Ngokusobala, Abasubathi besifazane Mancane Amathuba Okuqhekeka Ngaphansi Kwengcindezi

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Uma uke wadlala umdlalo wokuncintisana esikoleni noma njengomuntu omdala, uyazi ukuthi kungaba khona ingcindezi enkulu nengcindezi ehambisana nokusebenza. Abanye abantu baze bathuke ngaphambi kokuzilungiselela ukuzivocavoca okukhulu kweCrossFit, ikilasi le-spin elinzima kakhulu, noma ukuqeqeshwa okude. Vele, futhi kujwayelekile kakhulu ukuzizwa ukhathazekile ngaphambi komjaho omkhulu njengemarathon. (FYI, ngisho nabase-Olimpiki baba novalo ngokujaha imijaho emikhulu!) Kodwa yindlela osebenza ngayo ezimeni ezishubile ezenza umehluko uma kukhulunywa ngomphumela waleyo mincintiswano ephezulu. Futhi olunye ucwaningo luthi uma umdlalo ungaphansi kocingo futhi isidingo sokunqoba sesiphezulu kakhulu, abesifazane bangakwazi ukumelana nengcindezi kangcono kakhulu kunabesilisa.

Eqinisweni, lolu cwaningo olwenziwe eBen-Gurion University, lukhombisa ukuthi lapho bebhekene namandla okucinywa ngaphansi kwengcindezi yokuncintisana kwezemidlalo, amadoda indlela maningi amathuba okubona ukusebenza kwabo kuthinteka-futhi kube kubi kakhulu. Abaphenyi bahlole imiphumela yomqhudelwano wethenisi wabesilisa nabesifazane weGrand Slam, njengoba lolu hlobo lomcimbi wezemidlalo ungesinye sezibonelo ezimbalwa zomncintiswano abesilisa nabesifazane ababamba iqhaza kuwo ukuthola umklomelo wenani eliphezulu. Abacwaningi bahlole imidlalo engaphezu kuka-4,000 ngamunye kwabesilisa nabesifazane, beklelisa iziteki kusukela phansi kuye phezulu kuye ngokuthi abasubathi bebekude kangakanani emqhudelwaneni. Ababhali bachaze "ukuminyanisa" njengokwehla kokusebenza ekuphenduleni iziteki eziphakeme kunokujwayelekile-njengenzuzo enkulu yemali (namalungelo amakhulu okuqhosha) uma umsubathi ebamba iqhaza eliphezulu.

Imiphumela yayicacile: "Ucwaningo lwethu lubonise ukuthi amadoda ahlala eminyanisa ngaphansi kwengcindezi yokuncintisana, kodwa mayelana nabesifazane imiphumela ixubile," kusho umlobi wocwaningo uMosi Rosenboim, Ph.D., esitatimendeni sabezindaba. "Kodwa-ke, noma ngabe abesifazane bekhombisa ukwehla kokudlala ezigabeni ezibaluleke kakhulu zomdlalo, kusengaphansi ngamaphesenti angama-50 kunabesilisa." Ngamanye amagama, amadoda aminyaniswe kaningi kunabesifazane, futhi lapho abesifazane belahlekelwa ukulawula okuncane, ukusebenza kwabo akubonanga ukwehla okukhulu. (P.S. Ukufaka amanye alawo mavayibhu okuncintisana emsebenzini wakho kungakunikeza amandla ejimini, futhi.)

Ngakho-ke siyini isizathu salo mehluko ekuphenduleni phakathi kwabesifazane nabesilisa? Ababhali bezocwaningo bacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi yingoba amadoda akhipha i-hormone yokucindezeleka i-cortisol ngokushesha okukhulu kunabesifazane (kodwa lokho kuyisihloko sesinye isifundo socwaningo ngokuphelele).

Ngaphandle kokusebenza kwezemidlalo, ababhali besifundo bachaza ukuthi esinye sezisusa zabo ngemuva kokwenza lolu cwaningo kwakuwukuhlola ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane basabela kanjani kwingcindezi yokuncintisana emsebenzini. "Esikutholile akusekeli umbono okhona wokuthi amadoda ahola kakhulu kunabesifazane emisebenzini efanayo ngoba basabela kangcono kunabesifazane ekucindezelekeni," kusho umlobi ocwaningayo ohamba phambili uDanny Cohen-Zada, Ph.D., womnyango wezomnotho we-BGU. (Psh, sengathi uke wathenga kulowo mbono, akunjalo?)

Yebo, kunemikhawulo yokuthi lolu cwaningo lungasetshenziswa kangakanani ekuphileni kwangempela. Isibonelo nje, emqhudelwaneni wethenisi, abesifazane basuke beqhudelana nabanye besifazane kuphela, kodwa emsebenzini, abesifazane kufanele baqhudelane nabesilisa nabesifazane ukuze bawine imisebenzi, bakhushulelwe esikhundleni, bakhushulwe. Noma kunjalo, ababhali abacwaningayo bakholelwa ukuthi le miphumela inikeza ubufakazi obuqand 'ikhanda bokuthi abesifazane baphendula kangcono ezimweni ezinengcindezi ephezulu, nokuthi ucwaningo olwengeziwe esihlokweni luyadingeka futhi luyadingeka. (Lapha, abasubathi besifazane abayisithupha bakhuluma ngokukhokha okulinganayo kwabesifazane.)

Iphuzu eliyinhloko: Ngesikhathi esizayo lapho uzizwa ucindezelekile futhi ucindezelekile emsebenzini noma ngaphambi komjaho omkhulu, yazi ukuthi njengowesifazane, unamandla amakhulu futhi uyakwazi ukubekezela. Futhi uyazi ukuthi uyazi ukuthi nawe unomphetho wokuncintisana.

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