Ukungingiza kwengane: ungayibona kanjani futhi uyiphathe kanjani

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• Ungayibona kanjani
• Kungani kwenzeka?
• Ukwelashwa kwamalimi ebuntwaneni kufanele kube kanjani

Ukungingiza kwengane kungabonwa phakathi kweminyaka emi-2 nengu-3, ​​ehambelana nesikhathi sokukhula kwenkulumo, ngokuvela kwezimpawu ezithile ezinjengobunzima bokuqedela igama nokwandisa amagama, ngokwesibonelo.

Isikhathi esiningi, ukungingiza kwengane kuyanyamalala njengoba ingane ikhula futhi nenkulumo ikhula, noma kunjalo kwezinye izimo ingahlala futhi ibe yimbi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ngezikhathi ezithile iye kumelaphi wezinkulumo ukuze kwenziwe izivivinyo zokukhuthaza inkulumo.

Ungayibona kanjani

Izimpawu zokuqala zokubonisa ukungingiza zingavela phakathi kweminyaka emibili noma emithathu ubudala, ngoba kungalesi sikhathi lapho ingane iqala khona ukukhuluma. Ngakho-ke, abazali bangaqala ukubona ukungingiza lapho ingane iqala ukwengeza imisindo, lapho imisindo yamagama iphindaphindwa noma lapho kunenkinga lapho kukhulunywa uhlamvu oluthile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuvamile ukuthi izingane ezinamalimi nazo zibe nokunyakaza okuhambisana nenkulumo, njengokuhwaxa ubuso, isibonelo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuvame ukubonwa ukuthi noma ngabe ingane ifisa ukukhuluma, ayikwazi ukuqedela umusho noma igama ngokushesha ngenxa yokuvela kokunyakaza okungazibandakanyi noma ukuma okungalindelekile maphakathi nenkulumo.

Kungani kwenzeka?

Imbangela yokungingiza ayikaziwa, kodwa kukholakala ukuthi ingenxa yezakhi zofuzo noma ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ihlobene nezinguquko ohlelweni lwezinzwa ngenxa yokungakhuli kwezinye izindawo zobuchopho ezihlobene nokuxhumeka kwenkulumo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukungingiza kungabuye kube ngenxa yokungakhuli kahle kwemisipha ehlobene nokukhuluma, noma ngenxa yezimo ezingokomzwelo, okuthi, lapho ziphathwa kahle, zibangele ukuba amalimi angabe esaba khona noma abe namandla amancane nomthelela omncane empilweni yengane. Funda kabanzi ngezimbangela zokungingiza.

Yize amahloni, ukukhathazeka nokwesaba kuvame ukubhekwa njengezimbangela zokungingiza, empeleni kuyimiphumela, ngoba ingane iqala ukuzizwa ingakhululekile ukukhuluma, futhi ingahle futhi iholele ekuhlukanisweni nomphakathi, ngokwesibonelo.

Ukwelashwa kwamalimi ebuntwaneni kufanele kube kanjani

Ukungingiza ebuntwaneni kuyelapheka inqobo nje uma kutholakala kusenesikhathi futhi ukwelashwa ngomelaphi wezinkulumo kuyaqalwa kungekudala. Ngokwezinga lokungingiza kwengane, umelaphi wezinkulumo angakhombisa ezinye izivivinyo zokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwengane, ngaphezu kokunikeza abazali isiqondiso esithile, njenge:

• Ungayiphazamisi ingane ngenkathi ikhuluma;
• Ungayidicileli phansi imikhuba noma ubize ingane ngokuthi uyangingiza;
• Bheka iso nengane;
• Ukulalela ingane ngokucophelela;
• Zama ukukhuluma kancane nengane.

Yize umelaphi wezinkulumo ebalulekile, abazali banendima ebalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukuthintitha kwengane nokuhlangana komphakathi, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi bakhuthaze ingane ukuthi ikhulume futhi ikhulume kancane nengane, isebenzisa amagama namabinzana alula.