Buza Ochwepheshe: Ngabe uDavid Beckham Uqinisile mayelana namaPacifiers?

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• "Ngaphezulu kweminyaka engu-4, izingane ezisebenzisa ama-pacifiers zivame ukuba nezinkinga eziningi zamazinyo, futhi zingaba nezinkinga ezengeziwe ekukhulisweni kwenkulumo nokukhuluma."
  - UBen Michaelis, Ph.D.
• "Njengodokotela wamazinyo ezingane, nginezindaba ezimnandi: Imikhuba yokuncela izithupha ne-pacifier ngokuvamile iyoba yinkinga kuphela uma iqhubeka isikhathi eside kakhulu."
  - UMisee Harris, iDMD
• “Ukukhuluma 'ngokuzungezile' i-pacifier kuthinta ukukhuluma kahle nokucaca. Ngitshela abazali ukuba bacabange uma kungadingeka bakhulume ngento elingana nalokhu ngomlomo wabo! ”
  - USherry Artemenko, M.A.
• “Esikhathini sokuphila konke, ubuntwana bokuqala iwindi elincane kakhulu. Izingane ngokwemvelo ziyaziyeka lezi zinto lapho sezikulungele. ”
  - UBarbara Desmarais
• "Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi uHarper uya kudokotela wamazinyo owaziwayo owazisa umndeni kangcono kakhulu kunomphakathi ngobungozi bamadummy, amabhinki, ama-pacifiers."
  - URyan A. Bell
• "Ukusetshenziswa kwama-pacifiers amahora amaningi ngosuku, nsuku zonke, kungaba nomthelela omubi ekukhuleni kolimi, ekusebenzeni kwezimoto zomlomo, nasekuthuthukiseni izindlela zokuzilawula zangaphakathi zokunciphisa nezokubhekana nanoma iyiphi ingane."
  - UMayra Mendez, Ph.D.

Udumo lunezinkinga zalo. Isibonelo, uma udume njengoDavid Beckham, awukwazi ukukhipha indodakazi yakho eneminyaka engu-4 esidlangalaleni nge-pacifier emlonyeni wayo ngaphandle kokuthola ukunakwa komhlaba wonke.

Ukukhethwa njengomzali kwenganekwane kanobhutshuzwayo eneminyaka engama-40 nonkosikazi wakhe uVictoria, umsiki wengqephu nowayenguSpice Girl, kugqanyiswe okokuqala kwiDaily Mail ekuqaleni kwaleli sonto. Iphephandaba laseBrithani lathi ukuvumela ingane yobudala bukaHarper Beckham ukuthi isebenzise i-pacifier kungamvulela izinkinga zamazinyo kanjalo nezenkulumo. Ngokusho kwe-American Academy of Pediatrics, ama-pacifiers kufanele adikibale ngemuva kweminyaka yobudala engu-4.

UPosh noBecks bayicacisile imicabango yabo: Bathi akusiyo eyomunye umuntu ukuthi bona noma ngubani bayikhulisa kanjani ingane. Kepha bacabangani ochwepheshe bezokwelapha nezokukhulisa izingane? Ngabe akulungile yini ukuthi izingane ezikwazi ukuhamba zikhulume zisebenzise i-pacifier?

"Ngaphezulu kweminyaka engu-4, izingane ezisebenzisa ama-pacifiers zivame ukuba nezinkinga eziningi zamazinyo, futhi zingaba nezinkinga ezengeziwe ekukhulisweni kwenkulumo nokukhuluma."
- UBen Michaelis, Ph.D.

“Ngokusobala, lesi yisinqumo somuntu siqu. Ngokuvamile, ukuncela ama-pacifiers kuyinto enhle. Izinsana ezingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ezincela ama-pacifiers zisengozini ephansi ye-SIDS [syndrome yokufa kwezinsana ngokuzumayo]. I-American Academy of Pediatrics iphakamisa ukulunyulwa kwezingane kuma-pacifiers aphakathi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha nezingu-12. Ngokombono wezengqondo, ama-pacifiers angaba yinto eguqukayo ewusizo esiza izingane zizithobe futhi zikhuthaze, izazi eziningi zengqondo zezingane zivame ukuthanda izingane ezizidingayo, kuze kube seminyakeni engu-3 noma engu-4. Ngaphezulu kweminyaka engu-4 , izingane ezisebenzisa ama-pacifiers zivame ukuba nezinkinga eziningi zamazinyo, futhi zingaba nezinkinga ezingeziwe ekukhulisweni kwenkulumo nolimi. Kungaphakamisa nezinkinga ngokusondelana ngokomzwelo okungadinga ukulungiswa. ”

UBen Michaelis, Ph.D., ungudokotela wezengqondo kanye ne-blogger nesikhulumi esikhuthazayo, futhi umbhali we- "Your Next Big Thing." Vakashela eyakhe iwebhusayithi noma umlandele ku-Twitter @DrBenMichaelis.

"Njengodokotela wamazinyo ezingane, nginezindaba ezimnandi: Imikhuba yokuncela izithupha ne-pacifier ngokuvamile iyoba yinkinga kuphela uma iqhubeka isikhathi eside kakhulu."
- UMisee Harris, iDMD

“Ngemuva kokuvela kwalesi sithombe, kungazelelwe wonke umuntu waba yingcweti yamazinyo. Kuthiwani ngokububula okukhulu? Yonke ingane ikhula ngendlela ehlukile, futhi ayikho indlela elula yokwahlulela okulungile enganeni yomunye umuntu ehamba ngokweminyaka yayo. Njengodokotela wamazinyo ezingane, nginezindaba ezinhle: Imikhuba yokuncela izithupha- ne-pacifier ngokuvamile iyoba yinkinga kuphela uma iqhubeka isikhathi eside kakhulu. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi ingane yakho ineminyaka emingaki, ngingayincoma kakhulu i-pacifier enomoya, evumela ukuthi umoya ujikeleze. Lokhu kwehlisa ukuqina komkhuba wokuncela wengane futhi kwehlise ubungozi bokukhula nezinkinga zokukhula.

Iningi lezingane liyayeka le mikhuba lilodwa, kepha uma lisancelisa ukudlula iminyaka engu-3, ​​into yokusebenzisa umkhuba inganconywa ngudokotela wamazinyo wakho wezingane njengesinqumo sokugcina. Kepha ungalenzi iphutha - le mishini izofakwa usimende emihumeni engemuva yangemuva, ivimbele noma iyiphi into ingene olwangeni. Kokunye, lokhu kudala inselelo ngenhlanzeko yamazinyo. Kokunye, ngibonile izingane zithola izindlela zokuncela ama-pacifiers azo noma ukufaka okuthile okuhlukile noma ngabe kukhona into esebenza ngayo. ”

UMisee Harris, iDMD ungudokotela wamazinyo wezemidlalo nowezingane, kanye ne-blogger yokuphila. Vakashela iwebhusayithi yakhe noma umlandele ku-Twitter ku- @sexiyest.

“Ukukhuluma 'ngokuzungezile' i-pacifier kuthinta ukukhuluma kahle nokucaca. Ngitshela abazali ukuba bacabange uma kungadingeka bakhulume ngento elingana nalokhu ngomlomo wabo! ”
- USherry Artemenko, M.A.

“Ngingakuvimbela impela ukusetshenziswa kwe-pacifier ngineminyaka emithathu noma ngaphezulu ngoba izingane zifunda ngokushesha futhi zisebenzisa ulimi ngokuzijwayeza. Ukukhuluma 'ngokuzungezile' i-pacifier kuthinta ukukhuluma okulungile nokucaca. Ngitshela abazali ukuthi bacabange uma bekufanele bakhulume ngento esayizi elinganayo emlonyeni wabo! Izingane azikwazi ukucacisa ukunyakaza kwazo kwezilimi nezindebe, njengokuthinta ichopho lolimi lwazo ophahleni lomlomo wazo ngomsindo othi ‘t’ noma ‘d’.Bangadikibala uma bengaqondakali, ngakho-ke bakhulume kancane. ”

USherry Artemenko ungudokotela wezifo zolimi kanye nomxhumanisi wamathoyizi onguchwepheshe bezingane zasenkulisa nezasesikoleni esiphakeme ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Vakashela iwebhusayithi yakhe noma umlandele ku-Twitter @playonwordscom.

“Esikhathini sokuphila konke, ubuntwana bokuqala iwindi elincane kakhulu. Izingane ngokwemvelo ziyaziyeka lezi zinto lapho sezikulungele. ”
- UBarbara Desmarais

“Ngokubona kwami, abazali bavamise ukulangazelela kakhulu ukumisa izinto ezinjengama-pacifiers, izingubo zokuvikela, amabhodlela, noma yini enye eduduzayo nekhuthazayo. Angiyena udokotela wezifo zokukhuluma, udokotela, noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, kodwa eminyakeni yami engama-25 ngisebenza nabazali, angikaze ngizwe ngomonakalo owenziwe ukusetshenziswa isikhathi eside kwanoma iyiphi yalezi zinto. Umngane wami osondelene naye wavumela izingane zakhe zombili ukuba zithole ama-pacifiers aze abe neminyaka okungenani emi-4, futhi ngiyakutshela ukuthi bobabili bangabafundi abaphothule eyunivesithi abanomsebenzi owanelisayo futhi abakaze babe nezinkinga zokukhuluma. Ingane eyodwa ibidinga izinsimbi, kepha cishe zonke izingane zithola ama-brace manje. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwezikrini ezinezinsana nezinsana kuyinkinga enkulu kakhulu.

Lapho usukhulise izingane futhi ungabheka emuva kwezinye zalezi zinto obukhathazekile ngazo, uzithola ubuza: 'Kungani ngangiphuthume kangaka ukuba akhule?' Esikhathini sokuphila konke, ekuqaleni ubuntwana iwindi elincane kakhulu. Ngokwemvelo izingane ziyekela zonke lezi zinto lapho sezikulungele. ”

UBarbara Desmarais ungumqeqeshi wokuba ngumzali onamava weminyaka engama-25, onesizinda semfundo yobuntwana. Vakashela iwebhusayithi yakhe noma umlandele kuTwitter @Coachbarb.

"Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi uHarper uya kudokotela wamazinyo owaziwayo owazisa umndeni kangcono kakhulu kunomphakathi ngobungozi bamadummy, amabhinki, ama-pacifiers."
- URyan A. Bell

“Ngibheka indodakazi kaDavid Beckham eneminyaka emine ubudala nge-pacifier futhi angicabangi… lutho. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi uHarper uya kudokotela wamazinyo owaziwayo owazisa umndeni kangcono kakhulu kunomphakathi ngobungozi bama-dummies, amabhinki, ama-pacifiers… noma yini. Ngokubona kwami, i-pacifier yenze umsebenzi wayo ngeminyaka engu-3, ​​igcina ingane ithule futhi iyisize ilele. Kepha eminyakeni engu-4, ayenzi monakalo. Izingane azitholi amazinyo unomphela kuze kube yilapho sezineminyaka engaba ngu-6 ubudala, ngakho-ke ake siyeke ukwahlulela kuze kube yileso sikhathi. Ngingabheja ukuthi indodakazi kaDavid noVictoria yondlekile, ifundile, futhi ithola izinto ezinhle kakhulu empilweni… futhi lokho kuhlanganisa nama-pacifiers. "

URyan A. Bell waziwa kakhulu ngezihloko zakhe ezikhuluma ngokuba ngumzali, ukuncelisa ibele, nokuningi ethi Angisiye Umzanyana. Mlandele ku-Twitter @ryan_a_bell.

"Ukusetshenziswa kwama-pacifiers amahora amaningi ngosuku, nsuku zonke, kungaba nomthelela omubi ekukhuleni kolimi, ekusebenzeni kwezimoto zomlomo, nasekuthuthukiseni izindlela zokuzilawula zangaphakathi zokunciphisa nezokubhekana nanoma iyiphi ingane."
- UMayra Mendez, Ph.D.

“Kuningi ukucatshangelwa komuntu ngamunye okufanele kubhekwe njengobudala, inkambo yokukhula, ubumnene, kanye nezidingo zezokwelapha, ngaphambi kokuba sifinyelele esiphethweni sengozi. Okusemqoka wukuthi kuya ngokuthi ingane isisebenzisa isikhathi esingakanani i-pacifier, futhi ukusetshenziswa kwe-pacifier kuholela ekuphazanyisweni kwemisebenzi ejwayelekile, njengokukhuluma, ukuxhumana, ukudla nokulawula imizwa?

Akujwayelekile ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka engu-4 zisebenzise ama-pacifiers, futhi ukusetshenziswa kwama-pacifiers kukhuthazekile ngaphezu kobuntwana. Ukusetshenziswa kwama-pacifiers amahora amaningi ngosuku, nsuku zonke, kungaba nomthelela omubi ekukhuleni kolimi, ekusebenzeni kwezimoto zomlomo, nasekuthuthukiseni izindlela zokuzilawula zangaphakathi zokunciphisa nezindlela zokubhekana nanoma iyiphi ingane. Umntwana oneminyaka engu-4 osebenzisa i-pacifier ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze athobise ngokushesha noma aduduze, kepha ayeke phakathi kwemizuzu embalwa futhi usenenkulumo nentuthuko yolimi neyomlomo, ngombono wami wezokwelapha, akunakwenzeka ukulinyazwa ukusebenzisa isikhashana i-pacifier.

UMayra Mendez, Ph.D. ungumxhumanisi wohlelo lokukhubazeka kobuhlakani kanye nentuthuko nezinsizakalo zezempilo yengqondo eProvidence Saint John's Child and Family Development Center eSanta Monica, eCalifornia.