Ukuqina Kanjani Kusiza Kanjani Umbhali Nesihleli Meaghan Murphy Ukuhola Impilo Enamandla Amakhulu

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Ngijabula kakhulu lapho ngiphapheme phambi kwezingane zami nomhlaba wonke. Kulapho kungekho muntu ongithumelela i-imeyili, akekho ongithumelela imiyalezo - ekuseni ngeyami, futhi kulapho ngizizwa ngikhokhiswe ngokuphelele. Ngendlela efanayo, ngidinga ukuzilolonga. Ukuzivocavoca kungumlingo wami. Kungumuthi wami engikudinga ukuwuthatha ukuze ngisebenze, noma ngabe lokho kusho ukuphuma ekilasini ngo-5: 15 ekuseni, ngihlala ezingubeni zami zokuzivocavoca kuze kube yihora lesithathu lapho ekugcineni sengikwazi ukuphuma ngiyogijima, noma ukuncinda ekuzilolongeni kwe-Peloton phakathi kwezingcingo ze-Zoom futhi ungashawa kuze kube kusihlwa. Ngikubiza ngokuthi "ukukopela usuku."

Angithembekile kunoma yikuphi ukujima okukodwa, futhi. Ngaphambi kobhubhane, ngizosebenzisa ikilasi le-SLT ngolunye usuku, kanye ne-Orangetheory noma ikilasi elishisayo le-barre ngokulandelayo. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi mangaki amakilasi engiwathathile, kuhlala kukhona lesi sikhathi phakathi kokujima lapho ngicabanga ukuthi angikwazi ukuqhubeka. Ukuqina ngayo, ngizitshela ukuthi 'Ngingumuntu owenza izinto ezinzima, ngakho-ke ngenza izinto ezinzima ejimini nasempilweni.' Kuyasiza nokuthi ngithole amandla kulabo abaseduze kwami. Uma umuntu oseduze kwami ​​ekilasini lomdanso eyibulala, nami ngifuna ukuyibulala.

Kanye nokuzivocavoca umzimba, umkhuba wami wokubonga wansuku zonke awunakuxoxiswana. Nsuku zonke, ngikhuluma ngokuzwakalayo izinto ezingenze ngathi "yay" namuhla, nokuyinto engithola injabulo kuyo noma ngime kancane bese ngicabanga, "Kuhle kakhulu lokho." Ngigcina amarekhodi abo bonke "kuhlu lwe-yay" enginalo ku-Instagram ngoba ngikholelwa ngenhliziyo yonke ukuthi ukuba nesimo sengqondo sokubonga kuyisibopho ukuze uthole injabulo - awukwazi ukujabula uma ungenayo inhliziyo ebonga ngandlela thile, ukuma, noma ifomu. (Kuhlobene: I-TikTokkers Ibhala Izinto Ezingacacile Abazithandayo Ngabantu Futhi Kuyalapheka Kakhulu)

Ukhiye wala mandla aphezulu ukuhlala uvumelana nezimo ezinhlelweni zakho. Ukuzivocavoca kwami ​​kosuku kungabukeka kwehluke kancane, kuya ngezimo zempilo yami, kepha ngenza umzamo wokukubona ngandlela thile.

Lokho ubuhle bezimiso ezibalwe encwadini yami entsha Impilo Yakho Ekhokhiswe Ngokugcwele (Ithenge, $ 19, amazon.com) - uma unethuluzi lamathuluzi, noma ngabe impilo ikuphonsa amabhola ajika, ungalungisa.

Shape Magazine, ngo-Ephreli 2021

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