Kungani Lo Muntu Wokuqina Wokuthanda Umzimba Wakhe Futhi Kakhulu Kusukela Ekuzuzeni Amakhilogremu Ali-18

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Isikali ithuluzi elakhelwe ukukala isisindo-yilokho-ke. Kodwa abantu besifazane abaningi bayisebenzisa njengendlela yokulinganisa impumelelo nenjabulo, okuthi, njengoba sike sabika ngaphambili, ingaba yingozi kakhulu empilweni yakho engokwengqondo nengokomzimba. Kungakho umgqugquzeli wokufaneleka uClaire Guentz elapha ukuze akukhumbuze, okweshumi nambili, ukuthi izinombolo esikalini akunandaba.

UGuentz usanda kungena ku-Instagram ezokwabelana ngezithombe zakhe ezisondelene nezakhe uqobo-esisodwa esivela ku-2016 lapho ayekala khona amakhilogremu ayi-117 nesisodwa sonyaka, lapho engamaphawundi angu-135. Ngenkathi enesisindo esingamakhilogremu angu-18, uGuentz uyachaza ukuthi ujabule kakhulu futhi unempilo manje. Noma kunjalo, uyavuma ukuthi kunezikhathi lapho ayethanda khona ukuba nesisindo esincane ngenxa nje yokuthi wayegxile kakhulu ezinambeni.

“Ngicabanga ukuthi ngesinye isikhathi sike sizwe lelo zwi elincane lisitshela ukuthi inombolo ephansi esikalini ingcono,” ubhale kanje. "Ngiyazi ukuthi senginakho. Angikaze ngibe omunye wokuzilolonga isisindo sami, kodwa ehlobo eledlule lapho ngiphuka umhlathi, isisindo sami sehle kakhulu ngaphandle kwephutha lami ... kodwa ngithole ingxenye encane yami ethanda leyo nombolo isikali. " (Nansi enye i-blogger yokufaneleka efakazela ukuthi isisindo siyinombolo nje.)

UGuentz wayazi ukuthi udinga ukubuyela enesisindo esinempilo, kepha kukhona okwakumvimba. "Angibonanga ukushesha ngokushesha," ubhale kanje. "Ngisho ukuthi ngisindile kodwa ngibukeke kahle?!"

Kwaze kwaba yilapho umyeni wakhe embiza ngokungazinakekeli kahle lapho egcine esekhuthazekile ukuthi ashiye isikali futhi agxile ekubeni nempilo. “Uma ngibheka emuva, bengingekho esisindweni esinempilo futhi bengingabukeki kahle,” kubhala yena. "Kodwa angizange ngikubone lokho ekuqaleni. Ukubeka izinto ngombono, ngingu-5'9", ngakho-ke amakhilogremu ayi-117 awanempilo. Futhi ngithola ukuthi abanye abantu bazacile ngokwemvelo-ngiqonde ukuthi ngikhule ngihlale ngizizwa ngiyisigebengu futhi ngingakhululeki ngendlela engangimncane ngayo-kodwa kunomehluko lapho ugxile esikalini futhi unesisindo esincane."

Ukushesha phambili namuhla futhi uGuentz uzizwa ethembele kakhulu esikhunjeni sakhe kunanini ngaphambili. "Ngingasho ngokweqiniso ukuthi ngizizwa ngijabule kakhulu futhi ngizethemba ngokuba nesisindo esingu-18 lbs," wabhala. (BTW, yingakho abesifazane abaningi bezama ukuzuza isisindo ngokudla nokuzivocavoca.)

Ikholi yokuvuka: Isikali asikuchazi. Ngokwengqondo, isikali akusona okufanele sikunikeze ukuqinisekiswa. Ukwakha indlela yokuphila enempilo, eqhubekayo kuwumgomo ongcono kakhulu ukuba nawo. (Bheka lesi silinganiso esisha sezempilo esizoshintsha ukuthi usibona kanjani isikali.)

Njengoba uGuentz ezisho ngokwakhe: "Lesi yisikhumbuzo sakho sokuthi isisindo sibukeka sihlukile kuwo wonke umuntu futhi singavumeli isikali silawule inqubekelaphambili yakho. Ngiyakuzonda ukucabanga [okungenzeka] ukube bengingavumela isikali silawule lonke uhambo lwami lokufaneleka, nami angikufuni lokho nawe! "

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