Owesifazane Oyedwa Uchaza Kungani Isisindo *Ukuzuza* Kuyingxenye Ebalulekile Yohambo Lwakhe Lokufaneleka

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Ezweni lapho ukwehla kwesisindo imvamisa kuyinjongo enkulu, ukubeka amakhilogremu ambalwa kungaba ngumthombo wokuphoxeka nokukhathazeka-lokho akulona iqiniso kumthonya u-Anelsa, osanda kwabelana ngokuthi kungani emukela ngenhliziyo yonke isisindo sakhe.

"Omunye wabalandeli bami wangibuza ukuthi ngabe ngiyasithanda yini isisindo engikuso manje noma isisindo enganginaso phambilini futhi ngumbuzo engike ngawubuzwa ngaphambilini," usanda kubhala ku-Instagram ehambisana nezithombe zakhe ezintathu. (Okuhlobene: Abesifazane abayi-11 Abathola Isisindo Futhi Banempilo Kunanini Phambilini)

Esithombeni ngasinye, u-Anelsa ubonakala eyisisindo esihlukile. Nakuba izithombe eziningi ezinjengalezi ziphathelene nokuguqulwa komzimba, okuthunyelwe kuka-Anelsa kuhlola ukushintsha kwakhe kwengqondo. Esihlokweni, uveze ukuthi ulitholile kanjani inani engxenyeni ngayinye yohambo lwakhe. "Ngiyawuthanda kakhulu umzimba wami ngendlela owawuyiyo ngaphambili nangendlela oseyiyo manje ngoba nje ngikwazi ukuqonda umzimba wami nhlobo ngezigaba ezahlukene," kubhala yena. "Kuphinde kwangivumela ukuthi ngikwazi ukuzifundisa ngiphinde ngifuthsise ingqondo yami kuzo zonke izigaba zohambo lwami."

Lolo hambo luholele u-Anelsa lapho ekhona namuhla-mhlawumbe amakhilogremu ambalwa kakhulu, kodwa okuningi okuhambisana nomzimba nengqondo yakhe. “Uma ngizokhetha eyodwa, ngiyawuthanda umzimba wami manje ngoba uhambo oluzoholela ekutheni ngikhuluphale kakhulu lungifundise okuningi ngami,” kubhala yena. "Kungivumele ukuthi ngigxile emzimbeni wami ngokuphelele uma kuqhathaniswa nesici esisodwa sakhona obekungukubukeka kwami ​​kwangaphandle. Kubuye kwangivumela ukuthi ngibe sengozini futhi ngihlanganyele ekubonakaleni nabanye futhi ngithinte ezingeni elijulile nabesifazane njengami ababebheka ukuzuza kwesisindo njengomzabalazo nokwehlulwa. " (Okuhlobene: Abesifazane Abengeziwe Bazama Ukuthola Isisindo Ngokudla Nokuzivocavoca)

Lokho akusho ukuthi umgwaqo ubulula. "Ungangizwa kabi nami ngike ngabona lokho kwehlulwa ekugcineni kodwa ngithathe isinqumo sokuthi ngihlale ngihluliwe kodwa hhayi wonke umuntu angathola isibindi sokwenza lokho," kubhala yena.

Ngokwethembeka ngomzimba wakhe oguquguqukayo, u-Anelsa uthole umphakathi wabesifazane abaye babhekana “nokwesaba okufanayo, umzabalazo, nokunqotshwa” okuza nokukhuluphala, kodwa bakhethe ukufunda kukho, baqhubekele phambili, futhi baqhubeke. ukulwela uhlobo oluhle kakhulu lwabo. "Yingakho ngishintshe indlela yami yokuziqeqesha ukuze ngikubonise konke ukuthi ukuqina kuyatholakala," ubhale kanje. "Yize kwesinye isikhathi ngiya ejimini ukuze nje ngisebenzisane nabantu futhi ngisebenzise imishini engingenayo ekhaya lami awudingi ubulungu obubizayo bokuzivocavoca ukuze uzibonakalise nsuku zonke futhi uzithuthukise."

Okuthunyelwe kuka-Anelsa kuyisikhumbuzo esihle sokuthi akuwona wonke uhambo lokufaneleka olufana, futhi aluqondile. Kuzobakhona ukwehla nokwehla kepha kuyisifiso sokukhula kusuka kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho okwenza umehluko.

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