Ukuzivocavoca Ngamalimi

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• Ukuvivinya umzimba
• Yini ukungingiza
• Yini ebangela ukungingiza

Ukuvivinya umzimba ngokungingiza kungasiza ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo noma nasekuqedeni amalimi. Uma umuntu engingiza, kufanele akwenze lokho futhi akwenzele abanye abantu, okuzokwenza ukuthi onamalimi azethembe ngokwengeziwe, aziveze kakhulu futhi ukuthambekela kube wukuthi onamalimi anyamalale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ukungingiza kwenziwa yizici ezithile ezakha intaba yeqhwa nokungakwazi ukukhuluma ngokushelelayo kumane nje kuyisiqalo seqhwa, ngakho-ke ukwelashwa kokungingiza kuvame ukwenziwa nge-psychoanalysis, lapho onamalimi afunda khona kakhulu ngaye futhi adlule ukuze azizwe engcono nobunzima bakho.

Ezinye izimo zokungingiza zingalapheka emavikini, ezinye zingathatha izinyanga noma iminyaka, konke kuzoya ngokuthi umuntu lowo uyingingiza nobunzima bayo kangakanani.

Ukuvivinya umzimba

Okunye ukuzivocavoca okungenziwa ukuthuthukisa ukungingiza yilawa:

1. Khulula imisipha evame ukushuba lapho umuntu ekhuluma;
2. Nciphisa ijubane lokukhuluma, ngoba kuqinisa ukungingiza;
3. Ziqeqeshe ukufunda umbhalo phambi kwesibuko bese uqala ukufundela abanye abantu;
4. Yamukela ukungingiza futhi ufunde ukubhekana nakho, ngoba lapho umuntu ekwazisa kakhulu futhi eba namahloni kakhulu, kuzobonakala ngokwengeziwe.

Uma lokhu kuvivinya kungasizi ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo, inhloso ukwenza ukwelashwa okungingiza ngesilaphi sokukhuluma. Futhi, funda ukuthi ungasithuthukisa kanjani isichazamazwi sokuzivocavoca.

Yini ukungingiza

Ukungingiza, okubizwa ngokwesayensi ngokuthi i-dysphemia, akuyona nje inkinga yokukhuluma kuphela, kuyisimo esithinta ukuzethemba futhi kuphazamise ukuhlangana komuntu nomphakathi.

Kuvamile kakhulu ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka emi-2 kuya kwengu-5 zithole iziqephu zesikhashana zokungingiza, okungahlala izinyanga ezimbalwa, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi bacabanga ngokushesha okukhulu kunalokho abangakhuluma ngakho, njengoba uhlelo lwabo lwefonotiki lungakalingani ngokuphelele. Lokhu kungingiza kuvame ukuba kubi kakhulu lapho ingane inovalo noma ijabule kakhulu, futhi kungenzeka futhi lapho ikhuluma umusho onamagama amaningi amasha.

Uma kubonakala ukuthi ingane, ngaphezu kokungingiza, yenza ezinye izinto ezifana nokushaya unyawo, ukucwayiza amehlo noma enye i-tic, lokhu kungakhombisa isidingo sokwelashwa, njengoba kukhombisa ukuthi ingane isivele ibubonile ubunzima bayo ukukhuluma ngokushelelayo futhi uma ungelashwa ngokushesha uzoba nokuthambekela kokuzehlukanisa futhi ugweme ukukhuluma.

Yini ebangela ukungingiza

Ukungingiza kungaba nezici eziningana ezingokomzimba nezingokomzwelo okuthi, lapho ziphathwa kahle, zinganyamalala ngokuphelele futhi lowo muntu ngeke esangingiza. Izingane zabazali abangingizayo zinamathuba aphindwe kabili okuba nazo zingingize.

Enye yezimbangela zokungingiza ubuchopho obususelwa ekuqaleni. Ubuchopho babanye abantu abangingizayo abunampunga kangako kanti ezinye izindawo ezimhlophe zobuchopho, banokuxhumana okumbalwa esifundeni sokukhuluma, futhi kubo, kusengakatholakali ikhambi.

Kepha kwabaningi abangingizayo, imbangela yokungingiza ukungavikeleki ekukhulumeni nezinye izinto, njengokukhula kahle kwemisipha yokukhuluma, ekhona emlonyeni nasemphinjeni. Kubo, ukuzivocavoca amalimi nokukhula komzimba uqobo kuvame ukwehlisa ukungingiza ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Kwabanye, imbangela yamalimi kungenzeka itholwe ngemuva koshintsho ebuchosheni, njengokushaywa unhlangothi, ukopha noma ukuhlukumezeka ekhanda. Uma ushintsho lungalungiseki, amalimi nawo azoba njalo.