ULili Reinhart Wenze Iphuzu Elibalulekile Mayelana NeDysmorphia Yomzimba
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ULili Reinhart, Riverdale intombazane ichoboza futhi ikhukhumale-okhulisayo-okhuluma ngokweqiniso, ivele yenza iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu mayelana nokuhlazisa umzimba futhi lapha. Ngoba. It. (Okuhlobene: Amantombazane Akamuva E-#AerieREAL (Kuhlanganisa no-Reinhart) Azokunikeza Ukuzethemba Kwezingubo Zokubhukuda.)
Ngasekuqaleni kwaleli sonto, uye ku-Twitter enomyalezo kuma-troll we-Intanethi. "Ukuzizwa udumele ngempela ngenxa yokuthi abantu abaningi bathi 'ukhuluphele ngakho vala umlomo ngokwanga umzimba wakho.' Sengathi umzimba wami i-dysmorphia awubalulekile ngenxa yendlela engibukeka ngayo kwabanye abantu, "kubhala yena, ebiza abagxeki abathi akakhohlakele ngokwanele futhi akazacile ngokwanele ukuba abe nezinkinga zomzimba. HA!
Okokugcina: I-dysmorphia yomzimba ibonakala yi-International OCD Foundation njengendlela yokulungisa amaphutha akho acatshangelwayo abangela imicabango ebucayi ngokweqile ngomzimba wakho edlala ku-loop ekhanda lakho. Kepha njengoba kusho uReinart, ukungazethembi komzimba okubandayo akubandlululi ngokuya ngosayizi noma "amaphutha" abonakalayo. Ngamanye amagama, ayikho into efana nokuthi "ulunge kakhulu" noma yini noma yini ukuze ube nama-hang-ups omfanekiso womzimba.
Ukusebenzisana futhi kuyisikhumbuzo sokuthi ukwenza abantu ku-inthanethi naku-IRL bayeke ukukhuluma ngemizimba yabanye abantu akuyona into elula leyo. (Okuhlobene: Abesifazane Abakhuthazayo Abachaza kabusha Izindinganiso Zomzimba.) Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi kungani sishintshe mathupha indlela esikhuluma ngayo ngemizimba yabesifazane nemiyalezo engemuva komkhankaso we #MindYourOwnShape. Isexwayiso se-Spoiler: Ukuthanda isimo sakho akumele neze kusho ukuzonda komunye umuntu. Yenza ingxenye yakho ukusabalalisa okuhle online, esikhundleni salokho.
UReinhart uphethe ngokuveza ukuthi ukwenza ukungavikeleki kothile kungalimaza empeleni. “Ukugula ngengqondo kuba kubi kakhulu uma abantu bethi awunalo ilungelo lokuzizwa ngendlela ozizwa ngayo,” ubhale kanje kuTwitter. "Ungahle ungakuqondi ukungavikeleki kothile - kodwa kuhloniphe."
Akusikhona okokuqala ukuthi umlingisi angene obala ngokukhuluma ngomzimba. NgoMeyi, ngesikhathi amahlebezi okuthi ukhulelwe aqala ukusabalala ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, uReinhart washaya izandla futhi ngendlela enkulu. “Lona wumzimba wami nje,” ubhale ku-Instagram. "Futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngiyakhukhumala. Kwesinye isikhathi ngithwetshulwa isithombe esingajabulisi. Kwesinye isikhathi ngidlula ezikhathini lapho ngithola khona ukukhuluphala. Umzimba wami yinto engingasoze ngaxolisa ngayo. Ngakho-ke masingafaki isikhathi esiningi nokuzikhandla ukhathalela isibalo somuntu ongamazi. " Amen kulokho.