U-Camila Mendes Wabelane Ngendlela Ahlangana Ngayo Nomlandeli Ngokungaphezu Komzimba-Positivity

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Uke ufise sengathi ungaba nesikhathi sokuzipholela nosaziwayo omthandayo futhi nibe ngabangane abasheshayo? Yilokho kanye okwenzekile ku-a Riverdale Umlandeli ogama lakhe linguGeorgia, ozithole ehleli eduze kukaCamila Mendes (aka Veronica Lodge) ebhanoyini elisuka eBrazil liya eCalifornia. Ngo- UmumoUmcimbi ka-2018 weSitolo Somzimba (lapho bobabili abesifazane babebheke khona) uMendes ulandise ukuxhumana kwabo okuholele engxoxweni emangazayo ngesithombe somzimba.

Ngesikhathi ekhuluma nomqondisi wokuzivocavoca uJen Widerstrom, uMendes ukhulume ngokuhlangana noGeorgia: “Ngabona ukuthi kwakuhloswe ukuthi ahlale eduze kwami ​​endizeni,” kusho uMendes, ngaphambi kokumemela uGeorgia esiteji ukuze azoxoxa indaba yakhe neqembu. izilaleli. (Okuhlobene: Ukuthi Iposi Elilodwa Lomzimba-Elihle Liqale Kanjani Ubungane Obuhle be-IRL)

UGeorgia uqhubeke wachaza ukuthi wayekhuluphele eseyingane, futhi wakhuluphala kakhulu eminyakeni yakhe yobusha, wagcina ekhuluphele ngokweqile. Uthe wavele wadangala wazama imithi, ukuzincisha ukudla nokuzivocavoca ukuze anciphise umzimba, kodwa lutho ukusebenza. IGeorgia ithe ekugcineni yehlise isisindo esiningi, kodwa yavuma ukuthi lokho akuzange kumenze azizwe engcono. (Funda kabanzi ngokuthi kungani ukwehla kwesisindo akuyona imfihlo yenjabulo nokuthi kungani ukwehlisa isisindo akuholeli ekuzethembeni komzimba njalo.)

“Ekupheleni kosuku ngancipha kakhulu kodwa ngase nginama-stretch marks nezibazi futhi ngangingakazethembi ngomzimba wami,” kusho yena. UGeorgia uthe wabona ukuthi wayengeyedwa emzabalazweni wakhe. Ngenkathi ekhuluma kakhulu ngayo, wabona ukuthi bangaki abangane bakhe ababebhekana nokungavikeleki. Ekugcineni, ukukhuluma ngakho ngokukhululekile nabanye kwamsiza ukuba agone umzimba wakhe, wahlanganyela.

Evula isixuku seBody Shop, uMendes uxoxe ngohambo lwakhe lokuthanda umzimba. Lo mlingisi uke waphumela obala ngokuthi unenkinga yokudla esikoleni samabanga aphezulu, waphinda esekolishi, waphinda futhi ngenkathi eqopha. Riverdale. Ekugcineni, uthi wabona ukuthi isifo sakhe sasimlimaza kangakanani. "Angikwazi ukuvuselelwa ngokocansi uma bengingazethembi emzimbeni wami ... ngazizwa ngikhuluphele, ngangifana, ekekho neyodwa thinta mina, kulapho-ke lapho kuzoqala khona ukungahambisani nempilo yakho, "esho. Ukubona umelaphi kumsizile ukuthi athuthuke, manje ubambisene neProject Heal ukusabalalisa umyalezo wokuthi #DoneWithDieting. (Ngesikhathi eseBody Shop, uMendes naye uvumile ukuthi usazabalaza ukuthanda isisu sakhe-indawo evamile yokungavikeleki abantu besifazane abaningi abangayiqonda.)

Ngenkathi izindaba ezimbili zabesifazane zifana - babelana ngesihloko esivamile sokungabaza kanye nehlazo, kepha nokwamukelwa nothando lomzimba), zihlukile futhi, okuqokomisa ukuthi ukungavikeleki kokudla kanye / noma ukungazethembi komzimba akuveli ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela efanayo. "Abantu bacabanga ukuthi abantu abanezinkinga babukeka begula, uyazi, ukuthi bahlala boney futhi bazacile impela, kodwa lokho akulona iqiniso," kusho uMendes. "Isikhathi esiningi, abantu abanenkinga yokudla 'ababukeki' sengathi banezinkinga zokudla." (I-FYI, u-Ashley Graham ukhuthaze uCamila Mendes ukuthi ayeke ukukhathazeka ngokuba mncane.)

Akulula ukukhuluma ngokukhululeka ngokungazethembi komzimba wakho. (Eqinisweni, kuthathe uMendes imizamo embalwa yokuqinisekisa uGeorgia ukuthi athathe isiteji, kodwa wakwenza.) Iziphakamiso kubo bobabili besifazane ngokukhuluma ngemizabalazo yabo. futhi ukunqoba kwabo.

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