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• Ukuthuthuka kwenkulumo ngeminyaka kufanele kube kanjani
• Ezinyangeni ezi-3
• Phakathi kwezinyanga ezi-4 nezingu-6
• Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-7 no-9
• Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-10 nezingu-12
• Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-13 kuya kwezingu-18
• Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-19 nezingama-24
• Eminyakeni emi-3
• Ungayikhuthaza kanjani ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume
• Lapho uzobona udokotela wezingane

Ukuqala kwenkulumo kuncike enganeni ngayinye, futhi abukho ubudala obufanele ukuqala ukukhuluma. Kusukela izelwe, ingane ikhipha imisindo njengendlela yokuxhumana nabazali noma abantu abasondelene, futhi, phakathi nezinyanga, ukuxhumana kuyathuthuka kuze kube, cishe ezinyangeni eziyi-9, akwazi ukujoyina imisindo elula bese eqala ukukhipha imisindo ehlukile efana ne- “Mamamama”, “bababababa” noma "Dadadadada".

Kodwa-ke, cishe ezinyangeni eziyi-12, ingane iqala ukwenza imisindo eminingi futhi izame ukusho amagama akhulunywa kakhulu ngabazali noma abantu abasondelene nabo, lapho ineminyaka emi-2 iphinda amagama eyizwayo futhi isho imisho elula enamagama amabili noma amane naku-3 Indoda endala ingakhuluma imininingwane eyinkimbinkimbi njengobudala bayo nobulili bayo.

Kwezinye izimo ukukhuluma kwengane kungathatha isikhathi eside ukukhula, ikakhulukazi lapho ukukhuluma kwengane kungakhuthazwa noma kungenxa yenkinga ethile yezempilo njengokungezwa noma i-autism. Kulezi zimo, kubalulekile ukuqonda isizathu sokuthi ingane ingakhulumi, iya kudokotela wezingane ukuyokwenza ukuhlolwa kwentuthuko nolimi.

Ukuthuthuka kwenkulumo ngeminyaka kufanele kube kanjani

Ukukhula kwenkulumo kwengane kuyinqubo ehamba kancane ethuthuka njengoba ingane ikhula futhi ikhula:

Ezinyangeni ezi-3

Ezinyangeni ezintathu ubudala, ukukhala kuyindlela eyinhloko yokuxhumana kwengane, futhi ikhala ngokuhlukile ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uqala ukunaka imisindo oyizwayo bese uyinaka kakhulu. Qonda ukuthi ukukhala kwengane kungasho ukuthini.

Phakathi kwezinyanga ezi-4 nezingu-6

Cishe ezinyangeni ezine ingane iqala ukubhuza futhi ezinyangeni eziyisithupha iphendula ngemisindo emincane njengokuthi "ah", "eh", "oh" lapho izwa igama layo noma othile ekhuluma nayo futhi iqala ukwenza imisindo ngo "m" kanye no "B" ".

Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-7 no-9

Ezinyangeni eziyi-9 ingane iyaliqonda igama elithi "cha", ikhipha imisindo ngokujoyina amalunga amaningana anjenge- "mamamama" noma "babababa" bese izama ukulingisa imisindo eyenziwa abanye abantu.

Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-10 nezingu-12

Ingane, cishe izinyanga eziyi-12, ingaqonda ama-oda alula afana nokuthi "nika" noma "sala kahle", yenza imisindo efana nenkulumo, ithi "mama", "papa" bese yenza izibabazo ezinjengokuthi "uh-oh!" bese uzama ukuphinda amagama owezwayo.

Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-13 kuya kwezingu-18

Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-13 nezingu-18 ingane ithuthukisa ulimi lwayo, ingasebenzisa amagama alula aphakathi kwayi-6 kuye kwangama-26, kepha iyawaqonda amanye amagama amaningi bese iqala ukuthi "cha" inikina ikhanda. Lapho engakwazi ukusho lokho akufunayo, ukhomba ukukhombisa futhi akwazi ukumkhombisa noma unodoli lapho kukhona khona amehlo akhe, ikhala noma umlomo.

Phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-19 nezingama-24

Cishe eneminyaka engama-24, usho igama lakhe lokuqala, ukwazile ukuhlanganisa amagama amabili noma ngaphezulu, enze imisho elula futhi emifushane futhi azi amagama alabo abasondelene naye.Ngaphezu kwalokho, uqala ukukhuluma yedwa ngenkathi edlala, ephinda amagama ezwe abanye abantu bekhuluma nawo akhombe izinto noma izithombe lapho ezwa imisindo yazo.

Eminyakeni emi-3

Eminyakeni emithathu ubudala uthi igama lakhe, uma kungumfana noma intombazane, iminyaka yakhe, ukhuluma igama lezinto ezivame kakhulu empilweni yansuku zonke futhi uyaqonda amagama anzima kakhulu anjengokuthi "ngaphakathi", "ngezansi" noma "ngenhla". Cishe eminyakeni emithathu ubudala ingane iqala ukuba nesilulumagama esikhudlwana, ingakhuluma igama lomngane, isebenzisa amabinzana amabili noma amathathu engxoxweni bese iqala ukusebenzisa amagama abhekise kumuntu onjengokuthi "me", "me", " thina "noma" wena ".

Ungayikhuthaza kanjani ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume

Yize kunezimpawu ezithile zokukhula kwenkulumo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ingane ngayinye inejubane layo lokukhula, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bazi ukuthi bangayihlonipha kanjani.

Noma kunjalo, abazali bangasiza ukukhula kwengxoxo yengane yabo ngamasu athile afana nalawa:

• Ezinyangeni ezi-3: hlangana nengane ngokukhuluma nangokulingisa, ukulingisa umsindo wezinto ezithile noma umsindo wengane, lalela umculo nayo, cula noma udanse ngesizotha nengane ethangeni lakhe noma udlale, njengokufihla ukufuna thola ubuso;
• Ngezinyanga eziyi-6: khuthaza ingane ukuthi yenze imisindo emisha, ikhombe izinto ezintsha bese isho igama layo, iphinda imisindo eyenziwe ingane, isho ukuthi yiliphi igama elifanele lezinto noma ifundele yona;
• Ngezinyanga eziyi-9: ukubiza into ngegama, ukwenza amahlaya athi "manje sekuyithuba lami" nokuthi "manje sekuyithuba lakho", khuluma ngegama lezinto lapho ekhomba noma echaza lokho akuthathayo, njenge "ibhola eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka neliyindilinga";
• Ezinyangeni eziyi-12: lapho ingane ifuna okuthile, yenza isicelo ngomlomo, noma ngabe uyazi ukuthi ifunani, funda nayo futhi, ngokuphendula ekuziphatheni okungekuhle kangako, ithi "cha" ngokuqinile;
• Ngezinyanga eziyi-18: cela ingane ukuthi ibheke futhi ichaze izitho zomzimba noma lokho ebonayo, ikhuthaze ukuthi idanse futhi icule izingoma ezizithandayo, isebenzise amagama achaza imizwa nemizwa, njengokuthi "Ngijabule" noma "Ngidabukile ", bese usebenzisa imishwana nemibuzo elula, ecacile.
• Ezinyangeni ezingama-24: ukukhuthaza ingane, ngasohlangothini oluhle futhi ungalokothi ugxeke, usho amagama ngokufanele njengokuthi "imoto" esikhundleni sokuthi "ubize" noma ucele usizo ngemisebenzi emincane futhi usho okwenzayo, njengokuthi "asilungise amathoyizi" ;
• Eminyakeni emi-3: cela ingane ukuthi ixoxe indaba noma ikhulume ngokwenze ngaphambili, khuthaza umcabango noma ukhuthaze ingane ukuthi ibuke unodoli futhi ikhulume uma idabukile noma ijabule. Lapho uneminyaka engu-3, ​​isigaba esithi "kungani" siqala ngokuqala futhi kubalulekile ukuthi abazali behlise umoya baphendule enganeni ukuze ingesabi ukubuza imibuzo emisha.

Kuzo zonke izigaba kubalulekile ukuthi kusetshenziswe ulimi olufanele nengane, ukugwema izinciphiso noma amagama angafanele, anjenge "duck" esikhundleni se "shoe" noma "au au" esikhundleni se "dog". Lokhu kuziphatha kukhuthaza ukukhuluma kwengane, okwenza ukukhula kolimi kuqhubeke ngokujwayelekile futhi, kwezinye izimo, ngisho nangaphambi kwalokho.

Ngaphezu kolimi, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungazivuselela kanjani zonke izigaba zokukhula kwengane, njengokuhlala, ukukhasa noma ukuhamba ngezinyawo. Buka ividiyo ukuthola ukuthi ingane yenzani esigabeni ngasinye nokuthi ungayisiza kanjani ikhule ngokushesha:

Lapho uzobona udokotela wezingane

Kubalulekile ukubonisana njalo nodokotela wezingane kukho konke ukukhula kwengane, noma kunjalo ezinye izimo zidinga ukunakekelwa okukhethekile, njenge:

• Ngezinyanga eziyi-6: ingane ayizami ukwenza imisindo, ayikhiphi imisindo yonkamisa ("ah", "eh", "oh"), ayiphenduli egameni noma kunoma imuphi umsindo noma ayisebenzisi ukuxhumana kwamehlo;
• Ngezinyanga eziyi-9: ingane ayiphenduli emisindweni, ayiphenduli lapho ibiza igama layo noma ingabhibhi amagama alula anjengokuthi "mama", "papa" noma "dada";
• Ezinyangeni eziyi-12: akakwazi ukukhuluma amagama alula anjengokuthi "mama" noma "papa" noma angaphenduli lapho othile ekhuluma naye;
• Ngezinyanga eziyi-18: alingisi abanye abantu, alufundi amagama amasha, alikwazi ukukhuluma okungenani amagama ayi-6, aluphenduli ngokuzenzekelayo noma alunantshisekelo kulokho okuzungezile;
• Ezinyangeni ezingama-24: akazami ukulingisa izenzo noma amagama, akakuqondi okushiwoyo, akalandeli iziyalezo ezilula, akakhulumi amagama ngendlela eqondakalayo noma umane aphinda imisindo efanayo namagama;
• Eminyakeni emi-3: akasebenzisi imishwana ukukhuluma nabanye abantu futhi ukhomba kuphela noma asebenzise amagama amafushane, angaqondi imiyalelo elula.

Lezi zimpawu zingasho ukuthi inkulumo yengane ayithuthuki ngokujwayelekile futhi, kulezi zimo, udokotela wezingane kufanele aqondise abazali ukuthi babonane nodokotela wezinkulumo ukuze kukhuliswe inkulumo yengane.