Yenza ukungahambi kahle: kuyini, ungakukhomba futhi ukwelaphe kanjani

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• Ungayibona kanjani
• Ukwelashwa kufanele kube kanjani

Ukuziphatha ngokungahambi kahle kuyisifo sengqondo esingatholwa ebuntwaneni lapho ingane ikhombisa khona ubugovu, ubudlova nokukhohlisa okungaphazamisa ngqo ukusebenza kwayo esikoleni nasebudlelwaneni bayo nomndeni nabangane.

Yize ukuxilongwa kuvame kakhulu ebuntwaneni noma ngesikhathi sobusha, ukungaziphathi kahle kungabonakala kusukela eminyakeni eyi-18, kwaziwa njenge-Antisocial Personality Disorder, lapho umuntu enza ngokunganaki futhi evame ukwephula amalungelo abanye abantu. Funda ukukhomba ukungahambi kahle kobuntu.

Ungayibona kanjani

Ukuhlonza ukungezwani kokuziphatha kufanele kwenziwe ngudokotela wezengqondo noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo ngokususelwa ekubhekeni izindlela zokuziphatha ezahlukahlukene ezingalethwa yingane futhi lokhu kufanele kuhlale okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha ngaphambi kokuthi kuphothulwe ukuxilongwa kokuziphatha. Izimpawu eziyinhloko ezibonisa lokhu kuphazamiseka kwengqondo yilezi:

• Ukungabi nozwela nokukhathalela abanye;
• Ukuzimisela nokuziphatha okudelelayo;
• Ukuphathwa nokuqamba amanga njalo;
• Ukugxeka njalo abanye abantu;
• Ukubekezelela okuncane ukukhungatheka, okuvame ukukhombisa ukucasuka;
• Ulaka;
• Ukuziphatha okusongelayo, ukukwazi ukuqala ukulwa, isibonelo;
• Ukuphunyuka ekhaya kaningi;
• Ukweba kanye / noma ukweba;
• Ukucekelwa phansi kwempahla nokucekelwa phansi kwempahla;
• Isimo sengqondo esinonya ngezilwane noma ngabantu.

Njengoba lokhu kuziphatha kuphambuka kulokho okulindeleke enganeni, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane iyiswe kusazi sezengqondo noma kudokotela wezifo zengqondo ngokushesha lapho izokhombisa noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okuyela ngasocansini. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlole indlela yokuziphatha kwengane futhi wenze ukuxilongwa okwehlukile kwezinye izifo zengqondo noma lezo ezihlobene nokukhula kwengane.

Ukwelashwa kufanele kube kanjani

Ukwelashwa kufanele kusekelwe ekuziphatheni okwethulwa yingane, ukuqina kwayo kanye nobuningi bayo futhi kufanele kwenziwe ikakhulukazi ngokwelashwa, lapho udokotela wezengqondo noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo ehlola izindlela zokuziphatha futhi azame ukuthola imbangela futhi aqonde isisusa. Kwezinye izimo, udokotela wezifo zengqondo angancoma ukusetshenziswa kweminye imishanguzo, njengokuqinisa imizwa, ama-antidepressant kanye ne-antipsychotic, evumela ukuzithiba nokwenza ngcono ukungezwani kokuziphatha.

Lapho ukungaziphathi kahle kuthathwa njengokubi, lapho umuntu ebeka ubungozi kwabanye abantu, kukhonjiswa ukuthi uyiswa esikhungweni sezokwelapha ukuze ukuziphatha kwakhe kusetshenzelwe kahle futhi, ngalokho, kuthuthukiswe lokhu kuphazamiseka.