Lo Mbiki Wezemidlalo Okhulelwe Umatasa Kakhulu Wocubungula Umsebenzi Wakhe Ukuvumela Abashayi Bomzimba Bamehlise

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Umsakazi we-ESPN uMolly McGrath ubebika eceleni emdlalweni webhola ekuqaleni kwalenyanga ngesikhathi ethola i-DM embi etholana nomuntu ohlazisayo. UMcGrath, okumanje use-trimester yakhe yesithathu, uvame ukuvumela imibono enjalo islide. Kodwa kulokhu, wenqaba ukuzihlalela. Esikhundleni salokho, kokuthunyelwe okusuka enhliziyweni kwe-Instagram, wabelana ngokuthi unamandla kangakanani umzimba wakhe okhulelwe - hhayi nje ngokukhulisa umuntu omncane, kepha ngokuhambisana nomsebenzi ovame ukubiza intela ngokomzimba.

"Izolo ebusuku bengimi ngezinyawo isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora ayisithupha ngiqonde, emvuleni, futhi bengazi ukuthi ngizolala amahora amathathu kuphela ngenxa yokushintshwa kwendiza ngomzuzwana wokugcina," ubhale eceleni kwesithombe esibonisa ukuthi ubika eceleni . "Ngokokuqala ngqa, mhlawumbe njalo, ngivumela i-tweet ye-troll enonya mayelana nezinguquko zomzimba wami okhulelwe ukuba ifike kimi." (Okuhlobene: Kungani Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuyinkinga Enkulu Kangaka nokuthi Yini Ongayenza Ukuyiyeka)

Eqhubeka nokubhala, uMcGrath uvule isifuba ngezinguquko ezinzima umzimba wakhe obulokhu ubhekana nazo, ikakhulukazi njengoba esezoqeda ukukhulelwa kwakhe. “Izinyawo zami ziyavuvukala futhi zibuhlungu ngendlela engingakaze ngiyicabange nomhlane wami uqaqamba njalo,” kubhala yena. "Ukungasayiphathi eyokubulawa kwezinye izimpawu ezifana nesicanucanu, isilungulela, nokukhathala." (Okuhlobene: Imiphumela Emibi Yokukhulelwa Ejwayelekile Ejwayelekile)

Ngalokho konke engqondweni, into yokugcina uMcGrath akhathazeka ngayo ngalezi zinsuku ukuthi umzimba wakhe ubukeka kanjani, wabhala. "Ngenza IMPILO YOMUNTU," wabelane. "Ingane engiyizungezile ingahlala ngaphandle komzimba wami njengamanje, futhi umzimba wami wezimbongolo oqinile uyenzile ekuqaleni leyo ngane."

Ngaphezu kwalokho, uMcGrath uthi umsebenzi wakhe uqobo awukho lula. "Umsebenzi wentatheli engenzi lutho unzima futhi ngokuhamba, ukulungiselela, ukuphithizela ukuthola ulwazi, kanye neqiniso lokuthi asikaze singene emsakazweni ngendlela ebesingaba neqhaza ngayo," ebhala. "Kodwa uyazi ukuthi bengingeke ngishintshe noma YILUPHI izimo zami ngomzuzwana. Ngizizwa nginenhlanhla ngendlela emangalisayo ukuthola umsebenzi engiwuthanda kakhulu, kungenza ngikhohlwe ukuthi umuntu omncane ukhahlela izimbambo zami."

Enkulumweni ne Impilo ye-Yahoo, uMcGrath uthe ubhale mayelana nokuphawula kuka-troll okudelelayo hhayi nje ukukhombisa ukuthi abesifazane akudingekile ukuba babe namahloni ngemizimba yabo, kodwa futhi njengendlela yokwandisa ukumelwa kwemizimba ekhulelwe kwabezindaba. "Akuvamisile ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe kumabonakude, kodwa akufanele yini ithelevishini ibe wummeleli wezwe esiphila kulo?" utshele isitolo. (Okuhlobene: Ukwehliswa Kwamafutha Kungalimaza Umzimba Wakho)

Ngaphandle kokunganaki, uMcGrath ubhale kokuthunyelwe kwakhe ukuthi uyawazisa umzimba wakhe ngakho konke ongakwenza futhi uyenqaba ukukhombisa ukwahlulela ngakho. "Ngiyaziqhenya ngokuba ngowesifazane okhulelwe osebenza ngokugcwele futhi ngiyaziqhenya ngokuthi ubukhulu bokudala impilo yomuntu abuzange bunginciphise ijubane, futhi abuzukunginciphisa," esho ehlanganyela. "Abesifazane bayamangala futhi banamandla futhi noma ubani ongaboni lokho angaqabula isinqe sami esikhulu." (Okuhlobene: I-Twitter Iphendula Kahle Ngemva Kokuthi Umzimba Wama-Troll Ehlaze Uthisha Ngengubo Yakhe)

UMcGrath ukude nentatheli yokuqala ukubhekana nalolu hlobo lokuziphatha okuyihlazo emzimbeni. Emuva ngonyaka we-2017, intatheli yaseDallas eseDallas uDemetria Obilor wagxekwa ngamajika akhe nokukhethwa kwezingubo ngumbukeli owayengeneme kuFacebook. Muva nje, ihange lezindaba le-WREG-TV, uNina Harrelson ukhulume ngemuva kokuthi indoda imtshele ukuthi ubukeka "enamandla amakhulu" ku-TV. Kukhona noTracy Hinson, isazi sesimo sezulu se-KSDK News, obuye washaya izandla ngemuva kokuthi i-troll imtshela ukuthi udinga ibhande ukuze avale isisu sakhe "iqhubu." (Faka ukububula okude lapha.)

Lezi zigameko ngokusobala ziyadumaza, kodwa abesifazane abanjengoMcGrath, u-Obilor, uHarrelson, no-Hinson benze okungaphezu nje kokuthatha isinyathelo esibi. Basebenzise lawa mazwana enzondo emathubeni okukhuthaza ukuzethemba kwabanye. Icala ngephuzu: Ngemuva kokuthi uMcGrath abelane ngamava akhe okuhlazisa umzimba ku-Instagram, wagcwala imilayezo evela kwabanye besifazane abakhulelwe abasebenza abazizwa benamandla ngendaba yakhe.

"Hey @MollyAMcGrath. Screw the trolls. Angikahlangani nendoda engakwazi ukukhulisa impilo yomuntu kuyilapho iqhubeka nokuqeda umsebenzi wayo," u-Anchor we-TV u-Emily Jones McCoy ubhale ku-Twitter ehambisana nesithombe sakhe ebika eceleni.

"Qhubeka ubulale, ntombazane!" intatheli yezemidlalo uJulia Morales wabhala kwenye i-tweet. "Sengijahe ukutshela ingane yami yentombazane ukuthi uthole isikhathi esingakanani se-TV ngaphambi kokuba izalwe. Ngasingatha futhi ngabika esontweni lama-38."

"Thanda bonke abasakazi besifazane bebelokhu bethumela ukuthi basebenze emoyeni ngesikhathi bekhulelwe," kusho intatheli yeNASCAR uKaitlyn Vincie ku-twitter eceleni kwesithombe sakhe sasemoyeni.

"Ngakho-ke nansi enye: Izinyanga eziyisithupha ngikhulelwe, ingane ingikhahlela ngaso sonke isikhathi, ikakhulukazi ithanda uma ngikhuluma kumabonakude. Ngeke kube ngenye indlela!"

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