Ingabe Lesi Isiteleka Sobuhlengikazi? Ungayibuyisela Kanjani Ingane Yakho Ekunceliseni Ibele

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• Wazi kanjani uma kuyisiteleka sabahlengikazi?
• Yini engadala isiteleka sobuhlengikazi?
• Yini okufanele uyenze ngesiteleka sobuhlengikazi?
• Kufanele ukhathazeke nini?
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Njengomzali oncelisayo, mhlawumbe uchitha isikhathi esiningi ubheka ukuthi ingane yakho idla kangakanani futhi kangaki. Kungenzeka futhi uqaphele ngokushesha okukhulu lapho ingane yakho idla kaningi noma iphuza ubisi oluncane kunokujwayelekile.

Lapho ingane yakho ishintsha ngokungazelelwe amaphethini ayo obuhlengikazi kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi kungani, nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuyilungisa, zisuka nje. Funda ukuze uthole ukuthi isiteleka sobuhlengikazi yini nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane yakho inaso.

Wazi kanjani uma kuyisiteleka sabahlengikazi?

Ngakho-ke, siyini isiteleka sobuhlengikazi? Isiteleka sobuhlengikazi - noma "isiteleka sokuncelisa ibele" - sichazwa njengesikhathi lapho ingane ebinakekela kahle ngokungazelelwe yenqaba ukuncelisa. Imvamisa abakuqali lokhu kuziphatha baze babe nezinyanga okungenani ezintathu ubudala futhi bazi kangcono umhlaba obazungezile.

Izingane ezingena esitelekeni sobuhlengikazi ngokuvamile ziyasenqaba isifuba kodwa zibukeka zingajabule, zixokozela futhi zinganeme ngokunganesi. Ngenkathi ingane yakho mhlawumbe kwesinye isikhathi iphazamiseka ebeleni, ukudonsa noma ukubamba ukhula phakathi kokuphakelayo hhayi okukhombisa isiteleka sobuhlengikazi, kunalokho baphazamisekile nje. Yiyona ukwenqaba ukunakekela noma yibuphi ubude besikhathi obukhombisa isiteleka sobuhlengikazi.

Kwesinye isikhathi, isiteleka sobuhlengikazi siyiphutha njengesibonakaliso sokuthi ingane isilungele ukukhipha. Lokhu akunakwenzeka ukuthi izingane azivamisile ukuzilumula ngaphambi kweminyaka emibili ubudala, futhi uma zenza njalo, zikwenza njalo ngokunciphisa kancane isikhathi nobuningi bezikhathi zabahlengikazi kunokuma ngokungazelelwe.

Yini engadala isiteleka sobuhlengikazi?

Izingane zingangena esitelekeni sobuhlengikazi ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene ezingokomzimba nezingokomzwelo. Ezinye izimbangela kungaba:

• isiminyaminya noma indlebe ebenza ubuhlengikazi bungakhululeki
• umphimbo obuhlungu, noma ukusika noma isilonda emilonyeni yabo okwenza ubuhlengikazi bungakhululeki
• ukugula okufana nesandla, unyawo, nesifo somlomo okuthinta umlomo wabo futhi okwenza ubuhlengikazi bungakhululeki
• ukuxubha nokuhlangabezana nezinsini ezibuhlungu
• ukukhungatheka okubangelwa ubisi oluncane lapho ukugeleza kobisi kuhamba kancane noma ubisi oluningi ngokweqile lapho ukugeleza kushesha kakhulu
• ukukhungatheka okubangelwa ushintsho ekunambithekeni kobisi ngenxa yezinguquko zamahomoni noma zokudla
• isipiliyoni lapho bethuka khona ngenkathi bencelisa ngomsindo omkhulu noma ngomama bememeza ngemuva kokulunywa
• uzwe ukuthi unengcindezi, uthukuthele, noma unezinhlobo ezihlukile futhi awugxilile ebunesi
• ushintsho lwemikhiqizo yokunakekelwa komuntu ekwenza unuke ngokwehlukile
• iziphazamiso ezibangelwa indawo ekweqisayo

Yize eziningi zalezi zimbangela zingenakugwenywa, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi kwenzekani enganeni yakho okungathinta impumelelo yokuncelisa.

Yini okufanele uyenze ngesiteleka sobuhlengikazi?

Ngenkathi isiteleka sobuhlengikazi singacindezela wena nengane yakho, maningi amaqhinga ongawasebenzisa ukusiza ingane ibuyele ebeleni ngempumelelo. Lapho uphatha isiteleka sobuhlengikazi, kunezinselelo ezimbili eziyinhloko okufanele uziphathe: ukugcina ukunikezela kwakho nokuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyondliwa.

Lapho ingane ithatha ubisi oluncane kunokujwayelekile uzodinga ukuveza ubisi ukugcina ukunikezwa kwakho. Ungakwenza lokho ngokumpompa noma ngokuveza isandla. Ukuveza ubisi lwakho kuzokwazisa umzimba wakho ukuthi ubisi lusadingeka futhi kukusize uqhubeke nokukhiqiza lokho okuzodingwa yingane yakho uma isiqalile ukuncelisa futhi.

Uma kukhulunywa ngokuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane iyondliwa ngesikhathi sesiteleka sobuhlengikazi, cabanga ngokumpompa nokuncelisa ibhodlela noma ukondla inkomishi. Yize kungaba yingcindezi ukuzama ukwenza ingane yakho ukuthi ithathe ibhodlela noma inkomishi, kubalulekile ukuthi uqinisekise ukuthi bathatha amakhalori anele ukuze bahlale benamanzi futhi bondleke kahle baze babuyele ebeleni.

Lapho usuqinisekisile ukuthi nengane yakho kanye nokutholakala kwakho kuyahanjelwa nakho, ungasebenzela ukubuyisela ingane yakho ebeleni.Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi ingane yakho inokugula noma okunye ukungaphatheki kahle komzimba okuholela esitelekeni sobuhlengikazi, ukuvakashela kudokotela wezingane kungasiza ekuzihambiseni endleleni eya empilweni engcono kanye nokunakekelwa okungcono.

Ngemuva kokuzama ukuthola ukuthi yini ebangela isiteleka futhi usebenza ukuqeda noma yikuphi ukugula noma ezinye izinkinga, kunezindlela eziningi ongakhuthaza ngazo ingane yakho ukuthi incelise:

• Qamba isikhumba esikhunjeni nesikhumba nengane yakho bese unikeza isifuba sakho ngobumnene.
• Shintsha izikhundla, kufaka phakathi ukubanjwa okuhlukile nezinhlangothi ezahlukahlukene.
• Umhlengikazi osegumbini elimnyama noma elimnyama ukuqeda ukuphazamiseka.
• Nikeza isifuba sakho ngenkathi uhleli ndawonye kubhavu ofudumele.
• Zama ukuhlala ukhululekile futhi usebenzele ukuqeda ukucindezeleka ezinsukwini zokuhlengikaza.
• Chitha isikhathi esikahle, sokuxhuma ndawonye lapho ungesona isihlengikazi.
• Nikeza ukuqiniswa okuningi ekunceliseni ngempumelelo ibele.

Kufanele ukhathazeke nini?

Iziteleka eziningi zabahlengikazi zihlala ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kuya esontweni ubude besikhathi. Uma ingane yakho yenqaba ukudla noma ngabe uzama ukuyondla kanjani (ibele, ibhodlela noma inkomishi), yehlisa isisindo, ayichami noma icuphe kaningi ngendlela ejwayele ukwenza ngayo, noma ikhombisa ezinye izimpawu ezikukhathazayo, khuluma nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho khona manjalo.

Uma ingane yakho incela kaningi kunakuqala, kepha idla ngebhodlela noma inkomishi, futhi ngokusobala iphilile futhi ijabule, ungaqiniseka ukuthi isiteleka sabo sobuhlengikazi asiyithinti impilo yabo yonke.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Iziteleka zabahlengikazi zingakhungathekisa wena nengane yakho futhi zingadalwa yizimo ezahlukahlukene zomzimba noma zomzwelo. Isiteleka sobuhlengikazi asisho ukuthi udinga ukwethula ifomula noma ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho bokuncelisa sebuphelile.

Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa nokuncanyana nokuxhaswa okwengeziwe, wena nengane yakho cishe nizobuyela ebuhlengweni njengokujwayelekile!