Lokhu Kuvivinywa Kwenzalo Kwasekhaya Kwe-$149 Kushintsha Igeyimu Yokukhulelwa Kwabesifazane Beminyaka Eyinkulungwane

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Imibuzo esheshayo: Wazi kangakanani ngokuzala kwakho?

Akunandaba nempendulo yakho, singakutshela into eyodwa: Zonke izindlela ozibuka ngayo, zibiza kakhulu. Okokuqala, unyathela izindleko zokulawulwa kokuzalwa kwamahomoni (iPilisi, i-IUD) noma amakhondomu. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma unenkinga yokukhulelwa, i-intrauterine insemination (IUI) kanye ne-in vitro fertilization (IVF) kubiza cishe u- $ 900 ngaphandle komshwalense kanye ne- $ 12,500, ngokulandelana. Udinga ukumela omunye umuntu? Hhayi-ke ukhuluma ngaphezu kwe- $ 100,000. Ngokudabukisayo, kwanele ukuqothula abanye besifazane.

Kepha ufuna ukuthola ukuzala kwakho kuhlolwe, usho? (Lokhu kuhlanganisa izinqubo ezifana nokuhlolwa kwe-ovulation ukuze kutholwe ukuthi uma uye nini i-ovulation, kanye nokuhlolwa kokulinganisa amazinga amahomoni ahlukene ahambisana nokuphuma kweqanda.)

Yebo, lokho kuzokubiza, nawe. Ngenkathi u-Afton Vechery, umsunguli we-Modern Fertility-inkampani esanda kwethulwa eyehlisa izindleko zokuhlolwa kwenzalo ngo-$149 wokuhlolwa ekhaya-eya ​​emtholampilo wokuzala, wasala nesikweletu esingu-$1,500.

Izindleko zokuhlolwa kokuzala, yebo, ziyehluka ngokuya ngohlobo lokuhlolwa, lapho ukwenzile khona (zonke izifundazwe zinemithetho ehlukile), nokuthi ngabe umshwalense wakho umboza ukuhlolwa (kaningi, akunjalo).

Kepha ithegi yentengo ephezulu bekungeyona ekaVechery kuphela inkinga ngokuhlolwa kwenzalo akuthola. "Ngangijabule ngemininingwane engizoyithola," usho kanje. "Kodwa ngesikhathi ngithola imiphumela, bekuwuhla nje lwezinombolo nobubanzi obekunzima ukuluqonda."

Uyanezela: "Kuningi kakhulu indawo yokuthuthukisa ulwazi." Inzalo yesimanje, ngokwesibonelo, yenza ulwazi lutholakale kalula (ngezivivinyo zasekhaya) futhi lungabizi kakhulu ($ 149) - kepha imiphumela yabo nayo iqonde kakhulu, kusho uVechery, "ngakho-ke kulula ukuqonda ukuthi la mazinga ama-hormone asho ukuthini nokuthi kuthinte wena. "

Lokhu kubalulekile ngoba, njengoba umsunguli uCarly Leahy ebeka, uma kuziwa endabeni yokuzala, kunegebe lolwazi: "Sichitha isikhathi esiningi sokuphila kwethu kwasekuqaleni sivimbela ukukhulelwa futhi sinolwazi oluncane kakhulu lokuluhlela."

Uyalinda futhi abone, 'uyaphawula, kwesinye isikhathi kungabonakala njengokuwukuphela kokukhetha. Isibonelo: "Ocwaningweni lwethu, sithole ukuthi amaphesenti angama-86 abesifazane banokukhathazeka mayelana nokukwazi kwabo ukukhulelwa esikhathini esizayo. Kudingeka sikhulume ngokuzala futhi abesifazane badinga ulwazi olungcono."

Ukuzala Kwesimanje kwenzeka esikhathini sabesifazane ababi abaletha ubuhlakani nokuhlomisa phambili. Kodwa uVechery uveza ukuthi: "Abesifazane benze inqubekelaphambili ezindaweni eziningi-kodwa ingxoxo mayelana nokuzala ayikaze iqhubeke. Abesifazane abaningi balinde kuze kube semva kwesikhathi sokuphila ukuthi babe nezingane futhi badinga ukwazi ukuqonda imizimba yabo nokuthi ukuzala kwabo kuzala kanjani. izinguquko ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lolo lwazi lunamandla. "

Iseluleko sabo kwabesifazane uma kuziwa ekutholeni lolo lwazi kanye nokwaziswa ngangokunokwenzeka uma kuziwa endabeni yokuzala: Khuluma. Buza imibuzo. Qala izingxoxo. “Inzalo iyinkimbinkimbi futhi sikhuluma nabesifazane abazibuza ngokuzala kodwa bangakhulumi namuntu ngakho,” kusho uVechery. "Khuluma nodokotela bakho ukhulume nabangane bakho. Ukuzala kuyinto yabantu okufanele ngabe siyayixoxa, singayigweme."

Ukuhlolwa Kwesimanje Kwenzalo kuyatholakala ukuze ku-odwe ngaphambilini manje.

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