Ukuhlela Ifulethi Lami Kwasindisa Ingqondo Yami Ngesikhathi Sobhubhane LweCoronavirus

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Izinto azikaze zizizwe zixakeke kakhulu kunangonyaka wonke we-2020 lapho ngokusobala yonke into yanquma ukushaya fan ngasikhathi sinye. Ngiyachuma lapho ngilawula isikhathi sami, ikhalenda lami lomphakathi, irimothi… uyiqamba igama. Futhi kungazelelwe ngiyasebenza, ngihlala, futhi ngilala efulethini lami elincane ngenkathi umhlaba ngaphandle unqume ngokusobala ezinxushunxushwini. Akudingeki ukuthi kushiwo, kube yiphupho elibi lokuxakaniseka kokulawula njengami.

Ezinye izinsuku zingcono kunezinye. Ngiyakuthanda ukusebenza ekhaya nomdlwane wami waseBrussels Griffon ugoqe eduze kwami. Kepha ezinye izinsuku zinzima, futhi ukukhathazeka kwami ​​kukhuliswa ukuqhuma kwamabhomu njalo kwezindaba ezimbi futhi ezimbi kakhulu futhi ngingakwazi ukubona umndeni wami. Futhi lapho isimo sami sengqondo sisuka kancane, kanjalo nendawo engizungezile. Ngokuyinhloko, ukungahleleki kwami ​​kwengqondo kuvame ukubonakalisa ngokomzimba ngendlela yokuhlanganisa ... yonke indawo.

Noma ubani ongena endlini yami uzokwazi ukusho ukuthi kwenzekani ekhanda lami. Izitsha zenziwe? Izinto zokubala zihlanzekile? Izinto zihle. Ngisonge umsebenzi wami ngesikhathi, ngadla kamnandi, futhi ngathola nesikhathi sokubuka isiqephu sakamuva sanoma yikuphi okukhonjiswayo okukhonjiswayo ngenkathi kuhlanzwa ikhishi ngesikhathi sezikhangiso.

Kepha uma kungelona usuku olukhulu kangako, ifulethi lami libukeka njengalokhu umama akubiza ngokuthi "indawo yenhlekelele." Akunjalo kungcolile, ngomuntu ngamunye, kodwa akukho okucocekile ngokukhethekile. Mhlawumbe i-imeyili engavuliwe inqwabelene ndawana thize futhi zonke izicathulo zami zigcwele phansi esikhundleni sokuthi zibekwe ngokucophelela. Kubukeka sengathi usuku nosuku oluchithwa ekuhlukanisweni okuhlukaniswe nomphakathi kuvula amathuba okuba nomdlandla obangelwe ukukhathazeka.

"Lapho abantu beba nokukhathazeka, uhlelo lwabo lwemizwa lusesimeni esiphakamayo," kuchaza uKate Balestrieri, uPyy.D, CSAT-S, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esinomthetho nesisebenza ngomthetho. “Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungazizwa ukhathazeke kakhulu ngaphakathi ngemicabango engahle ikhathaze noma ikhanyise. Futhi uma kunjalo, imisebenzi yasendlini noma yenhlanzeko ingawela eceleni kwendlela. ”

Leyo ntwana yokugcina yayingaba yiphutha kimi, futhi yize kukuhle ngokuphelele ukuvumela phansi kungahambi kahle (kukhona izinhlanzi ezinkulu kakhulu ukuthosa manje), uma isifikile ezingeni elithile lokungahlanzeki, empeleni idala ukukhathazeka okukhulu. “Kubantu abahlanzekile, indawo yokuhlala engahlelekile ingengeza ungqimba olwengeziwe lokukhungatheka emqondweni osuvele uzizwa ukhathazekile,” kuchaza uBalestrieri. “Enye yezinto ezigqama kakhulu zokukhathazeka ukuzizwa ungenamandla, ungenamandla, usengozini, noma ungalawuleki.” (Okuhlobene: Ukuhlanza Nokuhlela Kanjani Kungayithuthukisa Impilo Yakho Yomzimba Nengqondo)

Isixazululo (okungenani, kimi) kwakuwukuphuma ekhanda lami futhi ngithathe isinyathelo ukuze ngingagcini nje ngokuzizwa ngingcono kodwa ngiphinde ngithole nomuzwa omncane wokulawula—into wonke umuntu ayidinga nakakhulu manje.

Ngaqala ngekhabethe lami. Ngangiyiyeka ichichime, futhi manje kwase kuyimbangela yokukhathazeka engangizama ukuyiziba isikhathi ngasinye lapho kufanele ngifake izinto ngaphakathi. Ngangihlela ukuqala ukuhlela ikhabethe lami ngempelasonto eyodwa lapho ngangazi ukuthi isoka lami lizophuma indlu, ukuze ngibe nesikhathi sedwa nomsebenzi engiwenzayo.

Isinyathelo sami sokuqala: Ngadonsa i-Marie Kondo futhi ngakhipha yonke into ekhabetheni lami ngayibeka embhedeni wami. Ingcindezi yokuyibona nje yonke isakazekile yayicishe ibe ningi ekuqaleni, kepha kwakungekho ukubuyela emuva manje. Ngidlale isizini yokuqala ye- Omama Bekhaya Bangempela baseNew York City ngasemuva ukuze ungisize ngiphole, ngase ngihlukanisa izingubo zami zaba yinqwaba emithathu: gcina, nikela, bese uzama — ukulandela izinyathelo zenhlangano zochwepheshe besitayela u-Anna DeSouza.

Lapho inqwaba yomnikelo iba nkulu, ngazizwa ngingcono. Njengoba ngangigqoke kakhulu ama-sweatshirt nama-leggings kulo nyaka, ngathula, ngazibuza ukuthi ngiyoke ngibe nalo yini ithuba lokugqoka i-jean noma ingubo futhi. Nokho, angizange ngivumele imicabango emibi ukuba iqhubeke, ngakho ngenza izinqumo futhi ngaqhubeka.

Ucezu ngalunye enginqume ukulugcina lubuyela emuva ekamelweni lami ngokunakekela futhi luhlelwe ngesigaba - into engiyithathe nakuDeSouza. Ngidlulele engigqokeni lami nemigqomo yokugcina izinto ngaphansi kombhede wami eyayichichima izicathulo. Ngingakaqapheli, bengisekhishini ngisula amakhabethe futhi ngijikijela izimpahla ezisemathinini nezinongo.

Esikhathini esingangesonto elilandelayo noma ngaphezulu, iyunithi yeshelufu ehholo lami elingaphambili, ikhabethe lami lemithi… indawo ngayinye eminyene, enganakekile yokugcina yaqondiswa, futhi esinye isisindo sokucindezeleka engangikuthwele kwaqala ukufiphala. (Okuhlobene: UKhloé Kardashian uhlele kabusha ifriji lakhe, futhi yizinto zamaphupho ohlobo-A)

Manje, isikhala lapho ngivuka khona, ngidle, ngisebenze, ngivivinye umzimba, ngizihlanganise nabantu, futhi lala - ibhamuza lami elincane lapho isoka lami, inja, futhi mina manje esichitha cishe sonke isikhathi sibuyele kulawulo lwami. Ngiyakwazi ukuphefumula kalula. Ukwesaba okukhona kusabuyisa ikhanda layo elibi njalo ngezikhathi ezithile (hheyi, sisekunyakeni wokhetho nobhadane), kepha anginawo ama-sweatshirt awela ngaphezulu kwekhanda lami njalo lapho ngivula ikhabethe lami, ngakho-ke lokho ukunqoba! Ekugcineni, nginezinto ezincane ezimbalwa, ngakho-ke zimbalwa izinto ezingicindezelayo, ngisho noma ngisenomuzwa wokuthi nginamandla amancane okulawula okwenzeka ngaphandle komnyango wendlu yami.

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