Izimpawu ezingakhombisa ukuthi ingane yami iyahlukunyezwa esikoleni

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• Izimpawu zokuhlukumeza
• Ungazibona kanjani izimpawu zokuxhashazwa

Kunezimpawu eziningana ezingasiza abazali ukuthi babone ukuthi ingane noma ibhungu lingahle lihlupheke, njengokungafuni ukuya esikoleni, ukukhala njalo noma ukufutheka, isibonelo.

Ngokuvamile, izingane ezisengozini yokuhlukunyezwa yibo abanamahloni kakhulu, labo abahlushwa yisifo, njengokukhuluphala, noma labo abafaka izingilazi noma okokusebenza, ngokwesibonelo, nabazali kufanele bazinake kakhulu lezi zici. Kodwa-ke, zonke izingane zingaxhashazwa futhi, ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele bafundise ingane ukuzivikela kusukela isencane.

Izimpawu zokuhlukumeza

Lapho ingane ihlukunyezwa esikoleni, imvamisa ibonisa izimpawu ezithile zomzimba nezingokwengqondo, ezinjenge:

• Ukungabi nentshisekelo esikoleni, ukuphonsa intukuthelo ngokungafuni ukuhamba ngokwesaba ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngamazwi;
• Ukuzihlukanisa, ukugwema ukusondelana nabangane nomndeni, ukuvala igumbi futhi ungafuni ukuphuma nozakwethu;
• Unamabanga aphansi esikoleni, ngenxa yokunganakwa ekilasini;
• Akubalulekile, kubhekiswe ekubeni kaningi ongakwazi;
• Kukhombisa ukufutheka nokungxama, ufuna ukuzishaya wena nabanye noma ukuphonsa izinto.
• Khala njalo futhi ngokusobala ngaphandle kwesizathu;
• Ebeka ikhanda phansi, ngizizwa ngikhathele;
• Unenkinga yokulala, ethula amaphupho amabi njalo;
• Izici amanxeba emzimbeni nengane ithi ayazi ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani;
• Ufika ekhaya nezingubo ezidabukile noma ungcolile noma ungalethi okungokwakho;
• Unesifiso sokudla, ungafisi ukudla noma ukudla okuthandayo;
• Uthi uzwa ikhanda nekhanda izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, okuvame ukuba izaba zokungayi esikoleni, isibonelo.

Lezi zimpawu zikhombisa ukudabuka, ukungavikeleki nokungazethembi kanye nengcindezi engapheli nakho kudala izimpawu zomzimba enganeni. Kujwayelekile futhi ukuthi ingane noma osemusha ohlukunyezwayo esikoleni agweme ukuxhumana nomhlukumezi, ukuze angahlupheki, futhi ahlale yedwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izisulu zentsha yokuxhashazwa ziqala ukuphuza utshwala nezidakamizwa ngomzamo wokubalekela iqiniso, kodwa-ke, zigcina zilimaza impilo yazo. Bona ukuthi iyini imiphumela yokuxhashazwa.

Ungazibona kanjani izimpawu zokuxhashazwa

Ukuhlonza ukuthi ngabe ingane noma umuntu osemusha uhlushwa ukuhlukunyezwa, kubalulekile:

• Khuluma nengane, ukuqonda ukuthi uzizwa kanjani esikoleni, ukubuza ukuthi kuhambe kanjani esikoleni, uma kukhona izingane ezingamphathi kahle esikoleni, ngokwesikhathi sekhefu;
• Hlola umzimba nezinto: kubalulekile ukuthi abazali, lapho begeza, babheke ukuthi ingane inomzimba olimele yini, ukuthi izingubo ezisemzimbeni azidabuki yini nokuthi ngabe zilethe zonke izimpahla, ezifana nomakhalekhukhwini, isibonelo;
• Khuluma nothisha: ukukhuluma nothisha kuyasiza ukuqonda indlela yokuziphatha kwengane esikoleni.

Uma ingane noma eyeve eshumini nambili ikhombisa izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa, abazali kufanele benze i-aphoyintimenti yokwelulekwa ngokwengqondo ngokushesha okukhulu ukusiza ukusiza ukubhekana nale nkinga nokugwema ukudangala, isibonelo.