Indaba kaJade Roper Tolbert Yengozi Yokuzalwa Yasekhaya Eyodwa Okufanele Uyifunde Ukuze Ukholwe

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Isiqu U-alum Jade Roper Tolbert ungene izolo ku-Instagram ememezela ukuthi ubelethe ingane yomfana ephilile ngoMsombuluko ebusuku. Abalandeli bakujabulele ukuzwa lezi zindaba ezijabulisayo — kodwa futhi bethuswe yindlela ukwehla nokulethwa kukaRoper Tolbert kwehle ngayo.

"Ngabeletha ngephutha ekhaya izolo ebusuku, ekhabetheni lethu eliphambili," kubhala lo mdlali wenkanyezi oyiqiniso ku-Instagram, kanye nesithombe esimbala ebambe ingane yakhe izungezwe abezimo eziphuthumayo namalungu omndeni. (Okuhlobene: Indlela Yokuzala Awukaze Wazi Ukuthi Ikhona)

"Bengisalokhu ngicubungula ukwethuka kwakho konke lokhu, njengoba bekungekhona lokhu ebengikuhlelile kuphela, kodwa ngibonga kakhulu umuntu ngamunye osize ukuletha indodana yethu emhlabeni ngokuphepha," eqhubeka.

Kwavela ukuthi, amanzi kaRoper Tolbert aphuma ngokuluhlaza futhi umsebenzi wakhe wakhula ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho. Bekubukeka sengathi asikho isikhathi sakhe sokufika esibhedlela. “Emuva kwemizuzu engamashumi ayisikhombisa nanhlanu ngibelethe ingane yethu yomfana ephile saka ngibambe ibhentshi ekamelweni lethu,” kusho yena.

Ngokujabulisayo, uRoper Tolbert nendodana yakhe banempilo. Kepha isimo besingaphansi kokuhle impela.

ICYDK, ukuhlela okuningi kuya ekubelethweni ekhaya. Omama abakhetha ukubelethela ekhaya bavame ukuqasha umbelethisi, osiza ekuqinisekiseni isipiliyoni sokubeletha esiphephile futhi esizolile, ngokusho kwe-American Pregnancy Association (APA). Futhi, ngokuvamile kunoHlelo B uma kwenzeka ukudluliselwa esibhedlela kuyadingeka. I-APA iphinde itusa ukuba kube ne-ob-gyn eyisipele ongathintana nayo, kanye nodokotela wezingane ongahlola ingane phakathi namahora angu-24 izelwe. (Okuhlobene: Ukuzalwa Kwesigaba C Sekucishe Kuphindeke Kabili Eminyakeni Yamuva—Nakhu Isizathu Sokuba Lokho Kubaluleke)

Yize kunjalo, amaphesenti angama-40 omama abaqalayo kanye namaphesenti ayi-10 abesifazane abake babeletha phambilini badluliselwa esibhedlela ukulethwa ngenxa yezinkinga ngesikhathi sokubeletha ekhaya, ngokusho kwe-APA. Ngakho-ke iqiniso lokuthi uRoper Tolbert ukwazile ukuletha ngempumelelo indodana yakhe ngokuhleleka okubonakala kungunothi, lihle kakhulu. (Okuhlobene: Lo Mama Ubelethe Ingane Enophawu Oluyi-11 Ekhaya Ngaphandle Kwe-Epidural)

Ngokujabulisayo, wayenohlelo lokusekela oluqinile lokumsiza kulokho okwenzekile.

"Kwakungesinye sezikhathi ezesabeka kakhulu empilweni yami ngoba ngangizizwa ngingalawuleki, kodwa uTanner, umama kaTanner, umama wami, kanye nemithi kanye nabacimi bomlilo bangigcina ngiqhubeka lapho ngizwa sengathi umhlaba ungihlasela kanye nengane yami engakazalwa. ingane, "kubhala uRoper Tolbert, ephetha umsebenzi wakhe. "Ngibonga ngendlela emangalisayo ngoxhaso ebesinalo nangalo mfana omuhle engimbamba ngezandla zami."

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