Umbhukudi Unqanyulwe Ukunqoba Umjaho Ngoba Isikhulu Sibona Isudi Yakhe Ivezwa Kakhulu

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Ngesonto eledlule, umbhukudi oneminyaka engu-17 ubudala uBreckyn Willis akavumelekile emjahweni ngemuva kokuba isikhulu sizwe ukuthi wephule imithetho yesikole samabanga aphezulu ngokukhombisa kakhulu emuva kwakhe.

UWillis, umbhukudi e-Dimond High School e-Alaska, wayesanda kuwina umjaho we-freestyle wamayadi angu-100 ngesikhathi ukunqoba kwakhe kukhishwe ngenxa yokuthi ingubo yakhe yokubhukuda yayigibela phezulu. Kepha uWillis akazange khetha isudu abeyigqokile. Bekungumfaniswano weqembu awunikwa yisikole sakhe. Futhi noma yena nabalingani bakhe bembethe ngokufana, bekunguye kuphela eyodwa icashunwe ukwephula umfaniswano.

Isifunda i-Anchorage School sikubonile lokhu kungqubuzana futhi safaka isicelo ngokushesha ku-Alaska School Activities Association (ASAA), ephethe ezokusubatha esikoleni sikahulumeni, ngokusho kwe IWashington Post. Isifunda sesikole sicele i-ASAA ukuthi ibuyekeze ukungavunyelwa kwakhe ngenxa yokuthi "yayinzima futhi ingadingekile," nokuthi uWillis "wayebhekiswe kuphela endleleni umfaniswano ojwayelekile, okhishwe esikoleni okwenzeka ngayo ukulingana nomzimba womzimba wakhe ." (Related: Asiyeke Ukwahlulela Imizimba Yabanye Yabesifazane)

Ngenhlanhla, ukunqoba kukaWillis kwabuyiselwa kungakapheli nehora ngemuva kokufakwa kwesikhalazo. Isinqumo se-ASAA sokubuyisela emuva ukungafaneleki kwakhe siveze umthetho othi izikhulu kufanele zazise umqeqeshi ngezingubo ezingafanele ngaphambi ukushisa komsubathi, ngokusho kwesiteshi sezindaba sendawo I-KTVA. Njengoba uWillis wayesevele eqhudelane egqoke isudi efanayo ngosuku olufanayo, ukuhoxiswa kwakhe kwaba yize.

I-ASAA kubikwa ukuthi iphinde yathumela incwadi yokuqondisa kuzo zonke izikhulu zokubhukuda nokutshuza, ibakhumbuza ukuthi kufanele bacabangele ukuthi umbhukudi ngenhloso egoqa ingubo yokubhukuda ukuze aveze izinqe zakhe ngaphambi kokuba akhiphe noma yikuphi ukungafaneleki.

Kepha abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukungafaneleki kukaWillis kwakungaphezu kokungaqondi noma ukwahlulela okungafanele.

ULauren Langford, ongumqeqeshi wokubhukuda kwesinye isikole samabanga aphezulu kule ndawo, utshele IWashington Post ukuthi ukholelwa ukuthi "ukucwasana ngokobuhlanga, ngaphezu kokucwasa ngokobulili," kudlale indima, uma kubhekwa uWillis ungomunye wababhukudi abambalwa abangamhlophe esifundeni sesikole.

"Wonke la mantombazane agqoke amasudi asikwe ngendlela efanayo," kusho uLangford Iposi. "Futhi intombazane kuphela ethola ukungafaneleki yintombazane ehlangene yomjaho enezici eziyindilinga, eziphikisayo."

“Lokho kimina akungifanele,” kwengeza uLangford, ephawula ukuthi ababhukudi besifazane bavame ukusolwa ngokuqwala amasudi abo ngamabomu kuyilapho ngokuvamile kuyinto eyenzeka bengahlosile. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuyinkinga Enkulu Kangaka nokuthi Yini Ongayenza Ukuyiyeka)

“Sinegama layo—kubizwa nge-suit wedgie,” kusho uLangford. "Nemishado iyenzeka. Akuzwakali. Akekho umuntu ozohamba ngaleyo ndlela ngamabomu."

Kuvele ukuthi akuqali ukuthi imvunulo kaWillis ibe nokungabazekayo. Ngonyaka odlule, umzali wesilisa wathatha isithombe sangasemuva sakhe (!) Ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe wasabelana nabanye abazali ukukhombisa ukuthi amantombazane eqenjini ayegqoke izingubo zokubhukuda "ezingafanele", ngokusho kwesifunda i-Anchorage School District.

Izikhulu zesifunda sesikole zithathe udaba olubucayi ngale ndlela yabazali engashiwongo ngegama. Iphini likathishanhloko waseDimond High litshele umzali ukuthi "bekungavumelekile ukuthi athathe izithombe zezingane zabanye nokuthi kumele ame ngokushesha."

Kuyaqondakala ukuthi umama kaWillis, uMeagan Kowatch akaneme ngendlela aphathwe ngayo indodakazi yakhe. Yize ejabule ukuthi ukunqoba kwendodakazi yakhe kubuyiselwe, uzizwa kuningi okusadinga ukwenziwa ukubuyisa lesi sehlakalo.

"Kuyisiqalo esincomekayo kodwa lokhu ngeke kuphele lapha uma kungukuthi yikho konke lokhu abanakho," kusho uKowatch I-KTVA. "Sizogcina ngokufaka icala. Ngakho-ke, sinethemba lokuthi izimo zizoba ngcono kodwa okwamanje, akwanele nje."

U-Kowatch ufuna i-ASAA ixolise endodakazini yakhe. "I-ASAA kumele ibhekane nalokhu okwenzekile [ngendodakazi yami]," esho.

Khonamanjalo, umqondisi omkhulu wesikole samabanga aphakeme e-Alaska School, uKersten Johnson-Struempler uthe isifunda siqale uphenyo mayelana nokungafaneleki kukaWillis futhi "bazokwenza okuningi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abafundi babo bazizwa bephephile," kusho I-KTVA. (Okuhlobene: Isifundo Sithola Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuholela Engcupheni Yokufa Okuphakeme)

"Sifuna ngempela ukuthi izingane zahlulelwe ngokufaneleka kokudlala kwazo enkundleni, noma echibini, noma enkantolo, noma ngabe uyini umdlalo wazo," kusho uJohnson-Struempler. I-KTVA. "Asinaso ngempela isifiso sokuthi izingane zizwe sengathi zenziwa amahloni noma zahlulelwa ngenxa yesimo somzimba noma ubukhulu. Sifuna ngempela ukuthi zihlanganyele ngokugcwele kuleyo midlalo futhi zigxile kwezemidlalo kuphela. akukho okunye. "

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