I-Erotica Yabesifazane: Indlela Eqinisekile Yokuthola Ucansi Olungcono

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Sithanda ukuxoxa nombhali ka-Stoya, umuntu ocabangayo, osebenzisa ucansi esikrinini-ngazo zonke izinto zocansi, ubudlelwano, kanye ne-feminism. Eqinisweni, siyithanda kakhulu, sayicela iseluleko sayo esihle kakhulu emibuzweni yabafundi bethu evutha kakhulu ephathelene nezocansi. Noma ngabe yisiphi isifiso sakho esijule kakhulu, nesimnyama kunazo zonke, uStoya unempendulo yakho. Ukhuphuke kuqala? Umfundi ofuna ukuzazi kangcono (uma wazi ukuthi siqonde ukuthini) kodwa ongenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi aqale kuphi.

Umbuzo: Angikaze ngibe ocansini (yize kungenzeka ukuthi ngikwenze kwaba ukuqoshwa kwe-iPhone). Kodwa-ke, ngingathanda ukuthola izindlela zokuzazi kangcono ngocansi: yini engenza ngikitaze futhi ingivule, izinto ezintsha okufanele ngizame. Bengizibuza ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukuphakamisa noma yimaphi amanoveli avusa inkanuko, ucabange ukuthi leyo yindawo okufanele uqale ngayo.

A: U-Nicholson Baker's Indlu Yemigodi iyasungula ngendlela emangalisayo. Le ncwadi ethile iyaphawuleka ngoba uBaker ucabanga ngezimo ezakha ubuciko futhi ezigqamile emisebenzini eqanjiwe egxile kwezocansi. I-Alt Sex Stories Text Repository ingaba isiphithiphithi, kodwa iwuchungechunge olungapheli lwezindaba ezivusa inkanuko ezimayelana nazo zonke izifundo ngaphansi kwelanga. Ngisho konke isihloko, ngakho-ke lungiselela ukushayisana nezinto ezingakuphazamisa noma zikucasule. Ngokwenothi yendabuko, amanoveli ezothando agcwele izigcawu zothando eziyela ngasocansini, kanye neka-Anne Rice I-Sleeping Beauty Trilogy (eyashicilelwa okokuqala ngaphansi kuka-A. N. Roquelaure) iyindinganiso yakudala enetimu ye-BDSM.

Kukhona nenqwaba yabalingisi bamabhayisikobho abadala ababhale mayelana nezigemegeme zabo zocansi (zombili ezisesikrinini nasesikrinini) ngezindlela ezisukela kokujwayelekile kuya emitholampilo kuya kwezocansi. Kungadingeka ukuthi ubambe i-Intanethi noma amabhulogi akho, kepha hlola amabhulogi kaKayden Kross, Christian, noJames Deen (Isexwayiso: NSFW), nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto uJiz Lee noCourtney Trouble abazibhalile.

Okokugcina, ungakhohlwa ukuthi okuthile akudingeki ukuthi kuchazwe njengokuvusa inkanuko noma ukugxila kwezocansi ukukuvula. Ungase uthole okuthile okuvusa amadlingozi ekhophi yokupakisha ebhokisini lokusanhlamvu. Angikaze ngibe nakho, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi akukho. [Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde indaba ephelele kwaRefinery29!]

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