Ungaba kanjani ne-Anal Orgasm

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• Linda, I-Anal Orgasms Ingokoqobo?
• Indlela Yokuhlola I-Anal Orgasms
• 1. Thenga idrowa lakho nge-lube.
• 2. Thinta isinqe sakho.
• 3. Sebenzisa ithoyizi.
• 4. Hlola i-rimming.
• 5. Shintsha izikhundla.
• 6. Yisa eshaweni noma ebhavini.
• 7. Phuma kancane.
• Zijwayeze ukunakekela ngemuva.
• Kuthiwani Uma Ngingenayo I-Anal Orgasm?
• Buyekeza kwe-

O, ungazenzi umangele kangako! Kunjalo i-analgasm iyinto. (Futhi into emnandi kakhulu, uma ngisho kanjalo nami). Yini — ucabanga ukuthi ucansi lwangasese luthole konke ukunakwa ebelikuthola ngokungakusizi nge-orgasm?

Uma ubusnuza ku-peach dlala kuze kube manje, ungesabi. Ngezansi, ochwepheshe bachaza kahle ukuthi iyiphi i-analgasm, kanye namathiphu ayisishiyagalombili wokuthi ungaba kanjani nayo.

Linda, I-Anal Orgasms Ingokoqobo?

Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi zingokoqobo, kodwa ngokwethiyori, noma ubani ngempango ingaba nayo (funda: zonke umzimba). Kepha, imvamisa, indlela eyenza i-analgasm iyehluka kuye nge-anatomy, kusho u-Evan Goldstein MD, oyi-CEO kanye nomsunguli weBespoke Surgical, egxile ekusizeni abantu babo bonke ubulili nobulili ukuthi bahlanganyele emalungeni.

Kubantu abane-Prostate (imvamisa abantu ababelwa owesilisa ngesikhathi sokuzalwa), imvamisa i-anal O izokwenzeka ngokushukumisa indlala ngokungena endunu, kuchaza uDkt. Goldstein. (I-ICYDK, i-Prostate iyindlala elingana nosaladi etholakala phakathi kwesinye kanye nepipi, ngaphambi nje kukanxande.)

Futhi kwabangcwatshwa izitho zangasese, i-anal O ivame ukwenzeka ngokuvuselelwa kwe-G-spot noma i-A-spot nge-canal anal, kuchaza uthisha oqinisekisiwe wezocansi u-Alicia Sinclair, oyi-CEO ye-b-Vibe, inkampani yomkhiqizo wokudlala ezimpundu. Udonga oluphakathi kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye nedidi luncane kakhulu, ngakho ucansi lwendunu lungavusa lezo zindawo ezishisayo. Eqinisweni, ngokusho kwakhe, i-A-spot (leyo yindawo yangaphambili ye-fornix) ingase ibe ngokwemvelo. Kalula nakakhulu ukunyakazisa ngesinqe kunokungena esithweni sangasese. (Ngenxa yokuthi yonke into ephansi isondelene kakhulu, yingakho ungakwazi nokuvulelwa ekubeni nesinye esigcwele.)

Iqiniso elijabulisayo: Inhlolovo yango-2016 yesayithi yekhamera yocansi i-Cam4 yabuza abesifazane abayizi-8,000 emhlabeni wonke mayelana ne-orgasm yabo futhi yathola ukuthi, phakathi kwabesifazane baseMelika, amaphesenti angu-42 ane-orgasms ngesikhathi sokuphumula (!!).

Konke okushiwo: I-anal orgasm iyi-orgasm efinyelelwa nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuvuselela indunu. Kubandakanya (kodwa kungagcini lapho) ukudlala komlomo nendunu, umunwe wendunu, ukuya ocansini olungena endunu ngepipi noma ididi, ukushaywa, noma ukudlala okwenzeka ngenkathi ugqoke ipulaki ezinqeni noma usebenzisa ubuhlalu bendunu.

"I-anal orgasm ingenzeka nje ukuvuselela i-anal, noma ngokuvuselela okwengeziwe kwezinye izindawo ezinobungozi, "kusho uSinclair. (Bheka: Izinhlobo Ezi-7 Ezihlukile Zama-Orgasms Ongaba Nazo)

Indlela Yokuhlola I-Anal Orgasms

Ukulungele ukungena ekufuneni i-anal O ukuze ube ne-anal O? Sinezakho emuva isinqa. Futhi ungakhathazeki, awudingi ukuhlanganisa eyodwa ukuzama lezi zinyathelo noma ukuzwa i-butt-O ekhathaza ingqondo.

1. Thenga idrowa lakho nge-lube.

Cishe i-mantra kuleli phuzu: Sebenzisa i-lube! Nakuba kuyiqiniso ukuthi i-lube yenza zonke izinhlobo ze-hanky panky zibe ngcono, ekudlaleni kwendunu akuxoxiswana ngayo ngoba indunu ayizigcobisi, kusho uDkt. Goldstein. "I-Lube umehluko phakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho okugcwele ukungqubuzana, nokujabulisayo."

Qhubeka futhi uskrole kulolu hlu lwezigcobo ezinconyelwa uthisha wezocansi bese wengeza eyodwa (noma emihlanu) ekalishini yakho. O, futhi khumbula: Ama-lubicone abicah angonakalisa amathoyizi abicah. Ngakho-ke uma uhlela ukusebenzisa amathoyizi, khetha i-lube yamanzi namanzi.

2. Thinta isinqe sakho.

Noma ngabe uphuzile noma cha, kufanele ngabe uhlola umzimba wakho — ikakhulukazi isitho sakho — ngaphambi kokuhlola nomlingani wakho, kusho uDkt. Goldstein. Akunandaba ukuthi uxhumana kanjani ngokocansi, kodwa kulula kakhulu ukuhamba phakathi kokuzizwa kukuhle nokungazizwa kahle ngokushesha ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu emuva nomlingani wakho.

"Ngenkathi uhlehla, sebenzisa lesi sikhathi ukuze uzwe ukudlidliza kwakho, funda ukuthi yini ekukhiphayo (nokuthi yini engakwenzi), ukuthi yini ebuhlungu noma ezizwa ingakhululekile (nokuthi yini ezwakala kahle kakhulu), nokuthi yiziphi izindlela ezintsha ozisebenzisayo. kungaletha umdlalo wozakwethu,” usho kanje. (Angazi ukuthi uzoqala ngaphi? Lo mhlahlandlela wokushaya indlwabu emuva ungasiza.)

3. Sebenzisa ithoyizi.

Ubuhlalu be-Anal! Amapulaki ezinqe! Dildos! Uma nje ithoyizi liyisisekelo esivulekile (yilokhu okwenza ithoyizi lingabambeki ngaphakathi kuwe), kuphephile ekudlaleni kwendunu. "Amathoyizi ahlukene anganikeza imizwa ehlukene, kodwa ngalinye lingakusiza ukuthi ufinyelele i-orgasm," kusho uSinclair.

Ama-plugs ezinqa kuyindlela enhle kubantu abafuna ukujabulela umuzwa wokugcwala kwe-anal ngenkathi besebenzisa izandla zabo ukuvuselela ngesandla ezinye izindawo zabo ezishisayo noma ukubamba izidlidlizi ze-clit. Ukugqoka ipulagi ngenkathi uthola ucansi lomlomo kuyindlela yangempela ye-anal O yabanye abantu, kuphawula uSinclair.

Ubuhlalu be-Anal zilungele abantu abajabulela ukuzwa kwe-anal sphincter yabo (imisipha ekugcineni kwe-rectum ezungeze i-anus nokulawula ukukhishwa kwemfucuza) ibhucungwa. Kodwa ukubonakala obala okugcwele: Kuzoncika ekuguquguqukeni kwakho nasekusebenziseni kahle ukuthi uzokwazi yini ukufaka nokukhipha ubuhlalu bendunu ku-butt yakho. (Bheka Okwengeziwe: Ungayisebenzisa Kanjani I-Anal Bead)

Inkomishi yokumunca i-dildos kuyindlela enhle kubantu abangakwazi ukuvuthwa kusukela ekungeneni kwe-anal, futhi bafuna indlela yokugibela i-dildo ngesikhathi sobulili bodwa. Yidonsele esitulweni, bese ungena kumgibeli ohamba phezulu noma uhlehlisele emuva endaweni ephezulu, futhi uphokophele phezulu naphansi ngenkathi usonta izingcezu zakho zangaphambili. Imikhiqizo okufanele uyihlole: I-Rainbow Pride Dildo (Yithenge, $69, babeland.com) kanye no-Boss Silicone Dildo (Buy It, $60, babeland.com).

Ibhande igama elisemthethweni lokugqoka i-dildo ihhanisi. Ukubhinca okufana ne-Curved Pegasus Realistic Harness Set (Ithenge, $ 135, babeland.com) ukuthengwa okumangalisayo nokudingekile kocansi oluboshwe ngendwangu nokukhonkotha. (Okuhlobene: Yonke Into Ofuna Ukwazi Ngokukhonkotha)

4. Hlola i-rimming.

Umsebenzi we-Rim, i-analingus, ukuphonsa isaladi-akunandaba ukuthi ukubiza kanjani, kepha wena kufanele kuzame, kusho uDkt. Goldstein. "Ngingumgqugquzeli omkhulu wokudlala ngomlomo njengendlala njengesenzo sayo, noma njengendlela yokulungiselela ukudlala ezimpundu," esho. "Akuzukusiza kuphela ukuthi ukhululeke futhi ulungele ukungena, kepha lapho kuneziphetho eziningi zemizwa ngaphandle kwe-anus kangangokuthi kuzwakala kumangalisa," usho kanje. (Okuningi lapha: Ungaba Kanjani Nobulili Obungamlomo Bomlomo nganoma yimuphi Umzimba)

Ingabe ufuna amathiphu okukhotha? Qala ezihlathini futhi uqhekeze ukuze ugcone umlingani wakho, ngaphambi kokuthi ekugcineni uhambise ulimi lwakho ngokuzungeza indunu, kuphakamisa uDkt. Goldstein. Ungazama nokufaka ulimi lwakho ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ngenkathi ukhotha, uma umlingani wakho evuma, uncoma ukuthi ungenise isandla ukuze uvuselele ezinye izindawo zabo ezinobungozi. Unga:

• Tweak / twist / pinch / flick izingono zabo.
• Shaya i-clit noma iqhude labo.
• Faka ingcindezi esidulini sabo se-pubic.
• Zinwaye umhlane.
• Landzelela umsuka wangaphansi kwamadolo noma unyawo.

Uma okwamanje-ngaphandle kwe-bae, futhi ufuna ukuhlola umuzwa wokugetshengwa ngenkathi ushaya indlwabu, unezinketho ezimbalwa: Enye iwukusebenzisa ipulaki ye-b-Vibe Rimming (Yithenge, $157, babeland.com) efanele igama layo. Ifaka indandatho yobuhlalu obujikelezayo entanyeni yayo, lapho ngaphakathi emzimbeni wakho izwa sengathi ilulimi! Qaphela nje: Ngisho nosayizi omncane usalokhu umuhle kakhulu (cabanga: sitrobheli esesilinganisweni esiphakathi), ngakho-ke lokhu kungcono kakhulu kumuntu oshaya indlwabu ongeyena oqalayo.

Inketho engcono yabantu abasha ekudlaleni indunu ukukhithiza i-lube efana nejeli emunweni wakho nasekungeneni, bese usebenzisa idijithi yakho ukulandelela imibuthano ekuzungezile. Khulisa ithuba le-orgasm ngokushaya i-clit noma iqhude lakho noma ngesinye isandla ngenkathi wenza kanjalo, kuphakamisa uSinclair. (Isikhumbuzi: Ungasebenzisi isandla esifanayo esisinqeni sakho bese usebenzisa izitho zakho zangasese — ungasabalalisa amagciwane angahle aholele ekuthelelweni okucasulayo.)

5. Shintsha izikhundla.

Futhi, i-P-spot kanye ne-G-spot kuvame ukuba izihluthulelo zokuvula i-anal O. Ukuze uzishaye phakathi nocansi olungena endunu, uzofuna ukukhetha indawo evumela umlingani wakho ukuthi aqonde inkinobho yesisu ngenkathi engaphakathi kuwe. , kusho uSinclair. "Ubuhle besitayela esimile somgibeli nomgibeli ngaphezulu ukuthi umamukeli angazivuselela ngenkathi engenwa," esho. (Bona okuningi: Izikhundla ezihamba phambili zocansi ze-Anal for Beginner and Anal Play)

Isithunywa sevangeli esiphakamisiwe esinomcamelo ohlohliwe ngaphansi kwezinqe zomamukeli kungenye indlela enhle yokudlala okokuqala ngoba umlingani wakho angafunda ubuso bakho. Futhi: ukusondelana. Uma umcamelo wakho wokulala uthambile nge-AF, cabanga ukutshala imali kumcamelo wocansi njenge-Dame Pillo (Yithenge, $95, dameproducts.com) noma i-Liberator Wedge (Yithenge, $98, babeland.com).

Uma lezi zikhundla zingakwenzi, zama isenzo esincane sokungena kabili ngokungeza ipulagi lesitho sangasese sowesifazane (esingena emgodini wesitho sangasese sowesifazane futhi sihlale phakathi nesikhathi sokudlala) njenge-b-Vibe Twist Texture Plug (Ithenge, $ 95, bvibe .com). Amaplagi esitho sangasese sowesifazane "azocindezela" izindawo ezishisayo zangasese ngase umsele wangasese futhi wandise amathuba okuthi bazokhuthazeka ngesikhathi socansi lwendunu.

6. Yisa eshaweni noma ebhavini.

Abantu abalala indunu ngokuvamile bawela emakamu amabili: labo aba uthando ukuhlola ukudlala ezimpundu eshaweni nakubhavu ngoba amanzi afudumele asiza yonke imisipha yabo — kufaka phakathi imisipha ye-anal sphincter — baphumule nalabo inzondo ngoba amanzi ageza i-lube kude. Konke kumayelana nokuncamelayo. Noma kunjalo, uSinclair uthi kubantu abaqaphayo ukudlala kwendunu ngenxa yayo yonke into yokwesaba ama-poop (okuthi, i-FYI, ayinasisekelo) ishawa kanye nokudlala kwe-anal yokugeza kungaba isishintshi segeyimu. Uthi: “Kungavusa inkanuko, kuzizwe kuhlanzekile, futhi kushisa ngokoqobo nangokomfanekiso. (Bheka: Indlela Yokwenza Ucansi Lweshawa Okumangazayo)

Uncoma ukusebenzisa isithambisi esisekelwe ku-silicone noma uwoyela, okungenzeka ukuthi singawasha eshaweni/ebhavini kune-lubricant esekelwe emanzini. "Uma usebenzisa [eyodwa yalezi] futhi unakekela ukuphinda ufake isicelo njalo, ulwazi lungaba mnandi impela." Izincomo eziphezulu: Uberlube (Thenga It, $ 29, babeland.com) kanye ne-pJur Original Silicone Lube (Ithenge, $ 6, babeland.com). (Izincomo eziningi lapha: AmaLubes ahamba phambili we-Anal Sex, Ngokusho Kwezazi)

Vele uxwayiswe ukuthi ama-silicone nama-oil lubs ayi-AF eshelelayo, ngakho-ke ungase ufune ukuthola umata weshawa ongasheleli ukuze ungagingqiki. Ngemuva kwakho konke, into yokugcina umuntu ayidingayo uhambo oluya e-ER ukuze kungcoliswe isipiliyoni sabo se-anal.

7. Phuma kancane.

Kwenziwe? "Ungamane ukhiphe ngokushesha okukhulu," kusho uSinclair. Kunalokho, ophayo kufanele akhululeke kancane kancane ngenkathi owamukelayo ehlisa umoya. Lokho kuyiqiniso kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umamukeli nje noma ungumphi futhi umamukeli (oshaya indlwabu). "Ukuphuma ngaphandle kancane kusiza ukuvula umnyango futhi kungenza ophumayo ukuthi ukhululeke kakhulu," esho.

Uma ufuna ukudlulela kwezinye izenzo zocansi, vele wenze isiqiniseko sokubamba ikhondomu entsha noma ugeze noma yimaphi amathoyizi / izandla / izitho zomzimba ezibandakanyeka ekudlaleni kwendunu. Ngoba noma ngabe isinqe somamukeli sihlanzekile ngokukhazimulayo, umsele wangaphambilini une-microbiome ehlukile kune-microbiome yesitho sangasese sowesifazane.Okusho ukuthi, ukucwilisa kabili kungadlulisa amabhaktheriya ukusuka emuva kuye phambili angaphonsa i-pH yesitho sangasese futhi aholele kwimvubelo noma ukutheleleka kwebhaktheriya. Blah.

Zijwayeze ukunakekela ngemuva.

Nakuba ukukhanya kwangemuva kocansi lwendunu kungokoqobo, uSinclair uphawula ukuthi—ikakhulukazi kwabaqalayo bendunu—ucansi lwendunu lungashiya owamukelayo ezizwa esengozini. Uncoma ukusebenzisa isikhathi esithile ukuganga, ukufaka uphethiloli, ukufaka amanzi emanzini, nokwenza izifinyezo ngokuhlangenwe nakho ngemuva kwalokho. (Okuhlobene: I-Reddit Inconyiwe Ukuhlanganyela Ekunakekelweni Kwangemuva Kocansi, Ngakho Ngakuzama)

Kuthiwani Uma Ngingenayo I-Anal Orgasm?

Imibuzo engcono ongazibuza yona yile: Ngabe ngithole injabulo? Ingabe ngifunde okwengeziwe ngomzimba wami? Ingabe ngizizwa ngisondelene nomlingani wami? Uma uphendule ngoyebo kokukodwa noma ngaphezulu kwalokhu u-Q umuzwa ubewina! Phela, i-anal O ingase ibe umphumela ojabulisayo we-peach play, kodwa akuyona kuphela inzuzo yokuhlola indunu.

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