Ungagqoka Kanjani Ubuhlalu Bokhalo Bokwazisa Ngomzimba

-Delile

• Yini ubuhlalu besinqe?
• Kungani abantu bewagqoka?
• Ukuqwashisa ngesisindo
• Ukuvuthwa
• Ukusondelana nokuzala
• Amagugu nokuziqhenya
• Ukuma komzimba
• Ubukhetha kanjani ubuhlalu besinqe obulungele umzimba wakho?
• Ziyini izincazelo zemibala namatshe?
• Izincazelo zombala
• Izincazelo zamatshe nezintelezi
• Lapho ukuthenga ubuhlalu okhalweni
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

Ihlolwe yiqiniso nguJennifer Chesak ngoMeyi 17, 2019

Yini ubuhlalu besinqe?

Ubuhlalu besinqe buyinsiza yendabuko yase-Afrika equkethe ubuhlalu obuncane bengilazi ocingweni noma ocingweni olufakwa okhalweni noma okhalweni. Ziza ngemibala ehlukene nobubunjwa futhi zingafaka namatshe okuhlobisa, amakristalu, noma izintelezi.

Ubuhlalu besinqe buye bagqokwa amakhulu eminyaka ngabesifazane emasikweni amaningi aseNtshonalanga Afrika. Eminyakeni yakamuva baye bathola ukuthandwa phakathi kwabesifazane baseNtshonalanga. Zibizwa nangokuthi ubuhlalu besisu, ubuhlalu be-waistline, noma amaketanga okhalo lobuhlalu.

EGhana, eNigeria, eSenegal nakwamanye amazwe aseNtshonalanga Afrika, ubuhlalu besinqe buwuphawu lobufazi, ukuzala, inkanuko, nenhlalakahle engokomoya. Namuhla, e-Afrika nase-United States, abesifazane basebenzisa ubuhlalu besinqe ngezinhloso zobuhle nezisebenzayo.

Sizokhuluma ngezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ubuhlalu besinqe buhlala buyinto edumile yabesifazane emhlabeni wonke nokuthi ungabuthola kanjani ubuhlalu bomzimba wakho.

Kungani abantu bewagqoka?

Ukuqwashisa ngesisindo

Ubuhlalu besinqe buvame ukusetshenziselwa ukukala izinguquko esisindweni. Esikhundleni sokunyathela esikalini, abantu bangasebenzisa ubuhlalu besinqe ukuze bahlale bazi ukuthi kukhona ukuzuza kwesisindo noma ukulahleka esiswini.

Ubuhlalu besinqe abunwebeki. Ukube ubungathola isisindo, ubuhlalu buzohlala phezulu okhalweni noma buzizwe buqinile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ubungaze wehlise isisindo, ubuhlalu buzozizwa bukhululekile bese buwela phansi kuze kube sezinqeni.

Ngokungafani nezinombolo esikalini, ubuhlalu besinqe buhambisana kakhulu nokuzethemba komzimba. Abesifazane bazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu bangakwazi ukugqoka ngobuhlalu ubuhlalu ukuhlobisa imizimba yabo.

Kukhona ngisho nobuhlalu besinqe obuguquguqukayo obutholakalayo uma ungafuni ukuthi ubuhlalu bulingane ngokuhlukile kususelwa kusisindo sakho noma izinguquko ezifana nokuqunjelwa.

Ukuvuthwa

Ezingxenyeni zomhlaba lapho ubuhlalu bezinkalo kuyisiko lamasiko, ubuhlalu buvame ukuhlotshaniswa nobufazi, ukukhula, nokukhula.

EGhana, izingane ngokwesiko zihlotshiswe ngobuhlalu besinqe phakathi nemikhosi yazo yokuqanjwa kwamagama. Amantombazane kuphela, nokho, aqhubeka nokufaka ubuhlalu njengoba ekhula.

Emasikweni amaningi aseNtshonalanga Afrika, omama babopha ubuhlalu okhalweni emadodakazini ngesikhathi sabo sokuqala ukuya esikhathini ukukhombisa ukuthi badlulela ebufazini.

Ukuphuma kobuhlalu besinqe kungabonakalisa ukuguqukela esigabeni esisha sempilo. Ubuhlalu obufakwa yintombazane ngesikhathi sokuthomba buzohluka kobuhlalu abufaka ngemuva kwengane yakhe yokuqala, isibonelo.

Ukusondelana nokuzala

Abesifazane abaningi emhlabeni wonke basebenzisa ubuhlalu besinqe ezindaweni eziseduze ukuthuthukisa inkanuko yabo. Ubuhlalu besinqe bungase buhlotshaniswe kakhulu nokuzala. Abanye besifazane bagqoka ubuhlalu obuthile ngesikhathi socansi lapho bezama ukukhulelwa.

Phakathi kwamasiko ama-Ashante namaKrobo eGhana, ubuhlalu obukhulu noma izinsimbi ziyangezwa ebuhlalu besifazane okhalweni uma esevundile ngakho-ke wenza umsindo lapho ehamba eyokwazisa abangase babe ngabasondelene naye eduze.

Kwamanye amasiko, ubuhlalu besinqe bugqokwa ngaphansi kwezingubo zokubonwa yilowo ozigqokile nabalingani bakhe abakhethiwe, ngokufana nesethi yangaphansi yangaphansi ekhethekile.

Ubuhlalu obukhethekile besinqe buyatholakala nakwabesifazane abakhulelwe. Kucatshangwa ukuthi zivikela umama nengane ekhulayo.

Amagugu nokuziqhenya

Ngenkathi abesifazane bazo zonke izinhlanga nezinhlanga begqoka ubuhlalu besinqe, le nsiza inemvelaphi yase-Afrika ngokungangabazeki. Ubuhlalu besinqe buyindlela ethandwayo yabesifazane abaMnyama abahlala kwamanye amazwe ukuze baxhumane nokhokho babo futhi bagubhe amagugu abo namasiko abo.

Namuhla, ukusetshenziswa kobuhlalu besinqe ngabesifazane abaMnyama nabamaBrown eNtshonalanga sekuguquke kwaba yisiko labo ngokwalo, elibonisa isipiliyoni se-diasporic.

Abesifazane abaningi base-diaspora abanalo ulwazi oluqondile ngohlu lwabo lozalo lwaseNtshonalanga Afrika ngenxa yokuhweba ngezigqila e-transatlantic. Ukubuyisa ubuhlalu besinqe futhi kusho ukuthi abesifazane abaMnyama bangabuyisa ithuba lokuhamba ezinyathelweni zokhokho babo. Ubuhlalu buhlala buyisikhumbuzo somzimba sokuthi ifa alikho kude njengoba ungacabanga, futhi kwenzelwa ukutolika komuntu siqu.

Ukuma komzimba

Ubuhlalu besinqe bungasiza umuntu ukuthi azi kakhulu isisu sakhe nokuma kwakhe. Ubuhlalu buyahluka ngokuya ngokuthi umuntu uhleli kanjani futhi uphefumula kanjani. Zingasebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuhlala uqonde, uthinte imisipha yesisu sakho, uphumule iqolo, futhi uphefumule kahle.

EGhana nakwezinye izingxenye zeNtshonalanga Afrika, abesifazane ngokwesiko babefaka izintelezi namafutha anephunga elimnandi ukuheha abakhongi noma ukuzivikela kumandla amabi. Namuhla e-United States, abaculi abaningi bezinwele zekhanda bafaka ubuchwepheshe bokupholisa abantu emiklamweni yabo, njengamakristalu, ukuphulukiswa kwe-chakra, noma ukusetha izinhloso.

Ubukhetha kanjani ubuhlalu besinqe obulungele umzimba wakho?

Into ehamba phambili ngobuhlalu besinqe ukuthi zingabantu kanjani. Ungagqoka ubuhlalu obuningi ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi ungabugqoka nganoma yisiphi isizathu osifunayo. Ziyizindlela ezinamandla zokuziveza.

Ukuze uzilinganise ngobuhlalu besinqe, umculi wobuhlalu okhalweni u-Anita ovela eThe Bee Stop kuqala uncoma ukuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ufuna ukuhlala kuphi ubuhlalu emzimbeni wakho. Ngabe uyawafuna aphakeme okhalweni lwakho? Phansi okhalweni lwakho? Ngakwesokudla esiswini sakho?

Ngemuva kokuthatha isinqumo, bopha itheyiphu yokulinganisa noma intambo kuleyo ngxenye yomzimba wakho ukuthola isilinganiso. Uma usebenzisa umucu, maka entanjeni lapho kuhlangana khona iziphetho ezimbili, bese ulinganisa lobo bude ngerula. Zama ukungasongeli intambo noma itheyiphu kamnandi emzimbeni wakho. Kuzoholela ekulinganeni okuqinile kunalokho ongakulindela.

Obunye ubuhlalu besinqe buhlala njalo. Lokho kusho ukuthi intambo ayiluleki, futhi ayikho into yokubamba ubuhlalu noma yokuyicisha. Aklanyelwe ukuhlala emzimbeni wakho 24/7 aze aphule noma unqume ukuwasika unomphela.

Obunye ubuhlalu besikhumba obususwayo buyashintsha noma buza namaketanga e-extender. Lokhu kungaba yindlela enhle kubantu abafuna ukuqhubeka nokugqoka ubuhlalu obufanayo besinqe kunoma yisiphi isayizi ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokuthi "kufaneleka" kubo. Esikhundleni salokho, ubuhlalu buyalingana wena.

Ziyini izincazelo zemibala namatshe?

Kunezitayela eziningi, imibala, nezinto zokwakha ongakhetha kuzo. Ubuhlalu bakho okhalweni bungacebe ngophawu uma ukhetha kanjalo. Umbala ngamunye netshe lihlotshaniswa nencazelo ethile:

Izincazelo zombala

• Okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka: ukuphilisa, ukuvumelana, ukuqonda, iqiniso
• Brown: umhlaba, ukuzinza
• Okuhlaza: ukuchuma, ukuzala, inala, ithemba, ukwelashwa
• Umbala onsomi: ingokomoya, ukuhlakanipha, ubukhosi
• Okubomvu: ubungqabavu, uthando, isibindi, ukuzethemba
• Mhlophe: ukukhanya, iqiniso, ubumsulwa
• Okuphuzi: ukuhlakanipha, ukucaciseleka, ukuqwashisa, amandla, injabulo

Izincazelo zamatshe nezintelezi

• Iso elibi: ukuvikelwa kokunganaki
• I-aventurine eluhlaza: inhlanhla, ukuchuma, ingcebo
• IHamsa: ukuvikelwa ebubini noma enhlanhleni
• I-Lapis lazuli: ukuthula, ukuhlakanipha, iqiniso, ukuqonda
• I-Quartz: ukucaca, kukhulisa amanye amakristalu
• URose quartz: uthando, ububele, ukwelashwa

Lapho ukuthenga ubuhlalu okhalweni

Uma kungenzeka, zama ukuthenga ubuhlalu bakho bokuqala bezinqe mathupha. Ngaleyo ndlela, umdwebi angazilinganisela emzimbeni wakho futhi aqiniseke ukuthi ubuhlalu bulingana ncamashi nendlela ofuna bufanane ngayo.

Uma kunemakethe yase-Afrika eduze kwakho, kungahle kube khona umculi wobuhlalu okhalweni lapho. Uma kungenjalo, umthengisi cishe angakukhomba endaweni efanele.

Uma ungakwazi ukuthola umculi wobuhlalu okhalweni endaweni yakho noma uma ukhululekile uku-oda online, kukhona ithani lezinketho ezitholakalayo.

Abanye, njengeThe Bee Stop noma iBruja de La Cocina, bathengisa nge-Etsy. Abanye banakekela izitolo zabo eziku-inthanethi, njenge-Alaiyo Waist Beads and Waists By ngoLwesithathu.

Khumbula ukuthi uma ungakwazi ukuthola ubuhlalu bezinqe obungaphambi kwesikhathi ngosayizi wakho, abaculi abaningi bayakujabulela ukuthatha i-oda langokwezifiso.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ubuhlalu besinqe bungabukeka njengesisekeli esilula, kepha bungaba nomphumela wenguquko kulowo ogqokile. Ukusonga ubuhlalu okhalweni lomuntu kungazwakala kuvusa inkanuko futhi kubekwa phansi. Ubuhlalu busebenza njengesikhumbuzo esiqhubekayo sokuqaphela kakhudlwana nokuthanda umzimba womuntu.

Isibonelo, ubuhlalu bami bokuqala bezinqe, buguqula ngokuphelele ubudlelwane bami nasesiswini sami. Ngaphambi kobuhlalu, ngangizizwa ngicasukile ngesisu sami noma nini lapho sikhula ngosayizi. Ngemuva kobuhlalu, ngangizizwa ngimuhle kungakhathalekile ukuthi isisu sami sibukeka sikhulu noma sincane kanjani.

Abanye besifazane bazizwa benamandla ngobuhlalu besinqe ngezinye izindlela: ukuxhumana nefa labo, uphawu lokuzala, noma indlela yokulinganisa isisindo sabo nokuma kwabo.

Ubuhlalu besinqe buyinto yomuntu uqobo, ngakho-ke kunezindlela eziningi zokuthola incazelo kuzo njengoba kunezitayela zobuhlalu. Njengoba ubuhlalu bezinkalo bukhula ekuthandeni, leli siko laseNtshonalanga Afrika cishe lizoqhubeka nokuguquguquka iminyaka ezayo.

UKim Wong-Shing ungumbhali eNew Orleans. Umsebenzi wakhe uhlanganisa ubuhle, inhlalakahle, ubudlelwano, isiko le-pop, ubunikazi nezinye izihloko. Ama-Bylines ku-Men's Health, HelloGiggles, Elite Daily, naku-GO Magazine. Wakhulela ePhiladelphia wafunda eBrown University. Iwebhusayithi yakhe iyi kimwongshing.com.