Lo Mqeqeshi Uzame Ukwenza Umzimba Wamahloni Owesifazane Ekuthengeni Izinsizakalo Zakhe

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Ukuncipha kwesisindo kwaba yinto yokugcina emqondweni kaCassie Young lapho isoka lakhe leminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye limcela ukuba ashade naye. Kepha ngemuva nje kokumemezela ukuzibandakanya kwakhe, umqondisi wedijithali oneminyaka engu-31 eThe Bert Show wacelwa ngumqeqeshi kuTwitter owacela ukumsiza "abumbe," usuku lwakhe olukhulu.

Ekuqaleni, uCassie wenqaba ngesizotha, kodwa le ndoda yaqhubeka nokuphusha izinkonzo zayo kuye. Ekugcineni kwafika lapho uCassie ezwa khona ehlazeka futhi wanquma ukwabelana ngokuxhumana ku-Facebook ukuze abhekele ukuhlazeka komzimba. (Okuhlobene: Abantu Bangena Ku-Twitter Ukuyokwabelana Ngokuqala Babenamahloni Ngomzimba)

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"Siyakuhalalisela ngokuzibandakanya kwakho," kubhala le ndoda, uCassie akhethe ukuyigcina iyimfihlo. Uqhube ngokubhala imininingwane yakhe ecela uCassie ukuthi amqashe ukuze ehlise isisindo somshado wakhe.

Engacabangi lutho ngakho, uCassie waphendula: "Ngisesimweni esihle! Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngesipho, kodwa."

Leyo bekungaba yindawo enhle yokuqeda ingxoxo, kepha le ndoda yamthinta futhi, yamcindezela ukuthi anciphise isisindo. (Kuhlobene: UJulianne Hough Akanaso Intshisekelo Yokudla Ngaphambi Komshado Wakhe)

“Ngiyazi ukuthi ufuna ukubukeka umuhle ngosuku lwakho lomshado,” ubhale kanje. "Uma ungangiqashi, qasha umuntu. Lezo zithombe zadlula amakhulu eminyaka. Izingane zezingane zezingane zakho zisazoba nazo lezo zithombe."

Ethuswe yimpendulo, uCassie wanquma ukuzimela watshela le ndoda ngokulwa kwakhe nomzimba, enethemba lokuthi lokho kuzomenza ayishiye yodwa. “Ngiyazi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kunzima ukuthi ukuqonde lokhu, kodwa kungithathe isikhathi eside ukuthi ngithande umzimba wami,” kubhala yena. "Ngihlala nginamahloni noma ngikhunjuzwa ukuthi ngisinda futhi kufanele ngibe namahloni-noma abantu babe namahloni ngami - noma bavele baqonde kabi, bangibize ngokuthi 'ngiyanyanyisa.' Ngikulwile ukudlula konke lokho futhi ngiyazithanda nokuthi ngibukeka kanjani. "

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Indoda ayizange iphendule ngokushesha yathi: "Ungakwamukela indlela obukeka ngayo kodwa awukwazi ukujabula ngendlela obukeka ngayo. Awukwazi ukuziqambela amanga... Ngifisa sengathi wonke umzimba omkhulu ukwamukela abantu bangakwamukela iqiniso lokuthi abajabule ngemizimba yabo. " (Kuhlobene: Uthishanhloko Wesikole Samabanga Aphakeme Ubanjwe Etshela Abafundi Akufanele Bagqoke Ama-Leggings Ngaphandle Uma Engusayizi 0 noma 2)

UCassie wanele. “Ngiphatheke kabi ngawe ukuthi ukuzethemba kwakho kuhlanganiswe ngendlela obukeka ngayo,” kusho yena. "Ngokusobala ubeka amasheya amaningi ekubukeni kodwa uyehluleka ukuqonda ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukuboshelwa kulokho kungavikeleki."

Ubuye wengeza ukuthi, wayeyingxenye yenkinga futhi wenqaba ukubamba iqhaza emdlalweni wakhe. "Ngiyawenqaba umbono wakho wokusebenza ngokweqile nokubukeka, futhi ngiyayamukela imigomo yami yempilo yangaphakathi."

UCassie unethemba lokuthi ngokwabelana ngale ngxoxo angakwazi ukusiza umuntu ohlukunyezwayo ngenxa yokungazethembi kwakhe. "Ukubaluleka kwakho kwangaphakathi nokuzazi kwakho kuvela kuwe, hhayi ukuthi ubukeka kanjani," ubhale eceleni kwalokhu okuthunyelwe. "Ubani onika u-f * * uma uthole amakhilogremu athe xaxa. Noma ayishumi. Noma angamashumi amabili. Amashumi amathathu. Noma yini. Uma ujabulile futhi unempilo, yilokho kuphela okubalulekile."

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