Imodeli Yosayizi We-Plus UNadia Aboulhosn Uhlala Eqiniseka Kanjani Embonini Yezithombe Ezizimele

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Uma ungomunye wamamodeli amatasatasa kakhulu ku-Instagram (okwenzeka futhi ukuthi osanda kuthola inkontileka yokumodela enkulu kanye nomugqa wakhe wemfashini) futhi waziwa ngokukhuthaza amathani okuqina komzimba ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ungacabanga ukuzethemba. ngeke ncamashí ukushoda. Kodwa ngisho noNadia Aboulhosn oneminyaka engu-28 ubudala uvikelekile ekuphepheni. Uthi: “Ngezinye izikhathi nginomuzwa wokuthi kudingeka ngenze okwengeziwe ekuphileni kwami. I-booster yakhe yokuzethemba? "Ngiyathanda ukuzifihla ekamelweni lami, ngivale ifoni yami, bese ngibuka inqwaba yamavidiyo ashukumisayo avela kuTony Robbins noma kuJim Carrey nakwiphephabhuku," esho ehleka. "Ngizama ukufunda kubantu asebeke babhekana nokuningi kunami ngezindlela ezahlukene."

Imodeli yosayizi wokuhlanganisa usuvele unengcebo yakhe yesipiliyoni-ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngokufaka ingxoxo ezungeze ukuzethemba komzimba ezingeni elilandelayo. Ngisho nangawo wonke amagxathu embonini aseyenzile ngokumela abantu besifazane bezinhlanga ezahlukene kanye nokuzama ukukhuthaza ukwamukela imizimba kanye nokuzithanda, sisesikhulu isikhala sokuthuthuka. "Owesifazane abavamile abalingisa usayizi we-12 noma we-14 onohlobo lomzimba olugobekile futhi ulingisa phezulu nangaphezulu," kusho u-Aboulhosn wezinhlaka ezisebenza ngobukhulu. "Kuningi kakhulu ukungamelwa okudinga ukwenziwa. Abantu bafuna ukuzwa nje futhi bafuna ukuba nezithombe abangazijwayela. Ezinkundleni zokuxhumana i-nabantu abanjengami-baveze umbono wokuthi umhlaba awukho hhayi uhlobo olulodwa nje lomuntu." (Okuhlobene: UDenise Bidot Wabelana Ngokuthi Kungani Ethanda Amamaki Wokunweba Esiswini Sakhe.)

Imfihlo yokukhahlela ukuzethemba kwakho egiyeni eliphezulu ukukhuluma ngamathebhu-kusuka kusayizi kuya ocansini, kusho u-Aboulhosn. "Uma ubona okuthile njalo kukujwayela ... leso yisinyathelo esikhulu okufanele sisithathe ukuze sikwazi ukuya phambili." Leyo nkolelo yingakho imodeli nomklami bebambisene neXOXO ngamakhondomu eTrojan ngomkhankaso wabo we #TrustYourself. "Kukhona lesi sisindo kubantu besifazane okufanele sibe uhlobo oluthile lwendlela," esho ngezinkolelo-mbono ezizungeze yonke into kusuka ekutheni kufanele ubukeke kanjani ngebhayisikili kuya ekutheni kufanele uyiphathe kanjani impilo yakho yezocansi. "Ukuzethemba ngempela kuhambisana nokuzethemba komzimba kanye nokuzethemba jikelele."

Ukuze ubambe ukuzethemba kwakhe okungenakumehlula, udinga izinto ezimbili, uthi. Okokuqala, naka umbono wakho. Uthi: “Okucabangayo ngawe kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho abanye abantu abakucabangayo ngawe. "Gcina lokho engqondweni lapho abantu benza izinqumo zabo." (Okuhlobene: I-Mantra Ashley Graham Enika Amandla Isebenzisa Ukuzizwa Njenge-Badass.)

Okwesibili, sika i-crap engemihle. "Umphakathi manje ukulangazelele kakhulu ukukhomba ongakuthandi esikhundleni sokugxila kokuhle ngawe," esho, kepha lapho uzikholelwa kakhulu kuwe futhi uvale nomsindo wangaphandle, uzozwa imisindo emihle igeleza ngokukhululeka. Lokho kungaba nzima ikakhulukazi embonini lapho isimo sengqondo sokulingana-wonke bekuyinto evamile. U-Aboulhosn uthi udonswe isethi yakhe ebulalayo yamakhono okuzethemba emvelo ukuze agcine isikhumba esiqinile.

"Ngiyazi ukuthi ngingu-5 foot 3. Ngiyazi ukuthi isisindo sami siyashintsha," esho. "Ngiyakwazi enginakho. Lokho nje kuyingxenye yempilo." Yilolo hlobo lokuzethemba ongaluthola ngokungathí sina ngemuva. (Kepha he, uma konke okunye kwehluleka, ungahlala u-YouTube amanye amahithi amahle kakhulu kaTony Robbins.

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