Indlela Umbono Wakho Ngomshado Obuthinta Ngayo Ubuhlobo Bakho

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Muva nje, Angelina Jolie uvumile kwinhlolokhono ukuthi wayengakaze acabange ukuthi uzothandana.

"Njengoba uvela ekhaya eliphukile-uyavuma ukuthi izinto ezithile zizwakala njengenganekwane, futhi awuzibheki nje," kuchaza yena. Futhi-ke, kunjalo, wahlangana UBrad Pitt, futhi konke okunye kukhiqiza umlando, wokuba ngumzali nobambiswano. Kodwa ingabe umbono wakhe omelene nothando wamsiza noma wamlimaza ngokujabula ngemva kwalokho?

Uma uvela ekhaya eliphukile noma uke waba nezingqinamba ezithile emlandweni wobudlelwano bakho, kungokwemvelo ukweqa ngokuzibophezela, kusho uDanielle Dowling, Ph.D., umqeqeshi wobudlelwano obusekelwe eLos Angeles. "Uma ukulahla ukwesaba kwakho futhi ungakuhlaziyi, kungase kukuhluphe."

Kodwa uma ubudlelwano buthatha indawo engemuva kwezinye izinto empilweni yakho, noma unesimo sengqondo sokuthi "angiyena umuntu womshado" (futhi imibono yakho iyiqiniso), indlela ocabanga ngayo ingasiza ekuletheni uhlobo lokuxhumana olufunayo. , kusho uVicky Barrios, udokotela wobudlelwane ozinze eNew York. Uma ungagxili enjongweni yokugcina, ugcina uphola nothile ngoba nje ufuna ukuba nabo, kuchaza uBarrios. Ukuqomisana namadoda ahlukene, ukuhlola ukuthi kunjani ukungashadi, noma ukuba nesoka lesikhathi eside zonke izindlela zokuthola ukuthi yini okukusebenzela kangcono kunokwenza lokho ocabanga ukuthi kufanele ukwenze. "Kusezikhathini zamuva nje lapho abantu bebheke umshado njengendlela yokukhulisa umphakathi nokukhula ngokomoya. Muva nje ngekhulu leminyaka elidlule, umshado ngokuyinhloko ubuyisikhungo senhlalo nezomnotho," kuchaza uDowling.

Yiqiniso, njengoba uJolie ebonisa, imizwa-nezinhlelo-kungashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Hlala uvumela okungenzeka-noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ucacile ukuthi umi kuphi.

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