I-Trend yakamuva Yemidiya Yezokuxhumana Imayelana Nokungahlungi

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Izihlungi zenkundla yezokuxhumana ziqhamuke kude nomqhele wembali yesikole esidala kanye nobuso benja obungaphandle kolimi futhi endaweni yazo namuhla izinketho ezidumile zokuthambisa isikhumba, ezishintsha ubuso ezisusa izithombe ozishuthe zona zokuthungwa kwesikhumba, amathoni, izibazi, kanye, kahle, konke okukwenza uhluke. Chitha isikhathi esanele uskrola 'ku-gram futhi kuya kuba nzima ngokwengeziwe ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwangempela nokukhohlisayo - futhi lokhu kungaba nomthelela omkhulu empilweni yakho yengqondo nasemfanekisweni womzimba wakho. Kepha umkhuba omusha ubiza ama-selfies ahleliwe agcwele inkundla yezokuxhumana futhi imema abasebenzisi ukuthi esikhundleni salokho babonise ubuso babo obungahlungi.

Ngokuyinhloko umgubho wezici ezihlukile zawo wonke umuntu (faka indumiso emoji), ukuthambekela kubandakanya ukusebenzisa umthelela we- "Hlunga uma uqhathanisa neQiniso" ku-Instagram osebenzisa isikrini sokuhlukanisa ukuze ubone ubuso bakho kokubili ngokwemvelo nesihlungi esiguqula iso lakho umbala, usayizi wezindebe, ukuthungwa kwesikhumba, nokuningi. Iningi lamavidiyo asethwe emsindweni wengoma ka-Alessia Cara ka-2015 ethi "Scars To Your Beautiful," okuyinto efanelekile. Eceleni kobuso obuhlungiwe nobangempela, abantu babhala imilayezo mayelana nokwamukela zona lezo zinto inkundla yezokuxhumana evame ukwenza uzizwe sengathi inamaphutha, ukungapheleli, noma okuthile okumele ukufihle, ukushintshwa, noma ukuhlela kude.

Thatha ividiyo yomsebenzisi we-Instagram @ embracing_reality, isibonelo. Isiqeshana siqala ngokuthi asuke ohlangothini oluhlungiwe aye ohlangothini lwemvelo lomphumela namagama-ncazo ombhalo afundeka kanje, "sawubona muhle (yebo wena!) ake ngikukhumbuze ukuthi awudingi isihlungi esikuhlehlisa ukuhluka kwakho. " Ube esondela eduze kwekhamera ukukhombisa umehluko ebusweni bakhe, ebhala ukuthi "ukuthungwa kwesikhumba, izimbotshana, izibazi, izinduna, isikhumba esingalingani, nezinto ezinjalo zingabantu nje futhi akukho okudingeka ukufihle!"

Ngokwakhe ukuthatha kwakhe lo mkhuba, umqeqeshi uKelsey Wells unanela @ embracing_reality's feelings. "Kunzima ngokwanele ukuthi ungaziqhathanisi nabanye okubona ku-inthanethi ngicela ungazihlungi kaningi futhi kakhulu uze uqale ukuqhathanisa i-REAL nawe ehlungiwe. Izihlungi zingaba mnandi kodwa UMUHLE, ngendlela oyiyo, "ubhala esihlokweni sombhalo. "Namuhla lapho ugeza ubuso bakho, bheka esibukweni bese uzinika uthando ❤️." (Ufuna i-inspo eyengeziwe evela ku-Wells? Hlola lokhu kuvivinya komlenze we-dumbbell wemizuzu engu-20 okwenziwa yi-fitfluencer ngokwakhe.)

Amanye ama-grammar afana ne- @ naturalljoi, @tzsblog, ne- @ xomelissalucy nawo aqaphela ukuthi izihlungi zimnandi futhi zilungile ukuzisebenzisa kwesinye isikhathi - hheyi, kwenzeka ukugqashuka okungalungile - kodwa kugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuthi, emagameni ka- @ tzsblog, "izihlungi ziyisihlungi, zona akuyona impilo yangempela. Futhi UNGAPHANDLE kwalesi sihlungi. " (Khonamanjalo, uDemi Lovato usanda kuthembisa ukungayeki ukusebenzisa izihlungi ngokuphelele futhi wababiza ngokuthi "bayingozi.")

Ku-Instagram yonkana, nezinye izinguqulo zethrendi ziyaqala. Isibonelo, abasebenzisi abaningi bathumela amavidiyo kumsindo ovela ku-@lovelifecurls, lapho ayala khona isihloko ukuthi sibonise ubuso babo ngesihlungi (okungukuthi umphumela "Okhanyayo") bese ususa isihlungi futhi usondeze "endaweni yakho ebhalwe kakhulu. ebusweni bakho." Lokhu kusondelana kubonisa impela umehluko oqabulayo wangempela phakathi kwesikhumba esiguquliwe nazo zonke izingxenye ezikwenza ... wena. Umsindo uphetha ngesitatimende esifana ne-mantra, "Lobu ubuso bami. Lokhu kuvamile." )

Yebo, izihlungi kuyajabulisa ukuzihlola futhi udlale ngazo, kodwa ukwamukela zonke izinto ezikwenza ukhethekile njalo kufanele ubukise - ngoba kuliqiniso, uphelele ngokweqiniso njengoba unjalo, ngakho-ke yenza njengoBeyoncé futhi "vuka, ungenaphutha."

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