Isayensi Engemuva Kocansi Lokwenza Make-up
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- Kungani Ucansi Lwezimonyo Lumangalisa Ngokumangazayo
- Ungalwenza Kanjani Ucansi Lwezokuphilisa Olunempilo
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Sawubona, ntombazane, lalela inganekwane yakho eyintandokazi ka-Ryan Gosling ngoba kuvela leso sigameko socansi sokwenza izinto ezimangalisayo Incwajana akuyona nje i-movie trope. Ucwaningo lubonisa kahle ukuthi kungani ucansi lwe-make-up-uyazi, ucansi ngemva kokulwa noma ngisho nokuhlukana-lushisa kakhulu.
Kungani Ucansi Lwezimonyo Lumangalisa Ngokumangazayo
Lapho imibhangqwana iphikisana-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-southern heiress othandweni nomfana ompofu noma mayelana nokuthanda ama-hormone anamandla avela ku-Instagram wale ntombazane. Lokhu kuxhamazela kwe-adrenaline, i-noradrenaline (i-hormone ne-neurotransmitter), kanye ne-testosterone kubangela isimo sokucasuka ngokweqile, kusho ucwaningo lwe-University of Valencia eSpain. Futhi ngenkathi, ekuqaleni, ukuvusa intukuthelo kungahle kungazizwa kumnandi, sinentambo ephilayo ukuphendula kunoma yiluphi usongo ebudlelwaneni bethu, noma ngabe lwakhiwe thina, ubhala ukhetho lobuchwephesha bezengqondo uSamantha Joel eposini le-blog mayelana nocwaningo lwe Psychology Namuhla. Umbono wosongo ohlangene nethonya lamahomoni ebuchosheni bethu yilokho okusisusa ekuthukutheleni kuya ekuvutheni kwesifiso.
“Lo muzwa wokusongelwa wenza kusebenze uhlelo lokunamathisela—uhlelo olusekelwe kubhayoloji olusebenzela ukugcina ubudlelwano bakho obubalulekile buqinile,” kubhala uJoel. "Noma nini lapho kusebenza okunamathiselwe kwi-imeyili, kukugqugquzela ukuthi wandise umuzwa wakho wokusondelana nokuphepha nabanye ababalulekile, njengomlingani wakho othandana naye."
UJoel uyanezela ukuthi ucansi lungaba yindlela enhle yokulungisa ubudlelwano bothando ngemuva kokusongelwa. “Yize ukuphikisana kungakwenza uzizwe ukude nesithandwa sakho, kodwa ucansi lungasebenza ukubuyisa imizwa yokusondelana nokusondelana,” kubhala yena. (Okuhlobene: Isikhathi Esifanele Sokukhuluma Ngayo Yonke Into Ebudlelwaneni.)
Ungalwenza Kanjani Ucansi Lwezokuphilisa Olunempilo
Kubonakala kunendlela elungile nengalungile yokusebenzisa leyo ntshisekelo yangemuva kokulwa. Njengoba noma ubani owake wenza ucansi lwe-make-up azi, luyasebenza-okungenani ukushisa kwamanje. Kodwa-ke, umphumela unamandla amakhulu kangangokuba ukuheha kocansi lokwakheka kungalutha (futhi kungabi nampilo) njenge-cocaine, ngokusho kukaSeth Meyers, Ph.D., isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emtholampilo, njengoba kubikiwe Psychology Namuhla.
"Iqiniso liwukuthi ocansini abaningi bezimonyo lubangelwa ukuzwa nokuzwakalisa imizwa engemihle ngokwedlulele phakathi nengxabano eshubile, ngaphandle kwesixazululo sangempela kamuva. Ngenxa yokuthi laba bantu bayagula ukuzwa ukuphela kwe-spectrum embi kakhulu, balambele ukushintsha amagiya. bese ugxumela ngakolunye uhlangothi lwe-spectrum-ukuze uzwe ukuphakama okuza nokwenza," kubhala yena. (Okuhlobene: 8 Izinto Ozenzayo Ezingalimaza Ubudlelwano Bakho.)
UJoel uyavuma ukuthi imibhangqwana akufanele isebenzise ucansi ngemva kokulwa njengendlela yokusiza ukuthukuthela, kodwa unikeza enye indlela enhle kakhulu: "Umphumela unamandla kakhulu - okusho ukuthi abantu bazizwa benothando kakhulu futhi bekhangwa abalingani babo - lapho ingxabano. ixazululwa ngempumelelo,” usho kanje. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uhlanganise amagama ngaphambi kokuba wenze ucansi lokuzilungisa. Futhi, ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, amakhono wokuxhumana adingekayo ukuxazulula impi afana nawo ongawasebenzisa ukwenza ucansi oluhlasela ingqondo. (Funda lezi zindlela eziyi-9 zokuya ocansini nobuhlobo bakho.)
Asisho ukuthi kufanele ukhethe ukulwa ukuze ube nobulili obuhle kakhulu - kepha akukubi ukusizakala okwamanje uma kwenzeka! Futhi inqobo nje uma usalungisa noma yini eqale ukulwa, ingenza ubudlelwano benu buqine nakakhulu.