Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ziqala nini ukubona?

-Delile

• Ukubona kwengane yakho: Usanda kuzalwa kuya ezinyangeni ezi-4
• Ukubona kwengane yakho: izinyanga ezinhlanu kuya kweziyisishiyagalombili
• Ukubona kwengane yakho: izinyanga eziyi-9 kuye kwezingu-12
• Izimpawu zezinkinga zamehlo nokubona ezinganeni
• Izinyathelo ezilandelayo

Umhlaba uyindawo entsha futhi emangalisayo yengane encane. Kunamakhono amasha amaningi kakhulu angafundwa. Futhi njengoba nje ingane yakho iqala ukukhuluma, ukuhlala phansi, nokuhamba, nayo izofunda ukusebenzisa amehlo ayo ngokugcwele.

Ngenkathi izingane ezinempilo zizalwa zikwazi ukubona, azikakhulisi ikhono lokugxilisa amehlo azo, ukuzihambisa ngokunembile, noma ukuzisebenzisa ndawonye njengezimbili.

Ukucubungula imininingwane ebonakalayo yingxenye ebalulekile yokuqonda umhlaba osizungezile. Izinkinga zokubona nezamehlo ezinganeni zingaholela ekubambezelekeni kokukhula, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi wazi izigaba ezithile njengoba ingane yakho ikhula futhi nombono wayo uvuthwa.

Ukubona kwengane yakho: Usanda kuzalwa kuya ezinyangeni ezi-4

Lapho ingane yakho izalwa, babheka kuwe nezwe elibazungezile ngamehlo alufifi. Bangakwazi ukugxila kahle ezintweni eziphakathi kwamasentimitha angu-8 no-10 kude nobuso babo. Yilokho nje ibanga elifanele ukuthi ingane yakho ibone ubuso bakho njengoba ubashutheka ezandleni zakho.

Ngemuva kobumnyama besibeletho sakho, umhlaba uyindawo ekhanyayo, evuselelayo. Ekuqaleni, kuzoba nzima enganeni yakho ukulandelela phakathi kwezinto ezahlukahlukene, noma ngisho nokuhlukanisa izinto. Kepha lokhu ngeke kuhlale.

Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuqala zengane yakho, amehlo azoqala ukusebenza ngokubambisana kahle kakhulu. Kepha ukusebenzisana kungaba yinkohliso, futhi ungaqaphela ukuthi iso elilodwa libonakala lizulazula, noma womabili amehlo abonakala ewele. Ezimweni eziningi, lokhu kuvamile.

Uma uqhubeka uqaphele ukuthi iso elilodwa ngokukhethekile libukeka libheke ngaphakathi noma ngaphandle kaningi, kufanelekile ukukhuluma nodokotela wezingane ngalo ohambweni lwakho olulandelayo.

Ungase futhi uqaphele ukuthi ingane yakho ithuthuka ukuhlangana kwamehlo, ikakhulukazi uma ubuka amehlo abo elandelela into ehambayo bese izandla zabo bezilula.

Yize kungaziwa ukuthi abantwana bangahlukanisa kanjani imibala ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, umbono wemibala kungenzeka ungakakhuli ngokugcwele kulesi sigaba, futhi ingane yakho izohlomula ngemibala egqamile kumathoyizi nasezingubeni zabo.

Cishe amasonto ayisishiyagalombili ubudala, izingane eziningi zingagxila kalula ebusweni babazali bazo.

Cishe izinyanga ezintathu, amehlo engane yakho kufanele alandele izinto nxazonke. Uma unyakazisa ithoyizi elinemibala egqamile eduze kwengane yakho, kufanele ukwazi ukubona amehlo abo elandela ukunyakaza kwayo nezandla zabo zifinyelela ukuyibamba.

Zijwayeze ukukhuluma nengane yakho futhi ukhombe izinto ozibonayo.

Ukubona kwengane yakho: izinyanga ezinhlanu kuya kweziyisishiyagalombili

Ukubona kwengane yakho kuzoqhubeka nokukhula kahle kulezi zinyanga. Bazoqala ukuthuthukisa amakhono amasha, kufaka phakathi ukuqonda okujulile. Leli khono lokunquma ukuthi into isondele noma ikude kangakanani nento isuselwe ezintweni eziyizungezile akuyona into ingane yakho engayenza lapho izalwa.

Imvamisa, amehlo engane awasebenzi kahle ngokwanele ndawonye kuze kube cishe izinyanga ezinhlanu. Ngaleso sikhathi, amehlo abo angakha umbono we-3-D womhlaba abazowudinga ukuqala ukubona izinto ngokujula.

Ukusebenzisana okuthuthukisiwe kwamehlo nesandla kusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ibone okuthile okuthokozisayo, ikucoshe, iyiguqule, futhi ikuhlole ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene. Ingane yakho izothanda ukubheka ubuso bakho, kodwa futhi ingahle ibe nentshisekelo yokubuka izincwadi ezinezinto ezijwayelekile.

Izingane eziningi ziqala ukukhasa noma ngenye indlela zihamba cishe izinyanga eziyi-8 noma kunjalo. Ukuba ngumakhalekhukhwini kuzosiza ingane yakho ukuthi iqhubeke nokuthuthukisa ukuhlangana kwayo ngesandla-iso-umzimba.

Ngalesi sikhathi, umbono wombala wengane yakho nawo uzothuthuka. Thatha ingane yakho uyise ezindaweni ezintsha, ezithokozisayo, bese uqhubeka ukhomba bese ulebula izinto ozibonayo ndawonye. Faka iselula embhedeni wengane yakho, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi banesikhathi esiningi sokudlala ngokuphepha phansi.

Ukubona kwengane yakho: izinyanga eziyi-9 kuye kwezingu-12

Ngesikhathi ingane yakho isinonyaka owodwa ubudala, izokwazi ukwahlulela amabanga kahle. Leli yikhono elisebenza kahle lapho bezulazula kusofa noma bezula igumbi lokuphumula besuka kolunye uhlangothi baye kolunye. Ngalesi sikhathi, bangaphonsa izinto ngokunemba okuthile, ngakho-ke qaphela!

Okwamanje, ingane yakho ingabona kahle izinto, zombili eziseduze nezikude. Bangashesha ukugxila ezintweni ezihamba ngokushesha. Bazokujabulela ukudlala imidlalo yokufihla ngamathoyizi, noma ukubheka nawe. Qhubeka nokuqamba izinto lapho ukhuluma nengane yakho ukukhuthaza ukuzihlanganisa kwamagama.

Izimpawu zezinkinga zamehlo nokubona ezinganeni

Iningi lezingane lizalwa linamehlo aphilile azokhula ngokufanele njengoba ekhula. Kepha izinkinga zamehlo nezombono zingenzeka.

Lezi zimpawu zingakhombisa inkinga:

• ukudabuka ngokweqile
• izinkophe ezibomvu noma ezisontekile
• elilodwa noma womabili amehlo abonakala ezulazula njalo
• ukuzwela ngokweqile ekukhanyeni
• umfundi ovela emhlophe

Lokhu kungaba yizimpawu zezinkinga ezinjengalezi:

• imigoqo yezinyembezi evinjiwe
• ukutheleleka kweso
• ukungasebenzi kahle kwemisipha yeso
• ingcindezi ephakeme esweni
• umdlavuza wamehlo

Uma ubona noma iyiphi yalezi zimpawu, shayela udokotela wakho.

Izinyathelo ezilandelayo

Ngenkathi ingane yakho ikwazi ukukubona ngokushesha ngemuva kokuzalwa, izosebenzisa unyaka olandelayo ithuthukisa umbono wayo futhi ibambe amakhono amasha.

Ungakhuthaza lokhu kuthuthukiswa ngokuzibandakanya nengane yakho nokwazi noma yiziphi izimpawu ezingakhombisa inkinga. Khuluma nodokotela wakho uma ukhathazekile.

UJessica Timmons ubelokhu engumbhali ozimele kusukela ngo-2007. Uyabhala, ahlele, futhi abonisane neqembu elikhulu lama-akhawunti azinzile kanye nephrojekthi eyenzelwa kanye, konke lokhu ebe enza impilo ephithizelayo yezingane zakhe ezine nomyeni wakhe ohlala njalo. Uthanda ukuphakamisa izinsimbi, ama-latte amahle kakhulu, nesikhathi somndeni.