Lokho Akucabanga Ngempela Ngephrofayela Yakho Yokuqomisana Ku-inthanethi
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Ukuqomisana nge-inthanethi kungaba nzima. Uyazi ukuthi ungowesifazane ohlakaniphile, onempilo, oqhutshwa, kepha ukubeka ukuzikhandla kwakho phambili emhlabeni kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza. Ngabe kufanele wazi kanjani ukuthi ungafaka ini, ukhiphe ngaphandle, nokuthi ungakusho kanjani konke ukuze uhehe abantu abafanele?
I-BravoUchungechunge olusha Imikhuba Yokujola eku-inthanethi yowesilisa waseMelika ihlola bona abantu ozama ukufinyelela kubo: amadoda. Umbukiso ubheka imibono yabo emhlabeni wokujola nge-cyber, futhi ukwengeza kulengxube, senze olwethu ucwaningo lwangaphandle kwekhamera. Lapha, abafana badla izithombe, amaphrofayili, nazo zonke izinto ozenza kahle nezingalungile ukuze banake. Akudingeki ukuthi uguqule isu lakho ngokususelwa kule micabango yalaba bafana, kepha uma usenkingeni, thatha amathiphu athile emlonyeni we-stallion.
Lokho Akucabangayo Ngezithombe Zakho
"Uma izithombe zakho ezimbili noma ngaphezulu ukanye nomfana oyedwa, incazelo iyadingeka." —UJeff, oneminyaka engama-35
"Uma unezithombe eziningi kakhulu namalungu omndeni, kusenza sicabange ukuthi uzosihudulela emicimbini yomndeni kusenesikhathi. Linganisa izithombe zomndeni nawe nenza okuthile okujabulisayo njengokuhlala enkundleni yezemidlalo-ukuze ngibe nesikhathi esingcono umbono wokuthi isikhathi sethu sindawonye sizobe sinjani. " —UJames, 42
"Uma izithombe zalo wesifazane zinabangane kuphela, ngivele ngicabange ukuthi unamahloni futhi akazethembi ngokubukeka kwakhe. Ngingathanda ukubona isithombe sakhe sokuzethemba eyedwa enza into ayithandayo. Lokho kunginika okuthile engingakhuluma ngakho." - UJavier, 30
"Abesifazane abanezithombe zabo benza izinto eziwubuphukuphuku neze-dorky bahlala bengezwa kimi-kukhombisa ukuhlekisa nokuthi intombazane ingazihlekisa." —UDan, 32
"Ngithanda isithombe esingokwemvelo, intombazane enhle kanye nokumamatheka kwakhe okunamandla. Lokho kungitshela ukuthi akazami kakhulu nokuthi uyakwazi okubalulekile empilweni yakhe." UCarlo, oneminyaka engama-37
Lokho Akucabangayo Ngephrofayela Yakho
"Iphrofayili yawo wonke umuntu ithi iyakuthanda ukuhamba, izilwane, ukuzama ukudla okusha, nokuthi zizama ukujola ku-inthanethi. Uma uzwakala njengabo bonke abantu, ngicabanga ukuthi awuzange ucabange kuphrofayela yakho. Okuhle kakhulu amaphrofayili amafushane futhi adlulisa ukuthi intombazane inenhliziyo evulekile. " - Ingabe, 31
"Ngingadlula iphrofayili uma iphrofayela yowesifazane ithi insizwa 'idinga ukungenza ngihleke.' Ungamane ungitshele nje ukuthi yini okudingeka umfana akwenzele yona-gcizelela izici oziheha kakhulu. Uma uthi uthanda 'umfana ongazibheki njengobaluleke kakhulu,' lokhu kunginikeza ukuqonda ngobuntu bakho. " —UDan, 32
"Ngithanda lapho iphrofayela yakhe ikhombisa ukubhuqa nokunganaki. Ukubhuqa kungabonisa ukuthi intombazane ayizibheki njengento ebaluleke kakhulu yona noma impilo. Iphrofayili yentombazane ethile eyangenza ngahleka yathi ifuna 'umpheki we-rock star ozosesha kwalasha ongapheli. Futhi uma ungenza ikhekhe le-velvet elibomvu, lokho kuhle kakhulu futhi.'" –Rob, 31
"Iningi lamadoda liyizingane. Uma iphrofayela yakho ibonakala iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, siyesaba ukuthi uzosenza sithengise i-Xbox One yethu ku-eBay. Sebenzisa isiyengo esidala bese ushintsha! Faka amagama abalulekile ajabulisayo kuphrofayela yakho ukuze uthole " —UJames, 42
"Izingxenye ezahlukahlukene zephrofayili yakho akufanele zingqubuzane. Uma uthi awuphuzi kaningi, ungafaki izithombe zakho uphuza." –Umhl., 26
“Uma intombazane yenza izitatimende eziningi ezingezinhle zokwahlulela, ngeke ngibe nesithakazelo kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibukeka kanjani, ikakhulukazi uma isebenzisa igama elithi ‘inzondo.’”—UJack 26
"Ngahlangana nowesifazane owayengenaso isithombe sephrofayela nami ngangingenaso, kodwa waveza ukuthi uyalithanda idolobha engisanda kulivakashela futhi engangilithanda. Lapho ngiqaphela ukuthi izinto esizithandayo nohambo lwethu ziyalingisa, kwadingeka ngimthumele umlayezo ngokushesha. ukuze uthole okwengeziwe." -UJohn, 30
Lokho Akucabangayo Ngawe Ukufinyelela Kuqala
"Uma intombazane ingithumelela imiyalezo kuqala, lokho kuyakhanga impela. Kukhombisa ukuthi iyayazi ukuthi ifunani, futhi uma kungimi lowo, ngingubani ukukhononda? Mina ngokwami angikuthandi ukuqala ngokuthumela imiyalezo." —UDanny, 29
"Ngiyathanda lapho intombazane iqala ukuxhumana inqobo nje uma ikhombisa ukuthi inake iphrofayili yami futhi isho okungaphezu kokuthi 'Sawubona' noma 'Uyathandeka.'" -UMike, 26