Bengine-C-Section futhi Kungithathe Isikhathi Eside Ukuyeka Ukuthukuthela Ngayo

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• Impumuzo yami yokuqala yaba ngenye into
• Ngikude ngedwa
• Into ebalulekile ukubona ukuthi noma ngabe imiphi imizwa yakho, unelungelo kuyo
• Ukuze ngizixolele, kwakudingeka ngiphinde ngithole imizwa ethile yokulawula

Bengingakulungele ukuthola isigaba se-C. Kuningi engifisa ukuthi ngabe bengikwazi ngaphambi kokuthi ngibhekane nokukodwa.

Umzuzu udokotela wami angitshele ukuthi ngidinga ukuhlinzwa, ngaqala ukukhala.

Ngokuvamile ngizibona nginesibindi, kodwa lapho ngitshelwa ukuthi ngidinga ukuhlinzwa okukhulu ukuze ngibelethe indodana yami, angizange ngibe nesibindi - ngangesaba.

Bekufanele ngibe nenqwaba yemibuzo, kodwa okuwukuphela kwegama engikwazile ukuliminyanisa ukuthi "Ngempela?"

Ngenkathi ngenza ukuhlolwa kwe-pelvic, udokotela wami wathi angizange ngihlanjululwe, futhi ngemuva kwamahora ama-5 wezinhlungu, wacabanga ukuthi kufanele ngibe njalo. Wachaza ukuthi nganginesikhumba esincane, futhi lokho kungenza umsebenzi ube nzima. Ube esecela umyeni wami ukuthi azizwe ngaphakathi kimi ukubona ukuthi kuncane kangakanani - into ebengingayilindele noma engingakhululeki ngayo.

Wangitshela ukuthi ngoba nganginamasonto angama-36 kuphela ngikhulelwe, wayengafuni ukucindezela ingane yami ngomsebenzi onzima. Uthe kungcono kwenziwe isigaba se-C ngaphambi kokuthi kuphuthume ngoba lapho-ke mancane amathuba okushaya isitho somzimba.

Wayengathululi noma yikuphi kwalokhu njengengxoxo. Wayesesithathile isinqumo futhi ngezwa sengathi akukho okunye engingakwenza ngaphandle kokuvuma.

Mhlawumbe ngabe ngabe ngisendaweni engcono yokubuza imibuzo ukube angikhathele kangako.

Ngangivele ngisesibhedlela izinsuku ezimbili. Ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound, babona ukuthi izinga lami le-amniotic fluid liphansi ngakho bangithumela ngqo esibhedlela. Lapho sengifikile, bangixhumanisa ne-fetal monitor, banginikeza uketshezi lwe-IV, ama-antibiotic, kanye ne-steroids ukusheshisa ukukhula kwamaphaphu engane yami, base bephikisana ngokuthi kufanele ngenze noma cha.

Akuphelanga amahora angama-48, izingqinamba zami zaqala. Cishe emahoreni ayisithupha emva kwalokho, ngangishayelwa egumbini lokuhlinzwa futhi indodana yami yanqunywa kimi ngenkathi ngikhala. Kungaba yimizuzu eyi-10 ngaphambi kokuthi ngimbone neminye imizuzu engama-20 noma ngaphezulu ngaphambi kokuthi ngithole ukumbamba nokuncelisa.

Ngibonga ngendlela emangalisayo ngokuba nomntwana ozelwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi onempilo ongasidingi isikhathi se-NICU. Futhi ekuqaleni, ngazizwa ngikhululekile ukuthi wazalwa nge-C-section ngoba udokotela wami wangitshela ukuthi intambo yakhe yayisongwe entanyeni yakhe - okungukuthi, ngaze ngathola ukuthi izintambo entanyeni, noma izintambo ze-nuchal, zivame kakhulu .

Cishe izingane zesikhathi esigcwele zizalwa nazo.

Impumuzo yami yokuqala yaba ngenye into

Emasontweni alandelayo, lapho ngiqala ukululama kancane kancane emzimbeni, ngaqala ukuzwa umuzwa ebengingawulindele: intukuthelo.

Bengithukuthelele u-OB-GYN wami, bengithukuthele ngisesibhedlela, bengithukuthele angibuzanga eminye imibuzo, futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, bengithukuthele ngokuthi ngiphucwe ithuba lokuletha indodana yami “ngokwemvelo. ”

Ngazizwa ngincishwa ithuba lokuyibamba khona manjalo, lolo lwazi olusheshayo lwesikhumba nesikhumba, kanye nokuzalwa engangikucabanga njalo.

Vele, ama-cearean angonga impilo - kepha angikwazanga ukulwa nomuzwa wokuthi mhlawumbe okwami ​​bekungadingeki.

Ngokuya nge-CDC, cishe konke ukulethwa e-United States kungalethwa ngokuhlinzwa, kepha ochwepheshe abaningi bacabanga ukuthi leli phesenti liphezulu kakhulu.

I, isibonelo, ilinganisela ukuthi isilinganiso esifanele sesigaba se-C kufanele sisondele kumaphesenti ayi-10 noma ayi-15.

Angiyena udokotela wezokwelapha, ngakho-ke kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi okwami ​​kwakudingeka ngempela - kodwa noma ngabe bekuyikho, odokotela bami bakwenza lokho hhayi yenza umsebenzi omuhle wokungichazela lokho.

Ngenxa yalokho, angizange ngibe nomuzwa wokuthi nganginokulawula emzimbeni wami ngalolo suku. Ngangizizwa nginobugovu nangokuthi ngangingakwazi ukukubeka emuva ukuzalwa kwami, ikakhulukazi lapho nganginenhlanhla yokuba ngiphile ngibe nengane yomfana enempilo.

Ngikude ngedwa

Abaningi bethu babhekana nemizwa ehlukahlukene ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, ikakhulukazi uma bekungahlelwanga, kungafuneki, noma kungadingeki.

“Nami ngibe nesimo esicishe sifane,” kusho uJusten Alexander, iphini likamongameli futhi oyilungu lebhodi le-International Cesarean Awareness Network (ICAN), ngenkathi ngimtshela indaba yami.

“Ngicabanga ukuthi akekho noyedwa ongavikelekile kulokhu ngoba ungena kulezi zimo futhi ubheka udokotela… futhi bakutshela ukuthi 'yilokhu esizokwenza' futhi uzizwa unomusa yokungakwazi ukuzisiza ngalowo mzuzu, ”kusho yena. "Kuze kube ngemuva kwalokho lapho ubona khona ukuthi 'linda, kwenzekeni kwenzekeni?'”

Into ebalulekile ukubona ukuthi noma ngabe imiphi imizwa yakho, unelungelo kuyo

"Ukusinda kungaphansi," kusho u-Alexander. “Sifuna abantu basinde, yebo, kodwa futhi sifuna baphumelele - futhi ukuchuma kufaka nempilo engokomzwelo. Ngakho-ke yize kungenzeka ukuthi usindile, ukube wahlukumezeka ngokomzwelo, leso akusona isipiliyoni esimnandi sokuzalwa futhi bekungafanele uvele usincelise bese uqhubeka. ”

"Kulungile ukucasulwa ngalokhu futhi kulungile ukuzizwa sengathi lokhu bekungalungile," eqhubeka. “Kulungile ukuya ekwelashweni futhi kulungile ukuthi ufune izeluleko kubantu abafuna ukukusiza. Kulungile futhi ukutshela abantu abakuvalayo, ‘Angifuni ukukhuluma nawe njengamanje.’ ”

Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi wazi ukuthi okwenzeke kuwe akulona iphutha lakho.

Bekufanele ngizixolele ngokungazi kabanzi ngama-cearean ngaphambi kwesikhathi nangokungazi ukuthi kunezindlela ezahlukahlukene zokwenza lokho.

Isibonelo, bengingazi ukuthi abanye odokotela basebenzisa ama-drapes acacile ukuvumela abazali bahlangane nezingane zabo ngokushesha, noma ukuthi abanye bakuvumela wenze isikhumba nesikhumba egumbini lokuhlinza. Ngangingazi ngalezi zinto ngakho ngangingazi ukuzibuza. Mhlawumbe ukube benginakho, bengingeke ngizwe sengathi ngiphangwe kanjalo.

Bekufanele futhi ngizixolele ngokungazi ukubuza eminye imibuzo ngingakafiki nasesibhedlela.

Bengingazi isilinganiso sikadokotela wami sokuhlinzwa futhi bengingazi ukuthi ziyini izinqubomgomo zesibhedlela sami. Ukwazi lezi zinto kungenzeka kuthinte amathuba ami okuhlinzwa.

Ukuze ngizixolele, kwakudingeka ngiphinde ngithole imizwa ethile yokulawula

Ngakho-ke, sengiqalile ukuqoqa imininingwane uma kwenzeka nginquma ukuba nomunye umntwana. Manje sengiyazi ukuthi kunezinsizakusebenza, njengemibuzo engingayibuza udokotela omusha, engingayilanda, nokuthi kunamaqembu okusekela engingaya kuwo uma kwenzeka ngidinga ukukhuluma.

Ku-Alexander, okusizile ukuthola ukufinyelela kumarekhodi akhe ezokwelapha. Kwakuyindlela yokuthi abukeze lokho okwabhalwa ngudokotela wakhe nabahlengikazi, engazi ukuthi uyoke akubone.

"[Ekuqaleni], kwangenza ngazizwa ngithukuthele kakhulu," kuchaza u-Alexander, “kodwa futhi, kwangikhuthaza ukuba ngenze engangikufuna lapho ngizalwa ngokulandelayo.” Wayekhulelwe okwesithathu ngaleso sikhathi, futhi ngemuva kokufunda amarekhodi, kwamnika ukuzethemba ukuthola udokotela omusha ozomvumela ukuthi azame ukubeletha isitho sangasese ngemuva kokuhlinzwa (i-VBAC), into u-Alexander ayeyifuna ngempela.

Mina, ngikhethe ukubhala phansi indaba yami yokuzalwa. Ukukhumbula imininingwane yalolo suku - nokuhlala kwami ​​isonto lonke esibhedlela - kwangisiza ukuthi ngizakhele umugqa wami wesikhathi futhi ngivume, ngangokunokwenzeka, ngalokho okwangehlela.

Akuzange kuguqule okwedlule, kepha kwangisiza ukuthi ngizenzele eyami incazelo - futhi lokho kwangisiza ngadedela enye yaleyo ntukuthelo.

Ngabe ngiqamba amanga uma bengithi ngiphelile ngokuphelele kuyo yonke intukuthelo yami, kodwa kuyasiza ukwazi ukuthi angingedwa.

Futhi usuku ngalunye lapho ngenza ucwaningo oluncane, ngiyazi ukuthi ngibuyisa okunye kwalolo lawulo oluthathwe kimi ngalolo suku.

USimone M. Scully ngumama omusha nentatheli obhala ngempilo, isayensi, nokuba ngumzali. Mthole ku-simonescully.com noma ku-Facebook naku-Twitter.