I-Bumble Isanda Kuvinjelwa Le Guy Ngehlazo Lamafutha

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Uma ujwayelene nezinketho zohlelo lokusebenza lokuphola ezikhona njengamanje, kungenzeka ukuthi uzwile ngeBumble, ezihlukanisa ngokwazo ngokufuna abesifazane ukuthi bathathe isinyathelo sokuqala uma abantu ababili befanisiwe. (Siyabonga ngokusisindisa kubo bonke abangena kuzo ngezizathu ezingalungile, Bumble.) Leli qhinga livumela abesifazane ukuthi bazizwe belawula impilo yabo yokuphola, ngokungafani nezinhlelo zokusebenza ezinjengeTinder neHinge, ezivumela noma ubani ofanisa naye ukushaya i-convo. (I-BTW, uTinder usanda kuveza "umsebenzi ocansisa kakhulu" kuhlelo lokusebenza.)

Ngeshwa, alukho uhlelo lokusebenza lokuphola olunganqoba lo mkhuba wokuthwebula, lapho umuntu oyedwa eyeka ngokuphelele ukuphendula omunye ngaphandle kwencazelo. Kuyinto enhle kakhulu ongayenza kumuntu onengxoxo yothando naye, kepha kwenzeka * sonke * isikhathi, ikakhulukazi maqondana nobudlelwano obuqala ku-inthanethi. (Njengokuthi ukuphola kwakungelula ngokwanele, akunjalo?)

Yingakho omunye wesifazane enqume ukuhambisa indaba yakhe yesipoki ku-Elite Daily's Boom, Ghosted, ikholomu yamasonto onke lapho isayithi labelana khona ngendawo eyodwa eyihlazo ngempela yemimoya isonto ngalinye. Lokhu kwakukubi kakhulu kangangokuba uBumble wanquma ukuvimbela iqembu elinecala-isinyathelo esincomekayo ngasohlangothini lwabo.

Ake sichaze. Owesifazane ufaniswe nomfana ku-Bumble futhi baya ngosuku. Kwathi ngemva kwengxoxo yombhalo eyayibonakala ihamba kahle, wamfaka umoya. Wayeshayekile kodwa akazange acabange lutho ngakho ngoba ngokudabukisayo, lokhu kuvame kakhulu. Kwabe sekwenzeka lokhu: "Ngithole iphrofayili entsha iBumble ayenzile. Wengeza ngezansi," Pleeeeease ungakhulupli empilweni yangempela. "

Insizwa yayingene enkingeni yokudala iphrofayela entsha ngokuphelele, egcwaliswe ngamazwana ahlambalazayo ahlambalaza ngempela. Kuyaqondakala ukuthi lona wesifazane wayezizwa eshayekile futhi edidekile. Uqhubeke wathi, "Njenga, ummm, ngiyaxolisa? Ngiyazi ukuthi bekungaba ngomunye umuntu, njengasendaweni yangakubo, kepha ukuqondana kwezinto kungumbono omncane kimi. Ngakho-ke manje, ngifuna ukumgcoba esidlangalaleni ngokuba yingulube engaziphethe kahle . Kodwa-ke, angikhuluphele ngempela. Ngikwazi nje ukugxuma, njengamakhilogremu angu-200, ngakho nginamathanga amahle aminyene."

Okokuqala, lezo ezinye zezinhlaka ezibucayi # imigomo. (Laba besifazane bangubufakazi bokuthi ukuba namandla kufe sha.) Okwesibili, asimsoli ngokufuna ukunaka iqiniso lokuthi lo mfana ugcwele ngokuphelele. Empeleni akusho lutho ukuthi ubekhuluma ngaye noma cha ngoba lolu hlobo lolimi olumelene namafutha alwamukelekile noma yikuphi isimo.

Ngakho-ke lapho izinto zithatha khona ithuba elihle. UBumble wabona okuthunyelwe ngalesi saga sonke wafinyelela kumbhali owahlanganisa le ndaba ukuze athole ulwazi olukhombayo ngomsebenzisi ukuze asuswe kuhlelo lokusebenza.

Imihlahlandlela yomsebenzisi weBumble isho ngokusobala ukuthi lolu hlobo lokuziphatha alulungile: "Siwumphakathi ohluke kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele uhloniphe izinkolelo zabanye abantu, izinto abazithandayo, nempahla ngenkathi uku-Bumble. Kufanele uziphathe ngendlela efanayo kuBumble njengoba ubungakwenza empilweni yangempela. " Kungenzeka ukuthi umfana wakhe uyi-IRL ejeqeza, kodwa kunoma yikuphi, manje ungaqiniseka ukuthi kunembobo eyodwa encane ku-Bumble. Ukuswayipha okujabulisayo! (Udinga izeluleko ngokuhlangana nomuntu ku-intanethi? Bheka lezi zeluleko eziyi-7 zokuphola online.)

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