuzalwa, kanye nalabo abafuna imininingwane yokuthi ungakuhamba kanjani kangcono ukwamukelwa okuvulekile.

Izimvu Ezimnyama Amaphupho Amnandi

Uma ungumuntu wokutholwa ocabanga ukulandela abazali bakho bokuzalwa, le yibhulogi yakho. Uzothola imininingwane, amathiphu, nezindaba mayelana nohambo osuzoqala ngalo. Izimvu Ezimnyama ubhala ngokuhlangenwe nakho. Wayengumntwana oMnyama owamukelwa emndenini omhlophe ophakathi nendawo ngeminyaka yama-1960. Eminyakeni engamashumi amane kamuva, esenengane yakhe ezelwe futhi efuna ukufunda ngefa ababelabelana ngalo, wahamba wayofuna umama wakhe omzalayo. Uzofunda ngakho konke ukusonta nokujika kohambo lwakhe, kokubili ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Uzothola ugqozi, amahlaya, nolwazi oluwusizo lokwenza usesho lwakho.

AmaJean aqhekekile namaBifocals

UJill Robbins ungumama ngokuzalwa kokutholwa nokwamukelwa emhlabeni jikelele osebenzisa ibhulogi yakhe ukukhombisa ukuthi impilo ingaba njani ngemuva kokuthatha lokho kweqa. Lesi isikhala sabantu abafuna ukwethembeka ngenqubo yokwamukela nazo zonke izingcezu eziyinkimbinkimbi ezihambisana nakho. Kepha futhi kufakwe indlela yokuphila emnandi nokuthunyelwe kokuhamba komama abadinga okungaphezulu kokuxhumeka kokutholwa ukuze bathandane nebhulogi.

Umama Omnyama Wokutholwa

Le bhulogi ilandisa ngohambo lukamama oyedwa oqeqeshiwe ohlala endaweni yaseWashington, D.C., oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala owathola indodakazi ephakathi. Ubhala ngenjabulo nezinselelo zokutholwa, nangempilo nendodakazi yakhe uHope. Uqale ibhulogi ngemuva kokuthola amazwi ambalwa wabantu abanemibala emiphakathini yokutholwa eku-inthanethi, ethatha isinqumo sokuxoxa eyakhe indaba ukuze abanye bazuze. Indodakazi yakhe nayo ibhala ikholomu, iphendula imibuzo ngokuthi kunjani ukuba ngumuntu osemusha owakhulisa izingane, manje ongowokutholwa nomdala osemncane.

Ukwamukelwa & Beyond

Njengenhlangano yokubeka inzuzo engenzi nzuzo, abantu abangemuva kokutholwa nokwedlula baye babona zonke izinhlangothi zokutholwa. Ibhulogi yabo eyabantu abafuna ulwazi nezinsizakusebenza. Ifaka imibono yokubukwa kanye nokuthunyelwe kubo bobabili obaba bokutholwa nogogo nomkhulu. Ukukhonza iKansas neMissouri emizamweni yabo yokubeka, futhi banikeza ukuqonda ngemisebenzi yasendaweni, yokuzijabulisa komndeni yakho nezingane.

Ibhulogi Lokuphila Lokutholwa

I-Adopted Life yibhulogi ka-Angela Tucker ekhuluma ngokutholwa ngokobuzwe, etshelwe ngokombono womuntu owamukelekayo. Uzothola izeluleko, imininingwane, nezindaba ezimayelana nemindeni efakiwe. U-Angela wamukelwa njengengane eMnyama emndenini wabamhlophe edolobheni lapho iphesenti elilodwa kuphela labantu lalinguMnyama. Kepha u-Angela, elangazelela ukuthola ifa lakhe eliMnyama, waqala ukufuna abazali bakhe bokuzalwa eneminyaka engama-21. Wabhala ngohambo lwakhe kwifilimu i-Closed 2013. Uthole umama wakhe wokuzalwa futhi ubhala ngobunzima nobumnandi balobo budlelwane kubhulogi yakhe. Uzothola nezindaba zika-Angela mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe njengomuntu owamukelayo wezinhlanga.

Ukwamukelwa Komuntu Wonke

I-Lifetime Adoption iyinhlangano ebekwa lapho izama ukukhuluma nabo bobabili omama bokuzalwa kanye nabangaba ngabazali bokutholwa nge-blog yabo. Lesi isikhala sanoma ngubani onemibuzo mayelana nokuthi ukwamukelwa kungabukeka kanjani kubo. Kukhona izindaba zomuntu siqu, izinsizakusebenza, kanye namaphrofayili omndeni abazali bokuzalwa okufanele babheke kuwo.

Ushukela Omhlophe Ushukela Omhlophe

URachel nomyeni wakhe banquma ukulandela ukutholwa ngemuva kokutholakala kwesifo sikashukela sohlobo 1 benze noma yiliphi ithemba lokuthi ukukhulelwa okuzayo kube yingozi. Namuhla, bangabazali ezinganeni ezine, bonke ngokwenziwa kwasekhaya, ngokobuzwe, nangokutholwa okuvulelekile. NjengomKristu, uRachel ulwela ukusondela endabeni yokutholwa ngabazali bakhe, okwenza lokhu kube yibhulogi enhle kunoma ngubani onethemba lokwenza okufanayo.

ULigia Cushman

Njengesazi sokutholwa se-Afro-Latina emshadweni wezinhlanga ezahlukene nengane eyamukelwe yezinhlanga eziningi, uLigia ungumkhulumeli onolwazi wezingane zokutholwa nemindeni yezinhlanga eziningi. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kweminyaka eyi-16 njengosonhlalonhle, uLigia manje wengamela ukutholwa kwabantu eTampa, eFlorida. Kubhulogi lakhe nasekukhulumisaneni ezweni lonke, wabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuvela empilweni yakhe mayelana nezinselelo ezibhekene nomndeni wezinhlanga ezithile ezweni lanamuhla. Kubhulogi lakhe, ukhuluma ngezihloko ezisanda kuvela eziqala ukuxoxwa emibuthanweni yokutholwa, njengokuthi amasiko nobuzwe buthinta kanjani ukwamukelwa.

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