Umlingo Oguqula Impilo Wokusika Izinwele Zakho

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• Ukunakekelwa kwezinwele kungukutshala imali ekuzethembeni nasenjabulweni yakho
• Ubudlelwano bakho nomenzi wezinwele ungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu owake waba nazo
• Ngilalele, kuthiwani uma ukwelashwa kwezinwele kungasiza ekwehliseni usizi olusalayo?

Izinwele zami zenza le nto ehlekisayo lapho zithanda ukungikhumbuza ngokungakwazi kwami ​​ukulawula enginakho empilweni yami. Ngezinsuku ezinhle, kufana nokuhweba kwePantene futhi ngizizwa nginethemba futhi ngikulungele ukuthatha usuku. Ngezinsuku ezimbi, izinwele zami ziba mnandi, zibe namafutha, futhi zibe yimbangela yokwanda kokukhathazeka nokucasuka.

Ngesinye isikhathi, ngenkathi nginokungabaza ngobudlelwano obusha, ngabuka isizini entsha ye-Netflix yeGilmore Girls lapho u-Emily Gilmore ehlanza khona indlu yakhe ngokususelwa encwadini kaMarie Kondō Umlingo Oguqula Ukuphila Wokuzicwala. Indlu yami izohlala ihlukumezeka njengoba kunjalo. Anginankinga. Kodwa izinwele zami?

Kuthiwani uma izinwele zami seziyinto ehlukile ekhombisa ukungcola okuwukuphila kwami?

Ngilalele.

Kwesinye isikhathi, lapho ngiphelelwa usuku lokulawula izinwele, kubangela ukuhlaselwa kokukhathazeka noma imizwa yokudangala. Ngingakubheka nje ukubukeka kwami ​​bese ngiqala ukuzungeza…

Izinwele ezinamafutha? Anginayo impilo yami ndawonye.

Isizungu? Izwa ukulahlekelwa okuphelele kolawulo.

Izinsuku eziningi zezinwele ezimbi - kuthiwani uma inkinga imina?

Kukhona okunye okutholakele okuphakamisa ukuthi ukubukeka kwezinwele zakho kuthinta okungaphezu kwemizwa yakho.Ochungechungeni lwezifundo ezinhlanu ngokungalingani kwesigaba, abacwaningi baseStanford bathole ukuthi izinkumbulo zosuku olubi lwezinwele zithinte indlela ababambiqhaza ababheka ngayo ukungalingani. Futhi lokho nje izinkumbulo - kuthiwani ngosuku lwangempela?

Izinsuku zezinwele ezimbi zingakhipha imvula enkulu empilweni yakho njengenkungu yaseSan Francisco. Ayikho imvula, kodwa iyafafaza, ibe mpunga, bese ingena endleleni. Ngokusho kukaDkt. Juli Fraga, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esinelayisense eSan Francisco, ogxile ekukhathazekeni kwezempilo kwabesifazane, "Izinwele ezimbi, njengengubo embi, zingathinta imizwa ngoba kuthinta indlela esizibona ngayo."

Ukunakekelwa kwezinwele kungukutshala imali ekuzethembeni nasenjabulweni yakho

Izinwele njenge-barometer yemizwa, ukuzethemba, nokuhlonishwa akuyona into entsha. Ngibheke uphawu lwezinwele, futhi luboshelwe kwezempilo - ukulahleka kwezinwele kuyinto ebucayi emadodeni - nakubesifazane isikhathi eside.

Ngo-1944, abesifazane baseFrance baphuculwa amakhanda abo njengesijeziso sokusebenzisana namaJalimane. Namuhla, abesifazane abagunda amakhanda bahlangana nomdlavuza kuqala. Ngisho nakwisiko le-pop, osaziwayo besifazane abazigunda izinwele bafikelwa yimizwa.

I-Entertainment Weekly ibinezinto ezikhethekile ekusikeni kwe-pixie ka-Emma Watson - usuku okwaphuma ngalo. Konke lokho kusadlulisela umyalezo ofanayo kimi: Ukubukeka kuyingxenye yesixazululo sempendulo esakha ukuzethemba nokuzethemba.

Ngakho-ke, izinwele ezigcinwe kahle kuwuphawu lokulawula lomuntu siqu nolwangaphandle, kepha nokufunda ukuthi ungazilawula kanjani izinwele zami kuthathe isikhashana. Ngokujabulisayo, inkinga yami yayiwumphumela wokungabizi kakhulu nokungahambelani.

Ubudlelwano bakho nomenzi wezinwele ungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu owake waba nazo

Kuze kube ngiqala ukusebenza isikhathi esigcwele, ngingahlola i-Craigslist ukuze ngisike mahhala, ngincike kubaqeqeshwayo abadinga amamodeli, noma ngibheke izindawo zebhajethi ezingaphansi kwe- $ 20. Cishe njalo, ngangishiya i-salon ngizizwa sengathi ngigqoke isikhumba somunye umuntu.

Ukube nje othile ubengitshele lokhu: Ubudlelwano bakho nomqobi wezinwele zakho bufana nobudlelwano bakho nodokotela wakho. Ukuhambela okumbalwa kokuqala kunzima noma kuyadingeka, njengoba bekwazi.

Ekugcineni, bazokwazi ukugudluza izitayela ezihambisana nobuso bakho, imikhiqizo emihle yempilo yezinwele zakho, nokwehla nokwehla kwempilo yakho.

Kepha ngaphambi kokuthi ngifunde lokho, nganginomlando omude wokungazethembi izitayela zami zezinwele. Ngilethe isithombe kuzo zonke izikhathi. Bangs? Zooey Deschanel. Izinwele ezinde emahlombe? U-Alexa Chung. Izinhla? Imodeli ethile ye-Instagram. Engangikusho ngempela kwakungu… “Ngenze ngibukeke njengaye.”

Kwaze kwaba yiminyaka emibili ngivela ekolishi lapho nganquma khona ukukhokhela ukunqunywa kwezinwele okungama- $ 60, njengoba lowo owayeqeqeshwa ngaphambili ayesenesikhathi esigcwele. Ezikhathini ezimbalwa zokuqala, ngilethe izithombe zeminye imisebenzi yezinwele zezinwele. Kwathi ngolunye usuku, ngenkathi nginesithombe se-YouTuber esigcinwe ocingweni lwami, ukukhathazeka kwami ​​kwangena.

Ngethuka kakhulu ngaqala ukujuluka. Kuthiwani uma bengimthuka njalo uma ngikhombisa isithombe? Kuthiwani uma zonke izitayela zezinwele engake ngaya kuzo nazo zathukwa?

Ngakho-ke ngamtshela, "Unganqamuli kakhulu," futhi ngagcina isithombe sifihliwe.

Angisazibonisi izithombe kuNora. Eqinisweni, angibonisi muntu izibonelo ngaphambi kokuba ngigunde izinwele zami, okuholele ekuphawuleni okumbalwa njengokuthi, "Lokho akubukeki njengesithombe ongibonise sona."

Kimi, ingezwe ekudumazekeni okuncane futhi akukho okulindelwe ukubukeka njenge-Alexa Chung. Ngiyalithanda iqiniso lokuthi ngibukeka njengami, noma ngabe kungithathe iminyaka eminingana ukwamukela.

Ngilalele, kuthiwani uma ukwelashwa kwezinwele kungasiza ekwehliseni usizi olusalayo?

Ukunakekelwa kwezinwele njengokwelapha kufanele kutholakale isikweletu esithe xaxa. Kimina, ukukhuluma nabangani akuvele kukusike kwesinye isikhathi. Ukuthenga kungokwesikhashana kakhulu futhi ngiyesaba ukuthola umelaphi. Kodwa ukugunda izinwele?

Ukuzicheba kimi kufana nokwelashwa kwezinkulumo, ukwelashwa okudayiswayo, nokuzinakekela okugoqelwa kuseshini yamahora amabili yokuphephela okungaxhunyiwe. Yebo, ngiyacela. A ngempela ukugunda izinwele okuhle kungangihlala isikhathi eside kunezinyanga ezintathu, uma kusikwe kahle. Futhi, ekupheleni kosuku, umlobi wezinwele zakho ufana nomelaphi wakho funa -umuntu ohlale eseceleni kwakho, noma ngabe indaba yakho isendle kangakanani.

Ngangithandana nomfana ophulula izinwele zami ngaso sonke isikhathi, esidlangalaleni nasekhaya. Ezinyangeni ezintathu kamuva, ngathola ukuthi naye - ngokushoda kwesichasiso esingcono - ephulula izinwele zabanye abantu. Ngenkathi ethatha isinqumo sokuthi ngabe ubudlelwane bekufanele yini bulandelwe, uMarie Kondō wafika engqondweni.

Encwadini ethi “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up,” uthi: “Indlela enhle yokukhetha ukuthi yini okufanele uyigcine nokuthi yini okufanele uyilahle ukuthi ukugcina kuzokujabulisa yini noma cha.

Ngakho ngahlukana naye. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezansi komgwaqo, umngani wami wangiphulula izinwele njengehlaya. Esikhundleni sokuhleka, engangikuzwa nje kwakuwukudabuka okukhulu. Kwaze kwaphela izinyanga eziyisithupha kamuva, ngokushintshela eqenjini elisha emsebenzini, lapho ngazizwa sengathi kwakuyisikhathi sokunqamula okwedlule futhi ngiqale kabusha.

UNora wangiphuca izinyanga eziyisithupha emahlombe ami, wabuye wakhipha amathoni ama-oranges ami e-brassy waba nsundu-ehlobo, wangikhuhla ikhanda lami, futhi wakhipha inkungu enephunga elimnandi ngezinwele zami ezazisanda kusikwa. Kwakulula futhi kulula ukuphatha, futhi ngangizizwa njengomuntu omusha sha.

Ingxenye engiyithandayo manje isebenzisa iminwe yami lapho kwakukhona izingqimba ezindala. Esikhundleni sezinkumbulo nemizwa, kungumoya nje.

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