Ukulala KwamaLingerie Kwenyanga Kwangisiza Kanjani Ukwamukela Ukungashadi

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• Nansi into, bengicabanga ukuthi ngizozizwa kuhle - {textend} kodwa empeleni ngazizwa nginamandla

Kwesinye isikhathi, uyilokho olala kuko.

Kunwetshiwe.

Uma ungicele ukuthi ngichaze izingubo zami zangaphansi ngaphambi kokuhlukana kwami, kungenzeka ukuthi yilokho engingakusho. Noma mhlawumbe: kuyasebenza, akuhlelekile, kinda-like-a-groutfit.

Idrowa lami le-panty lingahle lihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezimbili (kungabi "ukulala nami"): izingubo zangaphansi eziphefumulayo engangizigqoka kuCrossFit kanye nepheya lokuphumula engiligqokile.

Ungangizwa kabi, ngiyiThimba le-Sexy-Time ngokuphelele. Nginomlomo wetilosi eliphakeme le-libido-ed, futhi hhayi elilodwa kodwa amabhokisi amabili amathoyizi wezocansi ngaphansi kombhede wami. Amabhokisi amakhulu.

Kepha ngandlela thile, nomsebenzi wami njengombhali wezocansi kanye nempilo enhle noma "ama-extracurriculars" ami wawungazibophezeli kuma-skivvies asezingeni eliphakeme noma asikisanayo.

Futhi ebudlelwaneni bami bokugcina, ngathatha ukuma kokuthi: 'Uma bezoklebhuka (kulungile, baxege), noma kunjalo, ubani onendaba nokuthi babukeka kanjani?' Lowo engangihlala naye akazange abe nokuningi akushoyo mayelana nezinketho zami zokusebenza. Wayengakaze abancome - {textend} akazange futhi awabize ngama-panty kagogo (futhi uma sikhuluma iqiniso, bona ngokuphelele zazikhona).

Kepha maye, ngemuva kokuphela kobudlelwano, ngaphendukela kuMarie Kondo ukuthola induduzo encane nogqozi.

Esikhundleni sokubamba izimpahla zami bese ubuza ukuthi, “Ingabe lokhu kuvusa injabulo?” - {textend} Ngingabuza, "Ingabe lokhu kungikhumbuza i-ex yami?" Uma impendulo inguyebo, ngiyilahlile.

Ngapakisha ama-waffle amakhulu, izigqoko, izikibha zebhola lasekolishi ezazingikhumbuza ngaye futhi ngazinikela kwiHousing Works, engenzi nzuzo eNew York City elwa negciwane lesandulela ngculazi nokungabi nakhaya.

Ngemuva kwalokho, ngafika ekhabetheni lami lezingubo zangaphansi.

Iqiniso elidabukisayo (cha, elimangazayo) ukuthi ngemuva kwezinyanga ezingaba ngu-18 sithandana, i-ex yami yangibona ku - {textend} noma yangithinta - {textend} wonke ama-pair.

Ngokucabangayo, mhlawumbe bekuwukuphamba okuncane ukuchitha lonke iqoqo (okufanele kuqashelwe: izindawo eziningi zeminikelo azifuni ama-undies ethu asetshenzisiwe), kepha ngaleso sikhathi, ngangiphatheke kabi futhi into yokugcina engangiyifuna ngenkathi i-moping kwakuwukuba ngigqoke izingubo zangaphansi I-ex yami ibibonile noma isithintile.

Ngakho-ke ngenze lokho noma iyiphi i-gal esanda kuphuka inhliziyo, engenalutho ephefumula izama ukugcina umsebenzi njengomlobi ozokwenza. Okokuqala, ngichithe imali yami yesonto lonke "yosuku olunethayo" kwezinye izingcezu (okuyi-H-OT). Ngibe sengithumela i-imeyili abanye abantu be-PR ukubona ukuthi bangangiluma yini futhi bangithumele ingubo kanokusho ukuzama.

Kungakapheli isonto ikhabethe lami lokuthwebula lalingaphansi kancane kuka-gogo-next-door-meets-gym-jock kanye nokudla okuncane okudinga ukukudla.

Izindwangu zami sezithathelwe indawo amasudi ezimibalabala aqhakazile asuka phezulu eSavage x Fenty (yanno, ulayini kaRihanna), izifinyezo zezintombi eziphakeme eziphezulu, ama-onesies anentambo emise okwehlosi, amabhangqa amancanyana, kanye neminye imibhalo ethize yokuzivocavoca nezintambo.

Bengingahlosile ukushintsha ama-Hanes ami kanye neGap (GapKids BTW ngoba bekulokhu kunjalo ukuthi eside) ngokuthile izinkanuko.

Kepha ngicabanga ukuthi ukuthenga kwami ​​kukhombise isifiso sokukuzwa lokho.

UKatie Fritts, umsunguli wensizakalo yokulethwa kwezingubo zangaphansi yanyanga zonke yomklami, u-Underclub uthe ukuhlukana kuyisizathu sesibili esivame kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane bathenge izingubo zangaphansi (okokuqala, uthi kungena ebudlelwaneni).

“Abesifazane abasanda kuphuma ebudlelwaneni bazitholela izingubo zangaphansi ezintsha. Benza lokhu ngoba kuyinto engakwenza uzizwe kahle. Kuyindlela yokuzibonakalisa uthando ngemuva kokuphelelwa uthando. ”

Kushumayele.

Nansi into, bengicabanga ukuthi ngizozizwa kuhle - {textend} kodwa empeleni ngazizwa nginamandla

Ngazitholela izingubo zangaphansi ezintsha njengesenzo esincane eselapha inhliziyo sothando lwakho, phela. Kepha bengingalindele ukuthi ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezi-sexy empeleni kuzongenza ngifune ukwehla nobubi bami bese ngithi amabhokisi amathoyizi wezocansi.

Bengingalindele ukuthi bangangibamba ngohlobo lwamandla # amandla wamandla.

Kepha, bese ngiyabashelela, ngibuke esibukweni, bese ngizwa kuhle kakhulu mayelana nokuthi ngangibukeka kanjani. Futhi lowo muzwa? Inamandla.

Manje sekuphele izinyanga eziyisithupha sahlukana nesithandwa sami. Futhi ngenkathi kungekho boo obusha obubona ama-diddies ami ashisayo, ngisaqhubeka nokugibela izingubo zami zangaphansi. Ngithola izingubo zangaphansi ezintsha (ngenxa yokubhaliselwe kwe-Underclub) njalo ngenyanga - {textend} okuyi sina ukusho okuthile ngezinto engizibeka phambili njengomuntu onekhabethe elilingana neManhattan.

Futhi uma ngabe ubuzibuza, ngize ngilale ngigqoke izingubo zami ezinhle, futhi. Ngoba ekuseni, kuhle!

Iphuzu eliyinhloko: Ngiphonsa ama-oldies ukuze ngiphonse ama-emojis ahlanya ngesandla ku-ex wami. Kepha ukushintshwa kwabo kunginike amandla enkosikazi eyodwa. Manje, khuphula uBey othile, ngoba leli chwane elingenazo izindandatho lifuna ukudansa ligqoke izingubo zakhe zangaphansi.

Namuhla, ngicabanga ngentambo.

UGabrielle Kassel ungumbhali wezempilo waseNew York futhi ungumqeqeshi weCrossFit Level 1. Usengumuntu wasekuseni, wazama inselelo ye-Whole30, wadla, waphuza, wageza, wahlikihla, wageza namalahle - {textend} konke egameni lobuntatheli. Ngesikhathi sakhe samahhala, angatholakala efunda izincwadi zokuzisiza, ukucindezela ibhentshi, noma ukudansa kwepali. Mlandele ku-Instagram.