U-Kate Upton no-Kelly Clarkson Bahlanganiswe Ngaphezu Kokuncelisa Ibele kanye Nokuphila Komzimba

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Lapho omama abadumile bekhuluma ngokukhululekile mayelana nokuthi kunjani ukuba ngumzali — kusuka ekukhulelweni kunzima ukuya empilweni nezingane ezincane — kuyasiza omama abajwayelekile kuyo yonke indawo ukuthi bazizwe bengeyodwa kulokho okungenzeka babhekene nakho.

Ekuqaleni kwaleli sonto, uKate Upton ufikileI-Kelly Clarkson Show ukuxoxa nomphathi wombukiso wezingxoxo osanda kuqanjwa ngazo zonke izinto zobuzali.

Laba bobabili bakhulume ngokungagunci ngezihloko eziningana, kusukela ekunceliseni ibele, ekubeni nomzimba omuhle ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nangemva kokukhulelwa, nakho konke okuphakathi. (Okuhlobene: Kungani uKate Upton Ugxile Kakhulu Ekuzuzeni Kwakhe Kunokulahlekelwa Isisindo)

Esihlokweni sokuncelisa ibele, uClarkson no-Upton bathole indawo evumelana kakhulu. Womabili ama-mamas avumile ukuthi "ukupompa yikhona okubi kakhulu," ne Idol yaseMelika alum enezela: "Kubuhlungu kakhulu, anginandaba nokuthi ubani uthini."

UClarkson uze wakhumbula isikhathi lapho ayencelisa khona ngenkathi esebenza futhi wathola ukuthi othile ngephutha waphonsa ibhodlela elalisele nalo “incanyana” yobisi lwebele. "Ngingene ekhabetheni lami ngavele ngawa phansi ngakhala. Ngangifana nokuthi, 'Awazi ukuthi ngikusebenzele kanzima kanjani lokho!" Kusho uClarkson. "Futhi empeleni, kwakungekho lutho ebhodleleni; ngiyahlanya. Kodwa, empeleni, yisikhathi nje se-hormonal. Angicabangi ukuthi abantu bayakucabangela lokho, ikakhulukazi uma singabesifazane emehlweni omphakathi. yisikhathi esinzima." (Kuhlobene: Indlela uKelly Clarkson Afunda Ngayo Ukuthi Ukuba Mncane Akufani Nokuba Nempilweni)

"Amandla ethu akhishwa kithi ngokoqobo [lapho sincelisa ibele]," kusho u-Upton. "Ngakho-ke awuzizwa uzithanda wena. Kunzima kakhulu nokuthile okudingeka abantu bakhulume ngakho kabanzi."

Upton futhi uvulele uClarkson mayelana nesikhangiso sakhe sekhava sakamuva EzempiloUmagazini kaSeptemba, lapho afike khona wangathintwa ngokuphelele ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngemuva kokuba nendodakazi yakhe, uGenevieve — emenza inkanyezi yokuqala engakathintwa emlandweni walomagazini.

Lo mlingisi oneminyaka engu-27 ubudala uvumile ukuthi ubesancela ibele ngesikhathi ethwebula, wadalula ukuthi "udidekile" ngoba "ukucindezela" kuwo wonke umuntu, okuhlanganisa neqembu lakhe le-glam, eyazi ukuthi ngeke libe khona. nethuba lokuhlela imininingwane emincane ezithombeni, njengesibazi emlenzeni ka-Upton, isibonelo.

U-Upton wachaza, nokho, ukuthi kwakubalulekile ukuthi angene ngamandla ngokudubula ngaphandle kwezinxushunxushu. "Siku-Instagram ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi sibona abantu bethatha izithombe zonke," utshele uClarkson. "Kuphela nini? Uma uskrolela ku-Instagram, uziqhathanisa njalo nalaba abanye abantu, futhi kimi, bengifuna sithathe isinyathelo sibuyele emuva futhi sikhombise umzuzwana wangempela womuntu osenezinyanga eziyisithupha ngemuva kokubeletha futhi abe lowo muntu wangempela nethonya langempela kwabanye abantu." (Kuhlobene: Sonke isithombe Kulo mkhankaso we-Desigual Swimsuit Asithintwa)

Kepha nangaphambi kuka-Upton Ezempilo isithombe sekhava, imodeli ihlale ithola ukuphawula okungafanele ngomzimba wayo, kusho uClarkson.

"Ngesikhathi [ukugxekwa] kwenzeka okokuqala, bekunzima impela," kusho u-Upton. "Bengifana nokuthi, 'Ngisebenza njalo, kungani wonke umuntu engibiza ngamafutha?'"

Nokho, kulezi zinsuku, "ingxoxo isishintshe ngokuphelele," kusho u-Upton. "Lokho kukhombisa ukuthi imboni ishintsha kanjani, izwi lethu libalulekile, futhi izinto zingashintsha. Sisho okuthile. Kukhona esingakushintsha." (Okuhlobene: UKelly Clarkson Uthi Uzizwa Esecansini Kunanini Emuva Komshado Nezingane)

Upton wabe esehlanganyela lokho ngenxa yokukhuthaza kwakhe Ezempilo ikhava, manje useqale eyakhe i-Instagram hashtag enomzimba, #ShareStrong, ukudala umphakathi wabesifazane lapho bengabelana khona ngokwabo nokuthi yini ebashukumisayo ukuthi babe namandla.

I-ICYDK, osaziwayo kanye nabantu abajwayelekile ngokufanayo bangene ku-Instagram nge-hashtag ka-Upton, babelana ngayo yonke into kusukela kwezithombe ozishuthe zona ezingazenzisi kuya ezithombeni zokuba ngumama osebenzayo. "Kuhle kakhulu ukusebenzisa leyo hashtag futhi uthole ugqozi kubo bonke laba abanye besifazane ngoba sinamandla kakhulu, futhi ukukwazi ukuhlanganyela emandleni omunye nomunye yikhona okwenza abesifazane bamangaliswe kakhulu," kusho u-Upton etshela uClarkson.

I-supermodel ithe "#ShareStrong" yindodakazi yakhe: "Ngifuna ukuba yisibonelo angabheka kuso, futhi ngifuna ukudala umhlaba ojabulayo, onempilo ukuze akhulele kuwo."

Kukhuthazwe umbono onika amandla u-Upton ngobumama, umama omusha ezilalelini ogama lakhe lingu-Alex wabelane ngendaba yakhe ku I-Kelly Clarkson Show, eveza ukuthi wesaba indlela umzimba wakhe ongashintsha ngayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nangemva kokukhulelwa. Kodwa lapho u-Alex esenengane yakhe yentombazane, wabona eka-Upton Ezempilo cover nengqondo yakhe yashintsha ngokuphelele. "Angikweleti muntu 'omuhle' noma 'ophelele' noma 'omhlophe' nanoma yini," u-Alex ocwebe izinyembezi etshela u-Upton. "Ukuba yisibonelo nje endodakazini yami nokuba umuntu nje angabheka kuye, futhi ngiqine endodakazini yami, kuyinto enhle kakhulu engingaba yiyo." (Related: Ukuvuma Kwalomfazi Okudabukisayo Ngokuncelisa Ibele Kungu-#SoReal)

U-Upton uthe yizindaba ezifana nezika-Alex ezenza umsebenzi wakhe uzizwe unomvuzo ngempela.

"Kusho lukhulu kimi. Uma uzwa konke ukugxekwa, kwesinye isikhathi ufana nokuthi 'Kungani ngenza lokhu?'" Kusho u-Upton. "Izindaba ezinjengalezi - ngiyabona ukuthi yingakho ngenza lokhu. sihlangene sonke. Sonke siyabhekana nayo. "

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