Yini Ebangela Ukuzwela Komthondo?

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• Yini engadala ukuzwela kwepenisi?
• Ngabe ukusoka kungathinta ukuzwela kwendoda?
• Ingabe ukukhishwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kuwuphawu lokuzwela kwendoda?
• Ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi nezici ezingokwengqondo
• Ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi kanye nezici zebhayoloji
• Ungayiphatha kanjani ipipi elizwelayo
• Ungalufuna nini usizo
• Ungakhuluma kanjani nomlingani wakho mayelana nokuzwela kwepenisi
• Uyini umbono?

Ukuzwela epeni lakho kuvamile. Kodwa kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ipipi lizwele kakhulu. Ipipi elizwela ngokweqile lingathinta impilo yakho yezocansi. Kungaba nomthelela emisebenzini yansuku zonke engahlobene nemisebenzi yezocansi.

Kwabanye abantu, ukuzwela kwepenisi kungaholela ekuchameni ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kwabanye, ipipi lingazwela kangangokuthi noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuthinta noma lokuthinta alunazwelo.

Akuwona wonke umthondo ozwela ngokulinganayo. Futhi izingxenye ezahlukahlukene zomthondo zinamazinga ehlukene ezwela. Umthondo wakho nawo ungazwela kancane njengoba ukhula.

Funda ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngezimbangela zokuzwela kwepipi nokuthi ungaphatha kanjani ipipi elizwelayo.

Yini engadala ukuzwela kwepenisi?

Ukuzwela komthondo kungadalwa yisimo sezempilo esiyisisekelo, ezimeni eziningi, esingelapheka. Ezinye izimbangela zingabandakanya:

• I-Phimosis. Lesi simo singenzeka emadodeni angasokile. Kubantu abanalesi simo, ijwabu liqinile kakhulu futhi alikwazi ukudonswa emuva lisuke ekhanda lenduku.
• Ukutheleleka kwe-Urinary tract (UTI). I-UTI nayo ingaholela ezinhlungwini zepenile, ikakhulukazi lapho uchama noma ukhipha umchamo. I-UTI yisimo sesikhashana esingelashwa ngama-antibiotic.
• Ukuhlukumezeka emthondweni. Lokhu kubhekisela ekulimaleni kwepipi. Ungalimaza i-penis yakho kusuka ocansini olubi, ukulimala ngesikhathi semidlalo yokuxhumana, noma ukuwa, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Izinkinga ezivela ekuhlukumezeni kwepipi zingaba zesikhashana noma ezingapheli.

Ngabe ukusoka kungathinta ukuzwela kwendoda?

Kube khona impikiswano emphakathini wezokwelapha ngokuthi ukusoka kungakuthinta kanjani ukuzwela kwesitho sowesilisa.

Ijwabu libucayi ikakhulukazi. Lokho kuholele ekutheni abanye abantu bakholwe ukuthi abesilisa abangasokile bangathola ubudlova obuningi besilisa kunabesilisa abasokile. Kodwa imiphumela yocwaningo lwakamuva ayikhombisanga ukuthi ukusoka kuthinta ukuzwela kwendoda.

Uma ungasokile futhi uzwela ngokweqile epeni lakho, khuluma nodokotela wakho mayelana nokuthi ukusoka kukulungele yini. Le nqubo ingaba buhlungu ngokweqile ezinganeni ezindala nakwabesilisa asebekhulile.

Xoxa ngakho konke okuhle nokubi ngokusoka okuzayo empilweni nodokotela wakho ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokuqhubeka.

Ingabe ukukhishwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kuwuphawu lokuzwela kwendoda?

Ukuzwela kwepenisi kuyimbangela ejwayelekile ye-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi (PE). I-PE ithinta cishe amaphesenti angama-30 amadoda. Ungahle utholakale une-PE uma, ngesikhathi socansi lapho ungena khona kumlingani wakho, uvame ukukhipha ijusi ngaphansi komzuzu ngemuva kokungena.

Ucwaningo lwango-2017 luthole ubudlelwane obuqinile phakathi kwe-PE ebhebhetheka ne-penile hypersensitivity enkulu. Ocwaningweni, abacwaningi basebenzise ithuluzi elibizwa ngokuthi yi-biothesiometer ukukala izinga lokudlidlizela okusetshenziswa endondeni ababambiqhaza abangabekezelela.

Imiphumela evela ocwaningweni ikhombise ukuthi abesilisa abane-PE babekezelele ukudlidliza okumbalwa kunamadoda angenaso lesi simo.

Ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi nezici ezingokwengqondo

I-PE ayidalwa njalo yi-hypersensitivity to the penis.Ukuphazamiseka kwemizwelo nezinye izinselelo zengqondo nakho kungathinta ubudlelwane nokusebenza kocansi.

Abanye abanikeli abavamile ngokwengqondo ku-PE bangafaka:

• ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ngaphambi
• okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala ngokocansi
• ukudana
• ukukhathazeka
• isithombe somzimba esingesihle
• imizwa yecala ehambisana nezenzo zocansi noma mayelana nokuba nesithandwa sakho osikhethile
• ukhathazeke nge-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi

Ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi kanye nezici zebhayoloji

Izimo zezempilo ezingaphansi kwazo nazo zingaholela ku-PE, kufaka phakathi:

• amazinga angajwayelekile we-hormone
• amazinga angajwayelekile ama-neurotransmitters, okungamakhemikhali athwala amasiginali phakathi kwamaseli obuchopho
• ukuvuvukala noma ukutheleleka kwe-prostate noma i-urethra

Ungayiphatha kanjani ipipi elizwelayo

Amafutha ezihloko noma izifutho ezinciphisa ukuzwela zingasetshenziswa ngokuphepha endondeni. Lokhu kungasiza ekunciphiseni ubungozi nokuvela kwe-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

Izifutho zokugaya izinhlungu neminye imikhiqizo ngokuvamile inemithi yokubulala izinzwa, njenge-lidocaine. Le mithi inomphumela wesikhashana wokukhubazeka esikhumbeni.

Zisebenza ngokunciphisa impendulo yezinzwa ukuze ukwazi ukubambezela ukuphuma. Kukhona zombili izinhlobo zemithi kadokotela nezithengwayo zemithi etholakalayo.

Ama-anti-depressants omlomo, abizwa ngokuthi yi-serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) akhethiwe, nawo angasiza. Ama-SSRIs avimba imiphumela i-serotonin enayo ekujuleni. Ukunikezwa kwalezi zidambisi gciwane ukwelapha ukukhishwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kuthathwa njengokusetshenziswa kwe- "off-label".

Xoxa nodokotela wakho ukuthi ama-SSRIs angaba yini inketho nawe. Uma kunjalo, cabanga ngokuqala ngomthamo ophansi wale mithi enamandla. Ama-SSRI aqinile angaholela ekungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile neminye imiphumela emibi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo (CBT) noma ezinye izinhlobo zokwelashwa kokukhuluma kungakusiza uqonde isimo sakho ngokucacile. Ukwelashwa kungakusiza futhi ukuthi wakhe amathuluzi okuphatha imiphumela yezengqondo ye-penile hypersensitivity.

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuzwela kwakho kwepenisi kungaxhunyaniswa nokulimala noma ukutheleleka, qiniseka ukubona udokotela ukuthola ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa.

Ungalufuna nini usizo

Khuluma nodokotela noma i-urologist uma ukuzwela kwepenisi kuthinta impilo yakho yansuku zonke noma kunomthelela emisebenzini yakho yezocansi. Udokotela wezifo zomchamo ungudokotela ogxile empilweni yomgudu wokuchama nohlelo lokuzala lwabesilisa.

Khuluma nodokotela uma uhlangabezana njalo ne-PE. Ungahle ungadingi ukwelashwa noma ukwelashwa uma i-PE yenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile futhi impilo yakho yezocansi ivame ukwanelisa wena nomlingani wakho.

Uma ukhuluma nodokotela, buza imibuzo bese uxoxa ngezimpawu zakho ngokusobala. Ukwazi konke okuhlangabezana nakho nokuzizwa kwakho ngezimpawu zakho kungasiza udokotela wakho ukuthi aqhamuke nohlelo lokwelashwa olwenzelwe isimo sakho.

Ungase futhi ufune ukukhuluma nomelaphi wezocansi onelayisense. Abahlinzeki bezocansi abanamalayisense kwesinye isikhathi babizwa ngokuthi ngabasebenza ngocansi. Umelaphi wezocansi angakusiza uqonde futhi uphathe noma yiziphi izinselelo ezihlobene nezocansi. Zingakusiza nokuthi uthole izindlela zokuphatha izimpawu zakho.

Ungakhuluma kanjani nomlingani wakho mayelana nokuzwela kwepenisi

Khuluma nomlingani wakho uma uhlangabezana nanoma yiziphi izingqinamba ezithinta intamacy, kufaka phakathi:

• ukuzwela kwepenisi
• ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi
• ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile

Chaza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuxoxa ngezindaba ezisondelene ngamagama ezokwelapha angabeka ukugcizelelwa kukho njengokukhathazeka kwezempilo, hhayi inkinga yomuntu siqu. Yiba nokuzethemba futhi uqonde, futhi ulalelisise lokho okushiwo umlingani wakho, naye.

Kwenze kucace ukuthi kunezindlela zokuxazulula le nkinga nokuthi nifuna ukuyidlulisa ndawonye. Isibonelo, ungahle udinge ukusondela kwi-foreplay ngokuhlukile noma uthole ezinye izindlela zokusondelana.

Ukwelulekwa ngemibhangqwana kungasiza wena nomlingani wakho nixoxe ngobuzwe bakho besilisa nokunye okukhathazayo.

Ungase futhi ufune ukuzama imikhiqizo ehlukene engasiza ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation, njenge:

• okhilimu bezindaba
• izifutho
• amakhondomu

Uyini umbono?

Ukuzwela komthondo kungakusiza ukuthi uvuswe futhi uthole ukwakhiwa. Kepha uma i-penis yakho i-hypersensitive, ingaholela ekuphatheni kabi ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kocansi noma empilweni yansuku zonke. Kungadala nokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo.

Uma i-penis yakho i-hypersensitive, khumbula ukuthi kukhona odokotela, abelaphi, nemikhiqizo laphaya ukusiza ukuphatha lesi simo esivame kakhulu.