Finyelela izindawo eziphakeme ze-Orgasmic nge-Eagle Sex Position

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• Siyini Isimo Sobulili Sokhozi?
• Yiziphi Izinzuzo Zesikhundla Socansi Lokhozi?
• Ama-tweaks Uma Isimo Socansi Sokhozi Singeyona Into Yakho
• 1. Khulula amaphiko oKhozi lwakho.
• 2. Nweba ngaphambi kokuba matasa.
• 3. Thola umcamelo wokusekela.
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Uyazi ukuthi kuyini "ukusabalalisa ukhozi", akunjalo? Usemhlane, imilenze isakazekile? Yebo, isikhundla socansi. Isimo sobulili bokhozi singazwakala njengesikhundla esesabekayo esenzelwe abantu abanobungqabavu phakathi kwethu, kepha, ngokujabulisayo, siphambene impela. Kuyisimo sobulili esimnandi esasenzelwe ukwenza amakhosazana omcamelo azizwe njengamaQueens (futhi ubanikeze ama-orgasms, nawo).

Angazi ngawe, kepha impela ngibambene nesifiso sami sokuba unkulunkulukazi wobulili ongafuneki kanye nomshayeli wami wemvelo wokuba livila ngesikhathi socansi. Ivila yigama eliqinile, nokho. Angikucabangi njengokuvilapha kakhulu "njengokusebenza okunamandla." Lapho kusebenza i-bottoming, ulapho, ubamba iqhaza kukho konke ukuqabula, ukubamba, nokububula; awuyona inhlanzi efile, uyinhlanzi engasebenzi kangako kuneqabane lakho. Imayelana "nokuzithoba kumuntu onaye futhi uthokozele ukugibela," kusho uTiana North, uthisha onamandla, isishoshovu kanye nomsunguli obambisene weThe Sex Worker Survival Guide.

Niyabo? Kumnandi kuwo wonke umuntu.

Lesi sikhundla sisebenza kahle ekuvuseleleni i-clitoral, ucansi lomlomo, ipipi kusini lobulili (i-PIV) sex, i-dildo ku-sex (DIV) sex, ukungena kwe-anal, noma ngisho nokugaya okungaphandle kwe-pubic. Kuyahlukahluka kakhulu, okuyisizathu esisodwa sokuthi kungani kumnandi kangaka.

Nakhu konke odinga ukukwazi. Kubo bonke onqenqemeni abangama-lazy abavumelana nezimo laphaya, ngiyakhonza kini. Jabulela ukuhamba.

Siyini Isimo Sobulili Sokhozi?

Ukhozi luyisimo socansi sabantu ababili esivame ukusho ucansi lwe-PIV, kodwa alukhawulelwanga yilezo zingqinamba ze-heteronormative. (Akunasikhundla sobulili, empeleni. Lowo mbono uyisicefe futhi uphelile.)

Iphansi (imvamisa umuntu one-vulva) ulala ngomhlane imilenze yakhe ibheke phezulu futhi isakazeke ibe yisimo esithi "V". Zama "ukubamba imilenze yakho emuva ngokusonga izingalo zakho ngemuva kwamathanga akho noma ukubamba amathanga / amathole akho" ukuze uthole ukwesekwa, kuphakamisa uZachary Zane, uchwepheshe womkhiqizo weLoveHoney, uhlobo lwezempilo lwezempilo nokuphila kahle.

Uma uguquguquka ngempela, ungabuyisa imilenze yakho ngemuva kwezindlebe zakho, kusho uKenneth Play, ongungoti wezocansi emhlabeni jikelele nomsunguli we-Sex Hacker Pro Series. Uma lokho kungu-jam wakho, yiba nakho, kepha uma kungenjalo, lokho nakho kufanele. Ngeke ngiphakamise ukunikeza lokhu ngaphandle uma, njengokungathi, uthisha we-yoga noma okuthile, ngoba lokho kuzwakala kunzima i-AF.

Ukusuka lapho, umlingani ongena ngaphakathi bese elala phezulu, ehla enyuka. Njengezansi, "Ngingasikisela ukuthi uhambise izinqulu zakho ngokuzithoba kumlingani wakho ngenkathi uziphulula noma ubamba amashidi," kusho uNyakatho.

Ungasebenzisa i-CAT (isu lokuqondisa i-coital) kule ndawo, lapho phezulu kushelela phezulu naphansi komzimba waphansi ukuze kuhileleke i-glans clitoris. Ama-orgasm e-PIV (kanye ne-DIV) ayenzeka kubantu abanomzimba wesifazane uma indlela yakho i-en pointe futhi uvuselela i-clitoris ngokuhambisana nokungena).

Phansi ukhozi kulesi simo. Basemhlane, imilenze iphakanyiswe ama-akimbo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi iphansi lingaba ukhozi olusakazekile ngenkathi phezulu lenza zonke izinhlobo zezinye izinto, njengokuya ocansini ngomlomo. INyakatho isitshela ukuthi lesi sikhundla senza ukufinyelela okulula kakhulu kuwo wonke ama-vulva. Yebo, ngicela! (Okuhlobene: Izikhundla Zocansi Ngomlomo Okudingeka Uzame Uma Uthanda Ukuthola Inhloko)

Yiziphi Izinzuzo Zesikhundla Socansi Lokhozi?

U-Zane uthi ukhozi lulungele ukungena okujulile (futhi mhlawumbe lushaya ezinye zalezi zindawo ezijulile ze-vaginous erogenous). "Okuphezulu kunamandla amakhulu kusuka kulesi sikhundla ukuze kugxilwe ngamandla uma lokho kuyinto abalingani bobabili abakuyo," usho njalo.

Ngezansi eliphethe i-vulva, i-crème de la creme yokhozi olusabalele iwukufinyelela okuhle kakhulu endaweni ye-vulva-clitoral. Okuphezulu kungasebenzisa umlomo wabo, iminwe yabo, ithoyizi, noma ipipi / i-dildo / i-pelvis yabo ukuvuselela i-clitoris. IBig Os nxazonke, izingane. Yini engamema kakhudlwana? (Zama elinye lalawa mathoyizi ocansi asebenza kahle kwezocansi lozakwethu.)

Enye into okufanele uyicabangele: uzobukeka kanjani u-sexy kulesi sikhundla. "Kuyamangalisa, kuhambisana kahle nokudlala amandla kanye nokubusa uma zombili izinhlangothi zikulokho," kusho uPlay.

Sekukonke, u-Taylor Sparks, uthisha ovusa inkanuko futhi ongumsunguli we-Organic Loven, engesinye sezitolo eziseduze kakhulu ze-BIPOC ezisebenzisana nobudlelwano kwi-inthanethi, uthi into enhle kunayo yonke ukuthi "akuwona umzamo omkhulu wokuthola, kodwa ukwaneliseka okukhulu. "

Kubukeka kushisa, uzizwa umuhle, futhi ungaphuli izithukuthuku. Yilokho okwenzekayo.

Ama-tweaks Uma Isimo Socansi Sokhozi Singeyona Into Yakho

Eqinisweni, abantu abaningi bazoba nesikhathi esinzima ukusabalalisa imilenze yabo ihlukaniselwe ukhozi, ikakhulukazi isikhathi eside. Lokho kuvamile ngokuphelele. Nawa amathiphu ochwepheshe ambalwa, amaqhinga, nama-tweaks ukukusiza ukuthi usisebenzise ngokugcwele lesi sikhundla sobulili esikhazimulayo, ngaphandle kokudabula inqulu.

1. Khulula amaphiko oKhozi lwakho.

Esikhundleni sokugcina imilenze yakho iqonde phezulu ku- "V," zama ukuyigoba emadolweni, uhlobo olunjenge-yoga olujabulisayo lomntwana.Lokhu kungasusa ingcindezi emathangeni angaphakathi kanye nasekuguquguqukeni kwemisipha. Ungakwazi ngisho nokuletha amadolo akho ezinhlangothini zomlingani wakho, isikhundla se-missionary sex position. "Yenza lokho okuzwakala kulungile futhi unethezeke kakhulu ngemikhawulo yomzimba wakho ngaphandle kokwahlulela," kusho uNorth. (Futhi zama isikhundla sobulili bevemvane, esine-vibe efanayo kepha ayidingi ukusabalalisa imilenze yakho.)

2. Nweba ngaphambi kokuba matasa.

Ukwelula okuhle ngaphambi kokungena embhedeni kungasiza ekwenzeni ucansi lukhululeke kakhudlwana - futhi ukunyakaza okulula kakhulu kube lula. "Kufudumeza umzimba wakho kanye nemisipha yakho njengoba ushintshela ezikhundleni eziningi akusithusi uhlelo lwakho," kuchaza iNorth. Ubulili bufana nanoma imuphi umdlalo. Ukwelula kuyadingeka ukuze ugweme ukulimala!

3. Thola umcamelo wokusekela.

I-Play iphakamisa ukuthola "umcamelo wezocansi" ukuze uthole ukusekelwa okungeziwe emuva. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuthola ilifti encane kungahamba ibanga elide ukuze uthole induduzo. Lo mcamelo wezocansi ovela kwaDame Products (Buy It, $ 95, dameproducts.com) uyintandokazi yami; ayimelana namanzi, okusho ukuthi ilungele nobulili besikhathi, futhi. (Okwengeziwe: Imicamelo Yocansi Engcono Kakhulu kanye namaCushions Wokuzijabulisa Wedwa noma Wozakwethu)

UZane uthi umgoqo ungasiza futhi ekusizeni ukuthi uthambise isinqe phambili, uvumele ukukhuthazeka okungaphezulu nokungena okujulile, noma imilenze igobile. "Isihluthulelo ukuthi i-pelvis ibheke phezulu nemilenze emuva. Kodwa kuvamile ukuthi imilenze yabo igobe ngenkathi iphezulu emoyeni, futhi izwakala icishe ifane," usho kanje.

UGigi Engle ungudokotela wezocansi oqinisekisiwe, uthisha, futhi umbhali wamaphutha we-All The F * cking: Umhlahlandlela Wezocansi, Uthando, Nempilo. Mlandele ku-Instagram naku-Twitter ku- @GigiEngle.

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