Dude Uphakamisa njengoLady: Kungani Ngithanda Ukuzivocavoca Nge "Girly"

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Abesifazane abasebenza ukuzivocavoca besilisa bekulokhu kungulaka muva nje, kepha kuthiwani ngamadoda enza ukuzilolonga "kwezentombazane"? Ngabe indoda ingathola ukuzivocavoca umzimba ngendlela efanelekile estudiyo se-aerobics njengoba ingakwazi esiteji sesisindo? Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ingabe ubengafuna? Ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yethu ye-XY, sixoxisane nekhadi lendoda elithwele u-dude ovele athande ukusebenza ngokwesiko kwabesifazane.

U-Ted C. Williams, ubaba oshadile wengane eyodwa, ubelokhu ethamela i-Turbokick, i-Hip Hop Hustle, i-BodyPump, ne-Tabata amakilasi okuqeqesha e-YMCA yangakubo iminyaka eminingana manje, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile engomunye wamadoda ambalwa ekamelweni ( uvame ukuba ukuphela kwendoda ekilasini le-hip hop), lokho akumvimbi ukuthi athole ukujima (nokuzijabulisa okukhulu). Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi ukugcwala kwe-estrogen kuke kumkhathaze yini, uyahleka, "Ngesaba ukuqubuka kwama-cooties!" Futhi kuthiwani ngokwesaba ukukhahlelwa kwesinqe sakhe yintombazane? "Angibaboni ngempela abanye ekilasini ngokobulili kodwa kakhulu ngomzamo wabo nokuncintisana kwezemidlalo."

Ukuba insizwa egumbini eligcwele abesifazane kunezinzuzo zako--kodwa akubona ongabacabanga, kusho uWilliams. Okokuqala, "Ngithola ukunconywa ngokuhlanganyela nangaphambi kokuba kuqale ikilasi." Kodwa akaceli ukwelashwa okukhethekile. "Njengoba ngike ngaba nesipiliyoni sokudansa esedlule, ngifuna ukuba nomusa futhi ngenze neminyakazo futhi uma ngingangcono kunanoma ngubani omunye ekilasini, ngaphandle kobulili. Njengomfana ongu-6'1 onohlaka olukhulu, onomusa akuzi ngokwemvelo, kodwa leyo nselele yenza noma iyiphi impumelelo enginayo ingenelise kakhulu.”

Kunento eyodwa ekhathaza uWilliams uma kuziwa ekusebenzeni namantombazane, ethi ukhathazekile "uma abesifazane ekilasini behlukunyezwa yimina." Uyacacisa,"Ngiyazi ukuthi [kwabesifazane abaningi], lezi zifundo ziyisikhathi sabo sokukhulula, ukuphumula, nokubalekela ulayini wokulandwa onzima noma ukubuka okungakhululekile abangase bakuthole kwenye indawo ejimini. Uma ngilapho nginovalo. ukuthi ngilithathile lelo zinga lokunethezeka kwabesifazane ekilasini. Ngizama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ami ukuze ngingabi yindoda ekholelwa ejimini futhi ngizihlanganise. "

Yini okufanele ayisho kubafana ababukela phansi ukusebenzisa amantombazane? "Dlula kuyo." Uyanezela, "Uma kukhulunywa ngamadoda enza imisebenzi engahle ibhekwe njengeyabesifazane, kunokwesaba ukuthi ngandlela thile ubudoda bakho buzobuzwa. Yingakho abesilisa beshesha ukukhipha izifuba zabo baphinde bathuke namanye amadoda angahle yenza le misebenzi: besaba ukuthi uma bengayihleki, ngandlela thize bazoncipha ubudoda."

Kodwa ingabe ukujima okuhle? UWilliams uveza ukuthi njengokuvivinya umzimba okuningi, "lapho uzikhandla kanzima, uzophuma lapho!"

Ucabangani ngamadoda enza ukuzivocavoca "kwezamantombazane"? Shiya amazwana bese wabelana ngemicabango yakho!

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