Ukhulelwe futhi unamaHorny? Ukuqonda Idrayivu Yakho Yobulili Ngesikhathi Sokukhulelwa

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• Ingabe ukukhulelwa kuyayinyusa idrayivu yakho yocansi?
• I-trimester yokuqala
• I-trimester yesibili
• I-trimester yesithathu
• Ingabe ukukhulelwa kungayinciphisa idrayivu yakho yocansi?
• Kuphephile yini ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
• Amathiphu okubhekana nesifiso socansi ayashintsha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
• Ukushaya indlwabu
• Ezinye izinhlobo zokusondelana
• Izikhundla ezahlukahlukene zocansi
• Izinto zokugcoba
• Ukuxhumana
• Ukwamukela
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Umfanekiso ka-Alyssa Kiefer

Uzizwa uthambeka ngokwengeziwe ngemuva kokubona lowo mugqa ophindwe kabili? Ngenkathi ungacabanga ukuthi ukuba ngumzali kungasomisa isifiso sakho sobulili, iqiniso lingaba okuphambene nalokho.

Kunezimo eziningi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ezingakhuphula (noma zinciphise) i-libido. Nakhu okunye mayelana nalokho ongahlangabezana nakho ku-trimester ngayinye, kanye namathiphu wokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokujwayelekile kwakho okusha.

Ingabe ukukhulelwa kuyayinyusa idrayivu yakho yocansi?

Yebo, kungaba njalo.

Kwabanye, esinye sezibonakaliso zokuqala zokukhulelwa akusikho ukugula kwasekuseni noma amabele abuhlungu, kodwa ukuzwa i-horny ngokungalindelekile. Uma ngokungazelelwe unikeza oshade naye ukubukeka okuhle ngekhofi lasekuseni noma ukuthola kunzima ukugxila kulolo hlelo lwe-TV ngoba ucabanga ngokuthola isenzo esithile - awuwedwa.

Ngisho nangaphambi kokuba uqale ukukhombisa, ukukhulelwa yisikhathi soshintsho olukhulu emzimbeni. Noma yini kusuka emazingeni e-estrogen akhula njalo ne-progesterone ekukhuphukeni kokuhamba kwegazi nokuzwela emabeleni nasezitho zangasese kungaholela emazingeni aphezulu okuvuka.

I-trimester yokuqala

Ngenkathi ungahle ube nolaka futhi ungaphezu kokukhathala ku-trimester yakho yokuqala, amahomoni akho ayakhuphuka ngosuku. Lokhu kusho ukuthi amabele nezingono zakho zingazizwa zikhudlwana futhi zizwela kakhulu. Ungazizwa uxhumeke kakhulu ngokomzwelo kumlingani wakho.

Kukhona futhi okuthile okukhululayo mayelana nokulahla eceleni ukulawulwa kokuzalwa bese uvele ukwenze, akunjalo? Futhi, kungenzeka ukuthi awunaso isisu somntwana kusenesikhathi, ngakho-ke izikhundla eziningi zocansi zisenethezekile futhi ziphephile. Akumangalisi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga ngocansi!

I-trimester yesibili

Ukungakhululeki kokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni kuyancipha kanye nemikhawulo yomzimba yokukhulelwa sekwephuzile ayikakafiki. I-trimester yesibili impela isikhathi sonyaka wokukhulelwa - futhi ingazizwa njengenyanga entsha yangemva komshado nempilo yakho yezocansi.

Iqiniso elisheshayo: Abesifazane bathola isisindo samakhilogremu amathathu egazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Iningi laleli gazi ligcina ligobhoza engxenyeni engezansi yomzimba wakho. Ngakho konke lokho kugeleza okwengeziwe, ungahle uzizwe ngaphezulu kwemizwa kunokujwayelekile.

Hhayi lokho kuphela, kepha ama-orgasms akho nawo angazizwa eqinile futhi - alinde - ungathola ama-orgasms amaningi ngesikhathi sokwenza ucansi.

I-trimester yesithathu

Ngesisu esikhulu nezinhlungu nezinhlungu, ungacabanga ukuthi ucansi luyoba yinto yokugcina engqondweni yakho ku-trimester yakho yesithathu. Akunjalo ngempela. Ungathola umumo wakho omusha, oyindilinga kukwenza uzizwe unocansi kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Ukuzethemba komzimba kungalingana impela nesifiso esikhulayo sokuhamba ze.

Ngenkathi ukhomba ukuthi ezocansi zivame ukwehla njengoba amasonto eqhubeka, qhubeka nakho uma uzizwa wenza lo msebenzi futhi ungahlala endaweni enethezekile.

Ubulili bungaze bube yisibuyiso esihle njengoba ungalindeli ngesineke ukuthi ingane yakho ifike. Yini leyo? Ngempela. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi uzwile ukuthi ucansi lungenza umsebenzi.

Kukhona ngempela ubulili obusekela isayensi njengenqubo yokuqala umsebenzi, kodwa ucwaningo lukhona. Ukugqugquzela ingono kanye ne-orgasm kukhipha i-hormone oxytocin, okuyindlela yemvelo ye-pitocin (umuthi osetshenziselwa ukukhulisa abasebenzi).

Ama-Prostaglandins aseziduneni angasiza futhi ukuvuthwa komlomo wesibeletho, uwuthambise ukuze weluleke. Akunasidingo sokukhathazeka, noma kunjalo - ubulili abuzukuhambisa izinto uma umzimba wakho ungakakulungeli ukusebenza.

Ingabe ukukhulelwa kungayinciphisa idrayivu yakho yocansi?

Impendulo lapha futhi inguyebo!

Kujwayelekile impela ukuthi ungafuni lutho oluphathelene nocansi ezindaweni ezihlukene zokukhulelwa (noma kuzo zonke izinyanga eziyi-9). Isizathu esisodwa ukuthi kungenzeka ungazizwa ungumuntu ojwayelekile.

Eqinisweni, izifundo zokukhulelwa nokuzithwebula zembula ukuthi abesifazane bavame ukuba nokuzethemba okuncane ku-trimester yabo yesibili nokuthi umbono wesithombe somzimba ungaba "mubi kakhulu" ku-trimester yesithathu.

Ezinye izinto kudlalwa:

• Ngokwanda kwamazinga e-estrogen ne-progesterone ku-trimester yokuqala kuza yonke inkanuko, ukuhlanza nokukhathala. Ukuya ocansini kungazwakala njengomsebenzi kunokuba kube yinto ejabulisayo.
• Ngalo lonke lolu shintsho nokungahambi kahle, imizwa yakho ingahle igcwale yonke indawo. Ukuthola imizwa lapho usuvele unesimo esibi kungazizwa kungenakwenzeka.
• Ukukhathazeka ngokuthi ucansi lungadala ukukhulelwa kwesisu kungaphazamisa ne-libido. Izindaba ezimnandi lapha ukuthi ochwepheshe bathi ucansi alubangeli ukulahleka kokukhulelwa. Esikhundleni salokho, ukukhulelwa kwesisu kuvame ukubangelwa izingqinamba eziyisisekelo nombungu.
• Ukuzwela okwengeziwe kungenza abanye besifazane balangazelele ucansi kakhulu. Kwabanye? Kungazizwa ungakhululekile neze noma kukhulu kakhulu.
• Ukuxinana ngemuva kwe-orgasm kuyinto yangempela, futhi kungahle kungathandeki ngokwanele ukukwenza ube namahloni ngamashidi.
• Njengoba usondela emsebenzini, ungakhuphuka ekukhiqizeni izingqinamba futhi ukhathazeke ngokuthi ukuya ocansini kungahle kuqale umsebenzi ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

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Kuphephile yini ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?

Ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuphephile ngempela - inqobo nje uma ungenazo izingqinamba ezithile zezokwelapha. Buza udokotela wakho ukuthi ngabe kunesizathu sokuthi kufanele uyeke. Uma kungenjalo, ungaya kuwo ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Ngempela!

Vele, uzofuna ukuxhumana nodokotela wakho uma:

• Uzwa ukopha ngesikhathi noma ngemuva kocansi.
• Amanzi akho aphukile noma uvuza uketshezi olungachazeki.
• Unomlomo wesibeletho ongenamakhono (lapho umlomo wakho wesibeletho uvuleka ngaphambi kwesikhathi).
• Une-placenta previa (lapho i-placenta ihlanganisa ingxenye yawo wonke umlomo wesibeletho sakho).
• Unezimpawu zomsebenzi wokuqala noma umlando wokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

Inothi nje: Ungakhathazeka ngokuxinana ngemuva kocansi. Kuyinto evamile, ikakhulukazi ku-trimester yesithathu. Futhi, noma yini kusuka ekuvuseleleni ingono kuya kwi-orgasm kuya kuma-hormone e-prostaglandin kusidoda somlingani wakho kungaba yimbangela.

Ukungakhululeki kufanele kukhululeke ngokuphumula. Uma kungenjalo, thintana nodokotela wakho.

Futhi ngenkathi ukuvikela ekukhulelweni akuyona into ekhathazayo ngalesi sikhathi (kusobala!), Uzofuna ukuqhubeka nokusebenzisa amakhondomu ukuvimbela ukudluliswa kwe-STI uma ungekho ebudlelwaneni bomuntu oyedwa noma uma ukhetha ukuya ocansini nomlingani omusha.

Amathiphu okubhekana nesifiso socansi ayashintsha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa

Noma ngabe uzizwa unkulunkulukazi wobulili noma, hhayi neze, kuningi ongakwenza ukubhekana nezidingo zakho. Ungaze uthole ukuthi isifiso sakho sobulili sishintsha kakhulu usuku nosuku. (Ngiyabonga, kukhuphuka futhi kwehle amazinga ama-hormone!)

Ukushaya indlwabu

Awudingi umlingani ukuze uzenzele. Ukuzikhuthaza kungaba ukuphumula futhi kumnandi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Futhi - ingxenye enhle kakhulu - ungayenza noma kunini lapho ufuna khona.

Ukushaya indlwabu kuyindlela enhle yokujwayela umzimba wakho oguqukayo. Ubumnandi bungasiza futhi ukuphazamisa ezinye zezimpawu ezingezinhle ohlangabezana nazo, njengokugula kwasekuseni, ubuhlungu beqolo, ukuvuvukala kwemilenze nezinyawo, nokunye ukungaphatheki kahle.

Uma usebenzisa amathoyizi ocansi, qiniseka ukuwageza kahle ngokusebenzisa ngakunye futhi ube mnene lapho udlala.

Ezinye izinhlobo zokusondelana

Akubona bonke ucansi okufanele lubandakanye ukungena. Ungahle uthande ukugona noma ukugona. Nikeza i-massage noma uvele uqabule.

Kukhona ngisho nento ebizwa ngokuthi yi-mindful sex egxila entweni ebizwa nge- “sensate focus,” isenzo sokuthinta noma ukuthintwa. Lo mkhuba ukhuthaza inkanuko uma kuqhathaniswa nobulili.

Ukuzibandakanya, ungagqoka noma ungagqokile. Qoka umlingani oyedwa ukuthi abe ngumuphi futhi omunye abe ngumamukeli. Ukusuka lapho, ungahle ugxile ekuthinteni okungafani kumathempeli ahlukahlukene ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene zomzimba.

Noma yini oyenzayo, khumbula ukuthi ucansi lumayelana nokusondelana. Ukuzwa ngokomzimba kungaba kuhle kakhulu, kepha ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nakho kuyajabulisa.

Izikhundla ezahlukahlukene zocansi

Futhi, izikhundla eziningi zocansi ziphephile uze ufike enyangeni yesine yokukhulelwa. Kuleli qophelo, izikhundla okulele phansi emhlane wakho (isibonelo, isithunywa sevangeli) zingase zingakhululeki futhi zibeke ingcindezi emithanjeni yegazi ebalulekile eletha izakhamzimba nomoya-mpilo enganeni yakho. Linga lokho okuzwakala kangcono kakhulu.

Ungazama:

• Owesifazane phezulu. Njengoba kuzwakala nje, lesi sikhundla sikuvumela ukuthi ukwazi ukulawula ngokuphelele ngenkathi futhi ukhulula isisu sakho. Ungasetha ijubane ukushesha noma ukuhamba kancane noma ukuhambisa kalula kwezinye izikhundla ngale ndlela.
• Owesifazane kuzo zonke izinyawo ezine. Zibeke ezandleni zakho nasemadolweni bese uvumela isisu sakho silenge. Lesi sikhundla sisebenza kahle kakhulu ku-trimester yokuqala neyesibili, ngaphambi kokuba isisu sakho sisindwe kakhulu.
• Emaceleni noma nge-spooning. Ukuthola ukwesekwa okwengeziwe ekukhulelweni kamuva, zama ukubeka eceleni nomlingani wakho engena ngemuva. Lesi sikhundla sisusa ingcindezi emajoyintini nesisu osuvele usukhokhisiwe, futhi sikuvumela uphumule. Ungasebenzisa futhi imicamelo ukulungisa ukusekelwa.

Izinto zokugcoba

Ungazizwa ubumanzi obuningi bemvelo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Uma kungenjalo, i-lubricant enhle ingasiza ukwenza izinto zishelele futhi zikhululeke. Isikhumba sakho singazwela kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi, ngakho-ke uzofuna ukubheka izinto ezisetshenziswa emanzini ezingacasuli noma eziholele ekutheleleni.

Ukuxhumana

Khuluma nomlingani wakho kaningi ngokuthi uzizwa kanjani maqondana nempilo yakho yezocansi. Ufuna okuningi? Dlulisa lokho. Udinga ukuhlehla? Yilethele ingxoxo. Uma ukukhuluma ngocansi kungathandeki, ukuzama ukukuletha ngesitatimende esithi "Ngizwa" ukuze uqhubeke.

Isibonelo, “Ngizizwa ngicanuzelelwa yinhliziyo futhi ngikhathele ngokwengeziwe muva nje. Angikuthandi ukuya ocansini njengamanje. " Lapho usuthole umugqa wezokuxhumana uvulekile, nobabili ningasebenzisana ukuthola okuthile okusebenzela noma yisiphi isigaba okuso.

Ukwamukela

Melana nokuzigweba ngendlela ozizwa ngayo - i-horny noma cha. Ukukhulelwa kuyisikhathi esisodwa sempilo yakho yothando. Indlela ozizwa ngayo iguquka njalo futhi izoqhubeka nokuguquka impilo yakho yonke njengoba izimo nezimo ezahlukahlukene zifika zidlule.

Zama ukuhamba nokugeleza, jabulela ukugibela ukuthi kuyini, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ufinyelela ukwesekwa uma uzizwa ukuthi uyakudinga. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuxoxa nje nomngani omuhle kungakusiza uzizwe ungaphansi wedwa.

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Ukudla okudlela endlini

Uma uzizwa u-sexy kakhulu, ungahle usebenzise ngokunenzuzo imizwa eyengeziwe enikezwa ukukhulelwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthola ama-frisky nozakwethu noma uchitha nje isikhathi esithile enjabulweni yakho, zinike isikhathi sokujabulela umzimba wakho.

Ukukhulelwa ngakunye kwehlukile, ngakho-ke zama ukukhumbula ukuthi isifiso sakho sokwenza uthando sihlukile kulwazi lwakho okwamanje.

Ayikho indlela elungile noma engalungile yokwenza ubuhlobo bobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Okusemqoka ukugcina umugqa wezokuxhumana uvulekile nomlingani wakho futhi uthole okuthile okukusebenzelayo.