Iyini i-Electra Complex?

-Delile

• Incazelo
• Imisuka yombono
• Umbono wachaza
• Isibonelo sendlela esebenza ngayo i-Electra complex
• Ingabe i-Electra iyinkimbinkimbi yangempela?
• Ukuthatha

Incazelo

Isakhiwo se-Electra yigama elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza inguqulo yesifazane yenkimbinkimbi ye-Oedipus.

Kubandakanya intombazane, eneminyaka ephakathi kuka-3 no-6, ukuzibandakanya ocansini noyise ngokungazi futhi iya ngokuya imzonda unina. UCarl Jung wasungula lo mbono ngo-1913.

Imisuka yombono

USigmund Freud, owasungula inkolelo eyinkimbinkimbi ye-Oedipus, waqala wakha umqondo wokuthi ingane yentombazanyana incintisana nonina ngokunakekelwa ngocansi kukayise.

Kodwa-ke, kwakunguCarl Jung - owayephila ngesikhathi sikaFreud - owaqala ukubiza lesi simo ngokuthi "i-Electra complex" ngo-1913.

Njengoba nje i-Oedipus complex yaqanjwa ngensumansumane yamaGrikhi, kanjalo ne-Electra complex.

Ngokomlando wamaGrikhi, u-Electra wayeyindodakazi ka-Agamemnon noClytemnestra. Ngenkathi uClytemnestra nesithandwa sakhe, u-Aegisthus, bebulala u-Agamemnon, u-Electra wancenga umfowabo u-Orestes ukuthi amsize abulale bobabili unina nesithandwa sikanina.

Umbono wachaza

Ngokusho kukaFreud, bonke abantu badlula ezigabeni eziningi zokukhula kobungqingili besengabantwana. Isigaba esibaluleke kunazo zonke "isigaba sangaphansi" esiphakathi kweminyaka engu-3 no-6.

Ngokusho kukaFreud, kulapho-ke lapho abafana namantombazane begxila khona endondeni. UFrud uphakamise ukuthi amantombazane agxila ekushodeni kwepipi futhi, lapho likhona, i-clitoris yawo.

Ekukhuleni kobungqingili bentombazane, uFreud uphakamisile, unamathele kuqala kunina aze abone ukuthi akanalo ipipi. Lokhu kumenza acasuke unina “ngokumthena” - okuyisimo uFreud abizwa ngaso “njengomona wepipi.” Ngenxa yalokhu, uqala ukunamathela kuyise.

Kamuva, intombazane ikhomba ngokuqinile kunina futhi ikhiphe isimilo sayo ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa uthando lukanina. UFreud ubize lokhu ngokuthi "isimo sengqondo sabesifazane base-Oedipus."

UFreud wayekholelwa ukuthi lesi kwakuyisigaba esibucayi ekukhuleni kwentombazane encane, njengoba kumholela ekwamukeleni izindima zobulili futhi aqonde nobulili bakhe.

UFreud uphakamise ukuthi isimo sengqondo sowesifazane se-Oedipus sasinamandla kakhulu ngokomzwelo kunesakhiwo se-Oedipus, ngakho-ke sasicindezelwa kanzima yintombazane encane. Lokhu, wakholwa, kwaholela ekutheni abesifazane bangazethembi futhi bathobele kakhudlwana.

UCarl Jung wandise lo mbono ngokuwubiza ngokuthi “isakhiwo se-Electra.” Kodwa-ke, le lebula yenqatshwa nguFreud, othe bekuyimizamo yokufanisa isakhiwo se-Oedipus phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane.

Njengoba uFreud ekholelwa ukuthi kunomehluko obalulekile phakathi kwesakhiwo se-Oedipus kanye nesimo sengqondo sabesifazane se-Oedipus, akazange akholelwe ukuthi kufanele bahlanganiswe.

Isibonelo sendlela esebenza ngayo i-Electra complex

Ekuqaleni, intombazane inamathele kunina.

Ngemuva kwalokho, uyabona ukuthi akanalo ipipi. Uhlangabezana "nomona wepipi" futhi usola umama wakhe "ngokuthena" kwakhe.

Ngoba ufuna ukuphatha umzali ngokocansi futhi akakwazi ukuphatha umama wakhe ngaphandle kwepipi, uzama ukuphatha uyise esikhundleni salokho. Kulesi sigaba, uba nemizwa yobulili engaqondakali ngoyise.

Uba nobutha nonina futhi agxile kuyise. Angahle asunduzele unina noma agxile kuyise.

Ekugcineni, uyabona ukuthi akafuni ukulahlekelwa uthando lukanina, ngakho-ke unamathela kunina futhi, alingise izenzo zikanina. Ngokulingisa umama wakhe, ufunda ukulandela izindima zobulili bendabuko.

Ngesikhathi sokuthomba, uzobe eseqala ukuhehwa abesilisa abangahlobene naye, ngokusho kukaFreud.

Abanye abantu abadala, kusho uJung, bangaphindela esigabeni sowesilisa noma bangakhuli esigabeni sobulili, babashiye benamathele ngokocansi kumzali wabo.

Ingabe i-Electra iyinkimbinkimbi yangempela?

Isakhiwo se-Electra asemukelwa kabanzi kwi-psychology kulezi zinsuku. Njengemibono eminingi kaFreud, isimo sengqondo sabesifazane besifazane i-Oedipus kanye nomqondo wokuthi "umona wepipi" nawo ugxekwa kabanzi.

Imininingwane emincane kakhulu isekela umbono wokuthi inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra ingokoqobo. Akukona ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni kuhlobo olusha lwe-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5).

Njengoba iphepha lango-2015 liveza, imibono kaFreud mayelana nokuthuthuka kongqingili igxekiwe njengephelelwe yisikhathi ngoba bathembele ezindimeni zobulili ezineminyaka eyikhulu.

Umqondo "womona wepipi", ikakhulukazi, ugxekwe njengobulili. Izakhiwo ze-Oedipus ne-Electra ziphinde zisho ukuthi ingane idinga abazali ababili - umama nobaba - ukuze ikhule kahle, okuye kwagxekwa njengokwehlukile.

Lokho kusho, kungenzeka ukuthi amantombazane amancane athole ukuheha ngokocansi kobaba bawo. Akuyona nje indawo yonke njengoba uFreud noJung bakholelwa ukuthi kunjalo, ngokusho kwabaningi emkhakheni.

Ukuthatha

Isakhiwo se-Electra asiseyona inkolelo eyamukelwa kabanzi. Iningi lezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo alikholelwa ukuthi liyiqiniso. Kungumqondo osuphenduke amahlaya.

Uma ukhathazekile ngokukhula kwengane yakho ngokwengqondo noma ngokocansi, finyelela kochwepheshe bezokunakekelwa kwezempilo, njengodokotela noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yengane. Bangakusiza ukukuqondisa ngendlela engaxazulula ukukhathazeka kwakho.