U-Sia Cooper Wabelane Ngesikhumbuzo Esibalulekile Mayelana Nokushintshashintsha Kwesisindo

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Ngemuva kokubhekana nezimpawu zesifo esingaqondakali, ezinjengezifo ezizimele, umgqugquzeli wokuqina komzimba uSia Cooper wasuswa okufakelwe amabele ngo-2018.

Ezinyangeni ezaholela ekuhlinzweni kwakhe okuqhamukayo, impilo kaCooper yawohloka kakhulu. Kanye nokukhathala okwedlulele, ukuqothuka kwezinwele, nokudangala, ubuye wakhuluphala, okwamshiya ezizwa “enamahloni,” muva nje abelane ngakho ku-Instagram.

“Ukuba semehlweni abantu akwenzanga kube lula lokhu njengoba ngibe nenqwaba yezinkulumo ezikhomba ukuthi ngikhuluphele ngokusobala,” kubhala uCooper. "Abanye baze bangitshele nokuthi kufanele ngishintshe isibambo sami ngibe 'i-diaryofafatmommy.' Abantu babecabanga ukuthi ngisanda kuzidedela futhi ngaphathwa njengomqeqeshi womuntu siqu, kwakungafanele ngivunyelwe ukwenza lokho. "

Abantu abaningi bebengazi ukuthi uCooper "ubesegula kakhulu ngesikhathi" sesithombe "ngaphambi", echaza. "... ngemuva nje kokuthwetshulwa kwesithombe 'ngaphambi', ngahlinzwa kakhulu ukuze kususwe izinto engazifaka emzimbeni wami, ngabe sekuqala uhambo lwami lokubuyela empilweni," kubhala yena. (ICYMI, kunobufakazi obuqinile bokuthi izimila zebele zihlobene ngokuqondile nohlobo olungavamile lomdlavuza wegazi.)

Naphezu kokuzizwa engathuswa yinqwaba yamazwana angemuhle, u-Cooper wabelane ngodaba lwakhe nabalandeli bakhe ukuze abatshele ukuthi ukukhuluphala kungokwemvelo futhi kujwayelekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuphi ohambweni lwakho lokufaneleka. "Kunzima futhi akunangqondo ukuhlala esisindweni esingama-24/7 njalo," kubhala yena. "Impilo iyenzeka bafo."

UCooper futhi ufuna abalandeli bakhe "bame bathathe umzuzwana bacabange ukuthi kungani omunye umuntu kungenzeka ukuthi wehlile noma wakhuluphala" ngaphambi kokuphawula ngomzimba womuntu. "Kulowo muntu othi 'wehlile emzimbeni!' ukuze, kungenzeka ukuthi ulwa nomdlavuza noma esinye isifo... noma mhlawumbe badabuka ngokufa kothandekayo.Kulowo muntu okungenzeka ukuthi umbonile ukuthi 'bazidedele bahambe,' mhlawumbe badivosa noma banenkinga yezempilo yamahomoni abangenamandla okuyilawula, "ubhale kanjalo. Inkinga Nalokho Ongakwenza Ukuyiyeka)

Namuhla, uCooper uzizwa "engcono kunanini ngaphambili," konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ulalele futhi wahlangabezana nezidingo zomzimba wakhe. "Ziningi izinto ezishintshile: Ngalahla utshwala, ngasusa izimila zami engangizizwa ngigula (zonke izimpawu zami zanyamalala), ngaqala i-yoga, ngashintsha i-anti-depressant yami, futhi ngathola isisusa sami futhi, "kuchaza yena.

Kepha iphuzu eliyinhloko likaCooper ukuthi ukushintshashintsha kwesisindo kuyingxenye ye wonke umuntu uhambo, okusho ukuthi akukho hlazo kulo. "Ukuthi ngiwumqeqeshi oqeqeshiwe akusho ukuthi angivikelekile ekushintsheni kwesisindo," wabhala. "Ngingumuntu. Umzimba wami awuphelele futhi uzohlala kuwuhambo, umsebenzi uyaqhubeka. Ngikulungele lokho."

Ekupheleni kosuku, ayikho indlela yokwazi ukuthi umuntu ubhekene nani, futhi ukuphawula emzimbeni womuntu akulungile neze. "Sibeka ukubaluleka okukhulu futhi sigcizelela isisindo nokubukeka lapho ukubaluleka kweqiniso kusempilweni yakho nokuthi UZIZWA kanjani," kubhala u-Cooper. "Amagama anesisindo esikhulu ngakho-ke qaphela futhi ukhethe amagama akho ngokuhlakanipha."

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