UMeghan Trainor ukhuluma ngokungagunci mayelana nobuhlungu obungokomzwelo nangokomzimba bokukhulelwa kwakhe okunzima nokubeletha

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Ingoma entsha kaMeghan Trainor ethi, "Glow Up" ingahle ibe yingoma yanoma ngubani osemaphethelweni wokushintsha kwempilo, kepha kuTeoror, lezi zingoma zingomuntu uqobo. Ngemva kokubeletha ingane yakhe yokuqala, u-Riley, ngo-February 8, u-Trainor wayesekulungele ukubuyisela umzimba wakhe, impilo yakhe, kanye nempilo yakhe - konke okwavivinywa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa okungahambi kahle kanye nokubeletha okuyinselele okwashiya indodana yakhe ikhulelwe. igumbi labagula kakhulu elisanda kuzalwa izinsuku ezine.

Isikhubekiso sokuqala ohambweni lokuqala lokukhulelwa lomnqobi weGrammy sifike kwi-trimester yakhe yesibili, lapho ethola ukuxilongwa okungalindelekile: isifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa, isifo esithinta cishe amaphesenti ayisi-6 kuya kwayi-9 wabesifazane abakhulelwe e-United States, ngokusho kweCenters for Disease Ukulawula Nokuvimbela.

"Ngaphandle kwesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa, ngangiyisihlabani se-rock," kusho umculi Umumo. "Ngangikwazi kahle ukukhulelwa, ngenza okukhulu. Angikaze ngigule ekuqaleni, ngabuza okuningi, 'ngikhulelwe? Ngiyazi ukuthi anginawo umjikelezo wami futhi ukuhlolwa kuyakusho, kodwa ngizizwa ngivamile .'"

UTrainor uthi bekuyihlaya elingahleliwe ekuhloleni okujwayelekile okuholele ekutheni agcine etholakele, okungabangeli izimpawu ezibonakalayo kwabesifazane abaningi. “Ngahlola igazi ngoba ngangizama ukwenza ihlaya futhi ngikhululeke ekamelweni,” usho kanje. "Ngathi, 'umama uthe unesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa kodwa ucabanga ukuthi yingoba uphuze ijusi yewolintshi enkulu ngalolo suku ekuseni futhi yikho okwamfaka ushukela egazini.'

Ukuphawula kukaTrainor okungaxakile kwaxwayisa odokotela bakhe ngokungazi ifulegi elibomvu. Nakuba izimbangela zingaqondwa kahle, abesifazane abaningi abanesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa okungenani banelungu lomndeni elilodwa eliseduze elinalesi sifo noma olunye uhlobo lwesifo sikashukela. Futhi ukukhuphuka kukashukela egazini likanina kwakungeyona nje i-anecdote ehlekisayo - kwafaka odokotela bakhe eqinisweni lokuthi umama wakhe kungenzeka ukuthi wabhekana nokusabela okungavamile kushukela, okungaba uphawu lokugula. Ukuze kuhlolwe isifo sikashukela kwabesifazane abakhulelwe, odokotela bavame ukwenza ukuhlolwa kokubekezelela ushukela lapho isiguli siphuza isisombululo esinoshukela omkhulu ngemva kokuzila ukudla bese sihlolwa igazi laso ngezikhathi ezithile amahora ambalwa.

Imiphumela yokuqala kaTrainor yayijwayelekile, kodwa-ke kwatholakala ukuthi unalesi sifo emasontweni ayi-16. "Kumele uhlole igazi lakho njalo ngemuva kokudla nasekuseni, ngakho-ke uhlwitha umunwe wakho kane ngosuku bese uhlola igazi lakho futhi uqinisekise ukuthi amazinga akho alungile," esho. "Ufunda kabusha ukuthi ungadla kanjani ukudla futhi angikaze ngibe nobudlelwano obuhle nokudla, ngakho-ke lokho bekuyinselelo."

Nakuba u-Trainor ekuqaleni wakubiza ngokuthi "iqhubu emgwaqeni," ukuqapha okuqhubekayo kanye nempendulo kube nomthelela omkhulu esimweni sakhe somzwelo. “Ngezinsuku lapho ufeyila khona isivivinyo kodwa wenze konke ngendlela efanele, uvele uzizwe ufeyilile kakhulu,” usho kanje. "[Ngazizwa] sengathi, 'Ngiyisehluleki njengoba ngingumama futhi nengane ayikho ngisho lapha.' Bekunzima kakhulu emoyeni. Ngisacabanga ukuthi azikho [izinsiza kusebenza] ezanele ukusiza abesifazane abanesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa. "

Kodwa ukuxilongwa kwaba inselele yokuqala uTrainer abhekana nayo lapho ebeletha indodana yakhe. Njengoba etshela abalandeli bakhe ku-Instagram ekhasini lakhe likaJanuwari ku-Instagram, ingane yakhe yayinamabele, okusho ukuthi yayibekwe phezulu esibelethweni, izinyawo zayo zibheke emseleni wokuzala - inkinga eyenzeka cishe kumaphesenti angama-3-4 akho konke ukukhulelwa. futhi kwenza ukuzala kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kube nzima kakhulu, noma kungenzeki.

"Emasontweni angama-34, ubesesimeni esifanele, esekulungele ukuhamba!" uthi. "Kwathi ngesonto elilandelayo, waphenya. Wayethanda ukuba eceleni. Bengifana nokuthi, 'uyanethezeka lapha, ngakho-ke ngizolungisa ubuchopho bami ukuze ngilungele isigaba se-C.'" (Okuhlobene: UShawn Johnson Uthi Ukuba Isigaba se-C Simenze Wazizwa Engathi "Uhlulekile")

Kodwa lokho u-Trainor ahlangabezane nakho ngesikhathi ebeletha - ezinsukwini ezimbalwa nje ngaphambi kosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa - kwakungesinye isithiyo esingalindelekile azizwa engasilungele neze. “Lapho egcina ephumile, ngikhumbula ukuthi sasimbuka sengathi, ‘wow uyamangalisa,’ futhi ngashaqeka,” usho kanje. "Sonke sasijabule futhi sigubha ngase ngithi, 'akakhali ngani? Kuphi lokho kukhala?' Futhi ayikaze ifike. "

Imizuzu embalwa elandelayo kube yisivunguvungu lapho uQeqeshayo - elashwa futhi esesimweni senjabulo ngemuva kokubona indodana yakhe okokuqala - ezama ukuhlanganisa ukulandelana kwemicimbi ngemuva kwezingubo zokuhlinzwa. "Bathe," sizomthatha sihambe naye, "futhi umyeni wami wabancenga ukuthi bangivumele ngimbheke," esho. "Ngakho bamgijimisa futhi [bese] bagijima baphuma, ngakho ngaba nomzuzwana owodwa wokumbheka."

URiley waphuthunyiswa ngokushesha waya eNICU lapho anikezwa khona ipayipi lokudla. “Bangitshela ukuthi kwakumayelana ‘nesikhathi esefuna ukuvuka ngaso,’ kusho yena. "Bengithi, 'vuka?' Bangitshela ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka ezinganeni ezisesigcemeni sakwa-C futhi ngathi, 'kungani ngingakaze ngizwe ngakho? Kungani lokhu kuyinto evamile futhi akekho othukayo lapho, kimi, ebukeka sengathi usenayo. amashubhu yonke indawo?' Kwakukhathaza kakhulu futhi kunzima kakhulu. " (Okuhlobene: Loluhambo Lwesifazane Olungakholeki Lokuya KumaMama Alunalutho Olukhuthazayo)

Khuthazwa yilolo sana oluphume kuwe. Ukhule leyonto. Kungenxa yakho ukuthi bayaphila njengamanje - kuyamangaza lokho. Ngakho-ke thatha lokho uzikhuthaze. Ngifuna indodana yami ingibuke ngifeza konke ukuze yazi ukuthi ingakwenza lokho, nayo.

U-Heather Irobunda, M.D., udokotela wezifo zabesifazane ozinze eNew York City futhi oyilungu lomkhandlu oweluleka ngezempilo ka-Peloton uthi indaba yalo mculi ijwayeleke kakhulu. "Kuzwakala sengathi ingane yakhe kungenzeka ukuthi yayine-tachypnea yesikhashana yosana," ephawula ukuthi lesi simo ngokuvamile usibona izikhathi eziningana ngesonto lapho enza umsebenzi wakhe. I-TTN yisifo sokuphefumula esibonwa ngemuva nje kokubeletha okuhlala isikhathi esingaphansi kwamahora angama-48. Ucwaningo mayelana nokubeletha isikhathi eside (izingane ezibelethwa phakathi kwamaviki angama-37 nangama-42), luphakamisa ukuthi i-TTN yenzeka cishe ku-5-6 ngokuzalwa okuyi-1,000. Kungenzeka kakhulu ezinganeni ezilethwa nge-C-section, ezizalwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi (ngaphambi kwamaviki angu-38), futhi ezizalwa ngumama onesifo sikashukela noma isifuba somoya, ngokusho kwe-U.S. National Library of Medicine.

I-TTN ingenzeka kakhulu ezinganeni ezizalwa nge-C-section ngoba "lapho ingane izalwa ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane, uhambo lokuya emgudwini wokuzalwa lukhama isifuba somntwana, okubangela ukuthi uketshezi oluthile oluqoqa emaphashini luphume futhi phuma emlonyeni wengane, ”kuchaza uDkt Irobunda. "Kodwa-ke, ngesikhathi se-C-section, akukho ukuminya esithweni sangasese, ngakho-ke uketshezi lungaqoqana emaphashini." (Okuhlobene: Inani Lokuzalwa Kwama-C-Section Likhule Kakhulu)

“Imvamisa siyakhathazeka ngokuthi ingane iba nalokhu uma, lapho izalwa, kubonakala sengathi ingane isebenza kanzima ukuze iphefumule,” kusho uDkt Irobunda. "Futhi, singaqaphela ukuthi amazinga oksijini engane aphansi kunokujwayelekile. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, ingane kufanele ihlale eNICU ukuze ithole umoya-mpilo omningi."

UTrainor uthi ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, ekugcineni uRiley waqala ukuthuthuka - kepha yena ngokwakhe wayengakulungele ukubuyela ekhaya. Uthi: “Ngangizwa ubuhlungu obukhulu. "Ngangithi ngeke ngiphile ekhaya, ake ngihlale lapha."

Ngemva kosuku olungeziwe lokululama esibhedlela, uTrainor nomyeni wakhe, umlingisi uDaryl Sabara, baletha uRiley ekhaya. Kodwa ubuhlungu obungokomzimba nobungokomzwelo balokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwaba nomphumela omubi. “Ngazithola ngisendaweni yobuhlungu engingakaze ngibe kuyo,” usho kanje. "Okwaba nzima kakhulu kwaba lapho [ngifika] ekhaya, yilapho [u] buhlungu. Ngangihambahamba ngibe ngcono kodwa ngilale ukuze ngilale ubuhlungu bufike bufike. Ngakhumbula ukuhlinzwa futhi ngagcina ngiphilile. Ngangitshela umyeni wami ngikhala, 'Ngisabazwa bengihlinza.' Manje ubuhlungu buxhunywe kwimemori ngakho-ke kwakunzima ngempela ukudlula. [Kuthathe] njengamasonto amabili ukuvumela ingqondo yami ikhohlwe ngakho. " (Okuhlobene: U-Ashley Tisdale Uvule Ngokwakhe "Okungajwayelekile" Okuhlangenwe nakho Kwangemva kokubeletha)

Ushintsho ku-Trainor lwenzeka lapho ethola isitembu sokugunyazwa ukuthi aqale ukusebenza futhi - isikhathi athi sivule indlela "yokukhanya" acula ngakho engomeni yakhe entsha, evezwe emkhankasweni wakamuva we-Verizon.

"Ngosuku udokotela wami angivumela ngalo ukuthi ngivivinye umzimba - ngangikulangazelela - ngaqala ukuhamba ngokushesha ngaqala ukuzizwa sengibuyela ekubeni ngumuntu," usho kanje. "Ngangithi, ngifuna ukugxila empilweni yami, ngifuna ukuphinde ngizwe umzimba wami. Lapho nginezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ngikhulelwe, ngangingakwazi nokusukuma kusofa, ngakho angikwazanga ukulinda ukuqala uhambo lwami. ukugxila kimi ngengane yami." (Okuhlobene: Ungazivocavoca Masisha Kangakanani Ngemuva Kokubeletha?)

Umqeqeshi waqala ukusebenza nesazi sokudla kanye nomqeqeshi, futhi ezinyangeni ezine ngemuva kokubeletha, uthi uyachuma - kanjalo noRiley. "Ukahle manje," usho njalo. "Impilo ephelele. Wonke umuntu uzwa nje ngalokhu manje futhi kufana nokuthi, 'yeka into ebuhlungu,' futhi ngifana, 'oh siyakhanya manje - lokho bekuyizinyanga ezine ezedlule.'

U-Trainor uthi ubonga kakhulu ngempilo yomndeni wakhe, kodwa uyayibona inhlanhla abe nayo ngokuphuma kwakhe kusukela ekuqaleni kwakhe okubi kuze kube ngumama. Wandisa ukuzwelana nabanye besifazane abakhulelwe kanye nabanye omama abasha, futhi unikeza amagama okuhlakanipha.

"Ukuthola uhlelo oluhle lokuxhasa kubalulekile," esho. "Nginomama omangalisa kakhulu nomyeni omangalisa kakhulu okhona nsuku zonke kimi nethimba lami. Uma uzungeza nabantu abalungile, izinto ezinhle ziyenzeka kuwe. Futhi gqugquzelwa yileyongane ephuma kuwe. Uyikhulisile leyo nto. Kungenxa yakho bayaphila njengamanje - lokho kuyamangaza. Ngakho-ke thatha lokho uzikhuthaze. Ngifuna indodana yami ingibuke ngifeza konke ukuze yazi ukuthi nayo ingakwenza lokho. "

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