Kakhulu Kakhulu, Kushesha Kakhulu: Ukufa Kwe-Grip Syndrome

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• Ingabe kungokoqobo?
• Kuyabuyiselwa emuva?
• Phumula
• Kalula ubuyele
• Shintsha inqubo yakho
• Uma unomlingani
• Yini enye engaba yiyo?
• Ubudala
• Izimo zezokwelapha
• Imithi
• Izinkinga zengqondo
• Ukubonana nodokotela nini
• Okubalulekile

Kunzima ukusho ukuthi lavelaphi igama elithi "death grip syndrome", yize livame ukudunyiswa kumlobi wezindaba zocansi uDan Savage.

Kusho ukungafuneki kwemizwa ethweni lobudoda ngenxa yokushaya indlwabu njalo ngendlela ethize - ngokubamba okuqinile, isibonelo. Ngenxa yalokhu, unenkinga enzima yokuvuthwa ngaphandle kokuphinda usebenzise leso sinyathelo esithile esicacisiwe.

Ingabe kungokoqobo?

I-Death grip syndrome ayaziwa ngokusemthethweni njengesimo sezokwelapha. Ubuningi bobufakazi obuku-inthanethi buyi-anecdotal, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi abukho.

Abanye ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi i-death grip syndrome iyi-subset yokubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation (DE), okuyindlela eyaziwayo yokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.

Futhi, wonke umqondo wokuthi ipipi lisuswe amandla ngenxa yokugqugquzela okuningi akukusha.

Ukuzikhuthaza okuholela ekunciphiseni ukuzwela epeni akuyona into entsha. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi umuntu othola injabulo enkulu ngokushaya indlwabu kunezinye izinhlobo zocansi maningi amathuba okuthi aqhubeke nemikhuba egxilile, kufaka phakathi izindlela ezihlukile zokushaya indlwabu.

Lokhu kuholela emjikelezweni ononya lapho umuntu edinga ukukhulisa amandla okushaya indlwabu ukuze alwe nokuzwela okwehlayo.

Ngokwemigomo ye-layman: Lapho wenza ngokwengeziwe, isitho sakho sangasese sithola izinzwa kakhudlwana, futhi kufanele usheshe ushaye ngamandla ukuze ukwazi ukuwuzwa. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kungaba ukuphela kwendlela ongaba ne-orgasm.

Kuyabuyiselwa emuva?

Alukho ucwaningo oluningi olutholakalayo nge-death grip syndrome ikakhulukazi, kodwa abantu babike ukuluguqula noma ukululama.

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Phumula

Qala ngokuthatha ikhefu leviki kusuka kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lokukhuthaza ucansi, kufaka phakathi ukushaya indlwabu.

Kalula ubuyele

Emasontweni amathathu alandelayo, ungaqala kancane ukushaya indlwabu futhi, ukwandise kancane imvamisa. Phakathi nalawa masonto ama-3, vumela izifiso zakho zocansi ziholele ekuvinjweni ngokwemvelo ngaphandle kokuthi, uboleke isandla.

Kungazwakala njengokuphikisana, ngenxa yokuthi ukuqubuka yilokho okungenzeka ukuthi kukuthole lapha kwasekuqaleni. Kepha le nqubo kufanele ikusize ufunde kabusha ukuthi unganambitha kanjani futhi ujabulele ukuvuselelwa.

Shintsha inqubo yakho

Ukushintsha inqubo yakho kubalulekile. Akukona nje ukukhulula ukubamba kwakho okunamandla, kodwa futhi nokuzama ukushaya kancane, imivimbo emnene. Uzodinga ukuzama imizwa ehlukene ukuze uzigqashule kumkhuba wokukwazi ukuza nokuhamba okuthile kuphela.

Ungazama futhi ukusebenzisa izinhlobo ezahlukene zama-lubes futhi ufake amathoyizi ocansi.

Uma usazizwa sengathi awukabuyeli kahle ekuzweleni kwakho kwangaphambilini ngemuva kwamasonto ama-3, zinike isikhathi esithe xaxa.

Uma lezi zindlela zingasebenzi futhi usebudlelwaneni, ingxoxo nomlingani wakho iyahleleka uma ufuna elinye isibhamu ngaphandle kokungenelela kwezokwelapha.

Uma unomlingani

Ukukhuluma nomlingani wakho kungasiza ekunciphiseni okunye ukukhathazeka kwakho ngokuya ocansini, okungenye yezinkinga ezingaphazamisa ukushayela nokusebenza kocansi.

Ngemuva kokuthi uthole into yokushaya indlwabu phansi, zama ukuyenza uze uzofika, bese ushintshela kolunye uhlobo locansi nomlingani wakho. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi ujwayele ukuzwa umvuthwandaba (noma ngasikhathi sinye) nomlingani wakho.

Yini enye engaba yiyo?

Uma ukwazi ukuphuma ngokushaya indlwabu kuphela noma unenkinga yokuvuthwa ngokuphelele, kungahle kube nenye inkinga ekudlaleni.

Ubudala

Ukuzwela epeni lakho kuvame ukwehla ngokukhula.

I-testosterone ephansi kungenye inkinga ehlobene nobudala engathinta ukuzwela kwe-penile. Njengoba ukhula, umzimba wakho ukhiqiza i-testosterone encane, eyi-hormone ebhekele ukushayela kwakho kocansi, ukukhiqizwa kwesidoda, nokuningi.

I-testosterone ephansi ingaholela ku-libido ephansi, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, futhi kukwenze ungaphenduli kangako ekuvuseleleni ngokocansi.

Izimo zezokwelapha

Izimo zezokwelapha ezilimaza izinzwa zingathinta umuzwa osepeni lakho futhi zikwenze kube nzima kuwe ukuthi uzizwe ujabulile.

Ukulimala kwemizwa kubizwa ngokuthi yi-neuropathy futhi kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nesinye isimo, kufaka phakathi:

• isifo sikashukela
• i-multiple sclerosis
• Isifo sikaPeyronie
• unhlangothi
• i-hypothyroidism

Imithi

Imithi ethile ingadala ukubambezeleka kwe-orgasm noma i-ejaculation.

Isibonelo, imiphumela emibi yezocansi evela kuma-anti-depressants ivame kakhulu. Ama-anti-depressants, ikakhulukazi ama-serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) akhethiwe, akhonjisiwe ukuthi abangela ukubambezeleka okubambezelekile kanye ne-libido ephansi.

Eminye imithi ibuye ibangele i-neuropathy, engathinta ipipi. Lokhu kufaka phakathi okuqinisekile:

• izidakamizwa zomdlavuza
• imithi yenhliziyo nengcindezi yegazi
• ama-anticonvulsants
• ama-antibiotic
• utshwala

Izinkinga zengqondo

Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi okwenzeka ekhanda lakho kungathinta okwenzekayo phakathi kwemilenze yakho.

Imizwelo yakho nezimo zakho zengqondo kungenza kube nzima ukuvuka noma ube ne-orgasm. Ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka nokudangala kokunye okuvamile.

Uma unezinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho, lokho kungathatha nempilo yakho yezocansi. Kungachaza nokuthi kungani ungathola injabulo ethe xaxa nge-solo sesh kunokuya ocansini nomlingani wakho.

Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka okuhlobene nocansi kuye kwaxhunyaniswa ne-orgasm ebambezelekile nobunzima bokujabulela ucansi oluhlukanisiwe.

Ezinye zezinto ezibangela ukwesaba nokukhathazeka okuhlobene nocansi zifaka:

• ukwesaba ukukhulelisa umlingani wakho
• ukwesaba ukulimaza umlingani wakho ngesikhathi socansi
• ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ebuntwaneni
• ukuhlukumezeka ngokocansi
• inkolo noma imfundo yezocansi ecindezelayo

Ukubonana nodokotela nini

Uma ukhathazekile ngomthelela wokushaya indlwabu empilweni yakho yezocansi, cabanga ukufinyelela kumhlinzeki wakho wezokunakekelwa kwempilo noma owelapha ucansi.

Ngokuqinisekile uzofuna ukuthola umbono wochwepheshe uma:

• ungaboni noma yikuphi ukuthuthuka ngemuva kokuzama amasu okuguqula izimpawu zakho
• qhubeka nokuzwa ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka noma inkathazo yokuvuthwa nomlingani wakho
• unesimo sezokwelapha, njengesifo sikashukela

Okubalulekile

Ukushaya indlwabu akuyona into embi. Kungokwemvelo ngokuphelele futhi kuyazuzisa. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungaba nesifo sokufa, kunezindlela zokushintsha imikhuba efike lapho.

U-Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ungumbhali ozimele futhi umbhali obhale kakhulu kuzo zonke izinto zezempilo nezindlela zokuphila isikhathi esingaphezu kweminyaka eyishumi. Lapho engafakwanga endaweni yakhe yokubhala ecwaninga i-athikili noma evaliwe exoxa nochwepheshe bezempilo, angatholwa ebabaza azungeze idolobha lakhe lolwandle nomyeni nezinja bedonsa noma betshiza echibini bezama ukuqonda ibhodi lokugwedla lokuma.